This one is an easy e-mail swap for us to get to know each other and the countries we live in =D
I will asign 5 partners for starters, but if there are enough participants I will change it so everyone sends to everyone... ;)
the e-mail is easy: here are two sets of questions, one for the people who ARE OUT, and one for the people who ARE IN.
If people are especially open or really made an effort to give you honest and interesting answers, please give a heart =D
IMPORTANT: with "YES" and "NO" answers you won't catch a heart!
--> I will use the word "gay" for all our sexualities, just to make it easier for myself ;) please don't be offended, I myself see myself as a lesbian, and don't refer to me as gay ;)
IN
How would you describe your sexuality? (gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual...)
How long have you known that you are gay?
How did you "find out"?
Why haven't you told people you're gay?
Do you wanna tell people?
Is there a special person who does know?
Are there people who may suspect that you are gay?
If you've had a relationship before, did you have problems because you are not out?
Have you ever been to a gay event, if so, what kind of event was it?
Do you have a gay community where you live?
Do you know of any support groups in your area?
Is there a society you (can) go to?
Do you know gay people and maybe have a gay friend?
Are you in a relationship right now? How long have you been together?
What kind of relationship do you have? (casual sex, affair, monogamous, partnership, marriage...)
Have you ever been witness to violence against our community?
Tell us about gay rights in your country:
Have you ever had sex with the other gender?
For those of you who are... how do I put it... open-minded =D
Tell us about: Maybe your first time? That one time you had sex on the beach or maybe in the bed of your parents... :P (I know so many gay guys, all I can say is, I've pretty much heard everything... ;) )
OUT
How would you describe your sexuality? (gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual...)
How long have you known that you are gay?
How did you "find out"?
When did you have your coming-out?
Who did you tell first, and why?
How did they react?
Which reaction to outing yourself is the most memorable?
If you've had a relationship before, did you have problems with that person because he/she was not out?
Have you ever been to a gay event, if so, what kind of event was it?
Do you have a gay community where you live?
Do you know of any support groups in your area?
Is there a society you (can) go to?
Are there people you didn't tell you're gay? Why?
Are you in a relationship right now? How long have you been together?
What kind of relationship do you have? (casual sex, affair, monogamous, partnership, marriage...)
Have you ever been witness to violence against our community?
Tell us about gay rights in your country:
Have you ever had sex with the other gender?
Can you present yourself as being queer on the streets?
For those of you who are... how do I put it... open-minded =D
Tell us about: Maybe your first time? That one time you had sex on the beach or maybe in the bed of your parents... :P (I know so many gay guys, all I can say is, I've pretty much heard everything... ;) )
yes, yes, I'm a curious kid =D If any of you don't wanna answer a question, that's okay. I think one or two would be okay =D but give a reason ;)
so, all done... HAVE FUN!!!
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