Swap-bot Time: April 1, 2020 1:02 pm


Date Joined: July 16, 2018
Last Online: April 1, 2020

Country: United States

About Me



There will be a short delay in my rating incoming swaps. In addiction to the precautions noted below, I will immediately seal all incoming mail in a plastic bag, irradiate it for 60 seconds, and then let it set sealed for 24 hours before opening and handling it. This means that swaps will not be rated until the day after I receive them in the mail.

I am doing this after hearing a rumor that the recently confirmed case of Covid-19 in our town may have a connection to the local post office..


Hello All,

My wife and I are practicing voluntary social distancing. We are not going out except for necessary shopping; we are not entertaining or visiting friends and; we are washing our hands and disinfecting surfaces regularly.

My plan is to continue swapping, for the time being. I wash my hands well after handling any incoming mail. I encourage everyone to do that, even at the best of times. I also make sure my hands are clean when handling anything that is going out.

I will immediately stop mailing swaps when/if there is any reason to think that my wife or I may have been exposed or contaminated. If that happens, I will drop any swaps for which Partners have not yet been assigned and I will message anyone who I will not be mailing an assigned swap to.

I hope our swap community fares well through this challenge.


Updated: March 1st, 2020

Greetings form southern Maine,

ME: My name is Neal. It is spelled as if it were a last name because it was my Mother's maiden name. My family name could be both a first or last as well. Back in the old days, when I used film to take pictures, the drugstore would have my prints filed under my first name more often than my last.

My wife, of 42 years (and bless her for putting up with me) and I live on a country road in a small rural town in southern Maine. I retired four years ago after 40+ years in electronic work. She still works at the local hospital, but has cut back to two or three shifts a week so we have more time to do things together.

We have two grown daughters and a granddaughter. Out grandchild turned three on Valentine’s Day. She is a hoot! I love every minute I can get with her and, fortunately, we see them often. Every time we see her, even after only a week some times, she has changed so noticeably. Her vocabulary grows all the time. As a contractor’s daughter, her vocab includes words like front-loader, nail gun, plumber, backhoe, permit, staging, and estimate. As a Doc McStuffins fan, her vocab includes diagnosis, treatment, and vaccination. I enjoy that I can have an actual conversation with her now.

We also have a good friend with almost six-year-old triplets. I mind them when their Mother works and the daycare isn’t open, and on other occasions when their mom has to do something or just wants a break. My wife and I also do things with the four of them and enjoy the young ones as though they were grandchildren.

In the winter, I like to snowshoe and I spend more time working on my Banknote collection (see below). In the summer I seek shade, hike, seek shade, work in my yard, and (did I mention this?) seek shade. I do not like hot weather and, for me, hot is anything over 68F. I’m a ginger (well, most of my hair is white now, but I still have the light complexion) so I have to be careful with how much sun I get.

MUSIC I like pretty much all kinds, depending upon my mood at any given time. My current favorite groups are Pink Floyd, Warren Zevon, The Eagles, Talking Heads, Florence and the Machine, Dropkick Murphy's, Raining Jane). My favorite instruments to listen to are harpsichord, fiddle, cello, violin, sitar... all the strings, really. I don’t much like RAP or Hip-Hop as most of the lyrics seem to denigrate women.

My town has a free, summer, outdoor music series, featuring local artists. The opening acts are young local musicians. I love it!

TV and MOVIES: I don’t watch TV. Not regular TV programs at least. I use my television to watch movies and anima from DVDs. I have a large DVD collection. According to the spreadsheet listing them, I currently have 1342 titles. Over half are horror and psychological suspense. I have decent sub-collections of anime and of Wizard Of Oz and Alice In Wonderland versions and related movies. My favorite movies are the Star Wars series and the Harry Potter movies. My favorite anime is When Marnie Was There.

READING: I like to read but am not a fast reader. I usually like young-adult horror, Sci-fi, and dystopia. YA books are usually not real long and fairly easy reads. That said, my two favorite authors are Stephen King and Douglas Adams. I have read everything they have written (aside from some of King’s screen plays and Adam’s Dr. Who radio program scripts), much of it more than once. I have read Adam’s 'The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy' [5-book trilogy] more than a dozen times in the past 30+ years and King’s 'The Dark Tower' series five or six times.

HOBBIES & INTERESTS: I am an Amateur Radio Operator who enjoys contests. I also enjoy: Postcrossing, WheresGeorge, and Letterboxing. I like to fly in small plains but don't do it much as it can be quite expensive. Mostly, I enjoy working in my yard and garden. I keep flowering plants that attract butterflies and Hummingbirds and grow milkweed for the Monarch Butterflies.

PHOTOGRAPHY: I love taking pictures but don't consider myself a "photographer". They put thought and effort into their work. I just set my shutter on continuous and squeeze off five to ten shots. Usually a couple will be good. I find this method works well when trying to get photos of active children.

TRAVEL: My wife and I enjoy 'seeing the world'. I particularly enjoy our two-week-ish road trips to areas of our own country. I also enjoy traveling by rail and use that option whenever I can. It disappoints me greatly that my own country has what is probably the least used - per capita - passenger rail system of any country in the world and is vary limited because of it.

SWAP INTERESTS: I came here mostly for Postcard Swapping but I have now tried several other things that interest me. I have made some ATC’s but it will be a little while before I try swapping any but the most basic.

POSTCARDS: I look forward to meeting new people through PC swaps. I often find a short message as enjoyable as the card itself. I like getting almost any card. (See my few dislikes below) Anything that will tell me something about you or your country, town, or area.

Multi-view cards are fine for me. I think of them as like receiving several nice little cards all in one. Handmade cards are fine. I think that a lot of people miss out on some very interesting things by not wanting handmade PCs. LGBTQIAPK related are fine. Just not too kinky, please. I am straight so nude/partial nude guys don't do anything for me. I have friends who are, and friends with children who are LBG... I support them.

My particular PC INTERESTS are:

  • TRAIN cards (Diesel and Electric more than steam)
  • Railroad stations (Historic to modern)
  • Historic buildings, architecture (especially those particular to your area) Though I am not a religious person, I do like PC's of churches, cathedrals. mosques, alters, etc. They represent some of the finest and most lovely architecture.
  • Your country's currency, especially paper banknotes. A card showing your National Bank or Mint would be nice.
  • Traditional, native, or ceremonial dress / costume.
  • Children (children are the best thing ever invented!) If only the sounds of children laughing could be sent on a PC...
  • If you are a Ham Radio Operator, I would enjoy one of your QSL cards.

I enjoy a MESSAGE on the card. Just a little something about yourself, your family, work, hobbies, town, region, or country. What has the weather been? How does the garden grow?

DISLIKES: Subjects I don’t particularly care for:


  • CATS (domestic… I like wild cats – lion, lynx, bobcat, leopard, etc.)


  • RELIGIOUS (Except that pictures of religious buildings and costume are fine)

  • I truly dislike anything that DENIGRATES WOMEN… anyone, any group, even (especially) as a joke.

Send that postcard NAKED... unless it is hand-made and you are really concerned about it getting damaged. I received 'roughed up' PCs all the time. Very few, that don't have tape on them, are damaged significantly. A cancellation mark, bar codes, and even a little scuffing adds to the charm... makes them look "travelled".

WASHI TAPE ON POSTCARDS causes damage to them. While I have Washi tape and stickers, will swap them, and use them in some crafts, I am not a fan at all of it on postcards. It seems to cause problems with the postal sorting machines. Almost every PC I get with Washi around the edges is torn and/or badly scuffed with pieces of the tape loose or are torn right off, along with pieces of the card. Also, Washi and stickers take up message space and I would rather have a nice message from you.

PASTELS and MARKERS: I have gotten some PCs that were written in pastel colored markers. While colorful, they are hard for me to read. I would prefer the message be done in a good old black or blue ink pen and I can't help but think that the post office would like the address that way too.

LANGUAGES: Like most Americans (shame on us), I only really speak and read English. I knew some Spanish and a little German, many years ago -- even a few phrases of Russian -- but I have not used them in many a year, so they are pretty much gone. I know several Japanese words and some phrases by sound, from watching Anime, but can not read the language and couldn't have much of a conversation..

I would love to see a few words in your own language, with a translation in English, if you could. (especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Arabic, Cyrillic, Abugida... as I do not have the capability of entering ideograms into Google Translate. At least I don't know how.)

HOME-MADE POSTCARDS: love making my own PC's from found images. I can usually find a nice image that suits a Partner's likes better than the commercial PCs I have. If the swap doesn't prohibit it and there is nothing in your profile saying you don't like them, there is about a 50% chance you will get a handmade postcard from me. If a swap requires an envelope, there is a fair chance that will be hand made too.

I am generally not interested in DIRECT SWAPS and I will not respond to any card that I have not received as a part of a valid swap. Sorry. If you really want something special from my area, message me first.

I COLLECT BANKNOTES / Paper Currency that is currently or recently in circulation in other countries. When I get a new piece, I research the currency history for that country and the specific people and places that are pictured on the bill. I then write a page, outlining the information, to go in my album with it. I have made my collection available to local elementary school Teachers who have used it in lessons.

I also collect FLUTES and small figurines of OWLs and TURTLES


EXTRAS - While I appreciate the thought, if it isn't something related to my listed interests, I probably won't use it but pass it on. I'm afraid that I can not afford to send a lot of extras.

The best way to get a HEART from me is not to send 'extras' but to write something about yourself, your family, town, or country. I love a 'personal touch'.

KID FRIENDLY SWAPS - I may join one, from time to time, to share with my three favorite pseudo-grandkids. They are two girls and a boy, vegetarians, love stickers and anything they can color. They like animals, colorful pictures and being outside. They love being read to. They do not use video games or watch television.

I will list other likes as my swap interests dictate.

I hate to write this but...

When I started here and had read several profiles, I wondered why people wrote some of the things they did. After dealing with more than one unhappy partner, I find myself writing the same sort of thing.

My understanding of "Hearts" is that they are given for something special. It is very easy to get a heart from me. You do not have to send extras. All you have to do is write a bit of a message on / with the swap. Tell me a little something about yourself, your family, where you live, what you love, what you hate... I enjoy and reward that.

If you do the absolute minimum to satisfy the swap, you will get a five from me but not a heart. I expect nothing more from anyone for myself. I can't afford to send a lot of extras to people but I do try to write a note with each swap, which I hope people will find interesting and appreciate.

Thanks for reading my profile.

Best Wishes, have fun swapping, and Take Care!


Bhindblueeyes rated for PC - Song Not About Me on Apr 1, 2020
Comment: Thank you
Marykstaveness rated for Let's send fruit postcards! on Apr 1, 2020
Comment: What a wonderful story about your great, great grandparents fruit farm! My current favorite fruit is mango!
Comment: Thank you Neal for sharing. I to love being outside at night watching the shy. I look forward to when I can get back outdoors as we are all on lockdown here in CA. I don't have a yard anymore since I live in an apartment now, but I do look forward to placing a few little poppies pots in my window. I use to go for picnics after night hikes. Have a wonderful day. 🌻
Comment: Thanks for the email! I loved that you painted the helmets on that’s such a good idea, the books sound great and I’m going to look into them for my niece! I forgot about Charlottes Web, I might buy a copy for my niece!
suepier rated for As My Grandma Used To Say.... on Mar 31, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the pretty postcard and sharing your grandmother's wisdom.
Comment: I did really love your email. I was a scout girl too but I have never sold cookies...I baked pies 🥧 ... you know Italians 🇮🇹 🌈🙏❤️STAY SAFE🌈🙏❤️
Response: My grandmother learned to cook from an Italian neighbor. Amongst other dishes, Gram made a great zabaglione. She would serve it still a bit warm, with strawberries and whipped cream.
PeliKat rated for Let's send fruit postcards! on Mar 30, 2020
Comment: Neal, thank you for the starfruit postcard! It's a very interesting fruit, isn't it? How nice that you have such great memories of your great-great-grandparents and their fruit business! My mom grew raspberries, but just for family (there were seven of us kids), and I remember the care that she took to prune out the oldest canes each year and make sure that the entire patch was neatly kept all summer. Thanks for bringing up some nice memories for me while you were enjoying your nice memories as well! Win-Win situation, right? Thanks so much and stay safe!!
Response: G-G-Gram and Gramp ;iced into their 90's. They passed when I was in my early teens so I do remember them well.
Cindymt rated for Friendly Notecard Swap #15 USA on Mar 30, 2020
Poohtat rated for Friendly Notecard Swap #15 USA on Mar 30, 2020
Comment: What a lovely note. Thank you. I have begun puttering about around the yard. So much to do. Then this morning we get snow/rain mix. Ugh! We grow Milkweed also. Last year, I stopped counting when we found 30 Chrysalis! We had the most Monarchs we’ve ever seen.
Response: I haven't tried counting the chrysalis, but we do have a lot of Monarchs when they start 'hatching', if that is the correct word for their coming out.
Nnd482 rated for Nice Notes on Mar 29, 2020
Comment: Awesome letter thank you
Comment: Neal thank you for bringing alive spring too me and also where you like sounds wonderful . Blessings to you, your wife and Issac.
Response: Thank You. I'm happy you enjoyed it.
EchoElmo rated for 1 Page Letter #7 on Mar 28, 2020
Comment: Gosh I loved your letter, it was like reading a book.
Comment: Thank you for the postcard. Like you, I am retired and am staying at home right now except for walks with the dog. My daughter in law is also a nurse in a hospital. Take care. Hope your weather improves soon.
shellybuckmeier rated for A Note For You # 39 on Mar 27, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the fun note and extra goodies!
Comment: Will pass your letter on in the next around
Comment: Thanks for the Ahsoka postcard, I love her!!! I am in the beginning stages of planning an Ahsoka cosplay. Enjoy the Clone Wars, it just keeps getting better!
Response: I enjoy the animated Ahsoka character. She reminds me very much of someone I knew a long time ago.
marles rated for PC - Bird(s) on Mar 25, 2020
Comment: Loved the Puffins!!! I saw many on a trip to Iceland years ago but could never capture them on camera.. Fast little buggers!! Thanks!!
Response: They are fast. Wh see them often, at a distance. There is a rock outcropping outside Portsmouth (NH) harbor. Whenever we go out on our friend's boat, we go by there to see them.
Comment: Thanks so much!!!
montigneyrules rated for GEEK of the WEEK PC Swap #11 on Mar 24, 2020
Comment: I really hope we get to cross paths in swaps again. First, we all had that childhood-I was a klepto for no reason (maybe to stick it to my parents-who knows). Second, I know Dolphins are smart-that's why I think they are snobs of the sea.
Response: I suppose it isn't unusual for kids to be rebellious, but I was getting close to evil. I'm glad now that I got squared away then I did.

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HappyMom on Mar 15, 2020:


Neal - We've been partnered AGAIN for Scatts! Love your answers and cards - and when I went to rate your N card, I realized that I goofed and rated your M card on the N swap. Sorry about that! I fixed it, but in case you're wondering.... that's what happened. Have a great week!

fairypretty7 on Feb 14, 2020:

Hi ,

Just want to let you know I received the roulette Jan. pc, you are right the black bear is cute. We only ever get different kinds of lizards in our yard and the odd cane told, which my husband likes to play golf with. My stepson recently returned from Canada and he showed us footage of bears in the wild, Anisha was in awe, she is hoping to now go there, when she finishes School. Thanks for picking me as your random partner.

colleenbUSA on Jul 19, 2019:

Profile Hello #3

Sorry for being so late with this!

I agree completely on the heat, it's sweltering right now, almost 100 and an even higher heat index! I hope you're cooler there than we are here!


I have made this brief because the room where I have my computer is hotter than Hades!

I hope you and your family are well!

mellowmel on Apr 25, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hi Neal 😀

I'm totally the opposite if you lol... I LOVE hot weather. I'm cranky when I'm cold.

How's the weather in Maine? It looks like a beautiful place from pictures I've seen. The weather here in Sausalito is beautiful! It's been 75 degrees all week. I went sailing with a friend on Easter. ⛵️

Have a wonderful day.


Fabriqueen on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hi Neal, I really enjoyed reading your profile. I can read through your writing just how much you enjoy those children you are so lucky to have in your life. Our grandchildren live 5 hours away and we don't get to see them often enough. Cherish them while they are little. They grow up way too fast. Have a wonderful day! Hugs, Diane

VeronikaB on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hello Neal! Greetings from Czech Republic. You look like a good man ♥ I hope you have a nice day. Happy swapping! Veronika

JessP on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hello Neal! You spell your name the same way as a very dear friend of mine! I love it! You put a lot of care and information in your profile and I really enjoyed reading every bit of it, I feel as though I could hear your voice (though I don't know what you sound like) and you seem like a lovely person! Tell your wife thank you for the works she does in the hospital! Health care workers are underappreciated and as my husband is quadriplegic, we spent a fair amount of time in and out of healthcare facilities. I have met many and love every single one who has ever taken care of us!
I hope you are having a wonderful week! Jess

purrincup on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hi Neal! I enjoyed reading about you. Hope Spring isn't getting too hot for you. I live in Folsom, CA. We get the extreme hot. I've lived here for 5 years and I'm still not used to it. Sometimes we'll drive down to San Francisco for cooler weather.

LadySunshine on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hey there! Hope you will have or are having a wonderful day! :)


jaimierandolph on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Good morning, Neal!

I hope this little message finds you doing well! I hope that you got to spend Easter with your grandson! I'm so glad to see you in the swap!
Have a Blessed Day

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