Swap-bot Time: May 5, 2021 8:13 pm

92 Questions to Ask Yourself

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Swap Coordinator:theoriginalbrooke (contact)
Swap categories: Letters & Writing  Miscellaneous 
Number of people in swap:17
Type:Type 3: Package or craft
Last day to signup/drop:April 30, 2021
Date items must be sent by:May 31, 2021
Number of swap partners:1

For this swap you'll answer 92 questions to your partner so they can get to know you. What a great way to get to know someone and potentially make a new pen friend. It's your choice if you type it or write it out. I'll give some time so that you can work on it gradually before sending it out if you want to work on it little each day. This is a type 3 swap due to the fact it may get thick if you use a lot of paper.

Here are the questions:

If you died tonight, what would you regret not doing?

What will people say about you at your funeral?

Do you believe in life after death, and why?

Do you like who you are now?

When was the last time you laughed so hard?

Would you relocate to a place where you don’t have any family or friends?

What secret trait do you wish that people know about you?

What is your personal philosophy in life?

Do you consider yourself spiritual or religious?

If all your wishes were granted today, how would you describe your life five years from now?

What is your worst memory of elementary school?

Are you close to your parents, and why?

Do you prefer looks or brains?

What is your best childhood memory?

What’s the one trait or personality you’d like to change about yourself?

Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?

What book and movie spoke to you, and in what way?

Are you assertive or a pushover?

What is your major turnoff in a romantic relationship?

Would you do a crazy thing for a friend?

Is your job now a reflection of what you said you wanted to be when you were a kid?

Do you believe that the present is really better than the past?

Have you seen an extreme example of poverty, and if so, how would you describe it?

What realities or truths are you in denial about?

Do you feel that you’re making a difference with the way you live your life?

Are you willing to share your password with your romantic partner, and why?

How do you feel about a cheating partner?

At what age do you think people should get married?

Do you think you will be a great parent, and why?

What would you do if your parents did not approve of your partner?

Do you believe that people of the opposite sex can be the best of friends?

Have you ever lost someone who’s very close to you?

Who is the person with whom you can talk about anything?

Do you believe in burning bridges when it comes to exes?

Do you prefer someone cheering you up, or being left alone when you’re in a foul mood?

How judgmental are you?

What is your description of a perfect weekend?

Have you broken someone’s heart recently?

Are you willing to relocate for love?

Do you keep a journal, and if yes, how often do you write in it?

What are the top five things you are grateful for? 

Do you think that cheating partners should be given a second chance?

What do people constantly misunderstand about you?

How would you describe your perfect vacation?

What are the two greatest lessons you’ve learned from a past relationship?

Do you think that people can find true love online?

Do you regret anything in life?

What are three things that are on your bucket list?

What excites you the most?

When you’re alone, what do you usually think of?

How meaningful is your life?

What gives your life meaning?

What would your three wishes be if someone could make them come true?

Are you willing to lay down your life for someone, and who is it?

What top five lessons have you learned the hard way?

Do you believe in magic or in science?

What would the world be like if you hadn’t been born?

What is your definition of fame?

Do you wish to be famous?

What would you want to be famous for?

What is the greatest invention of this age?

Would you be willing to go the extra mile for something or someone?

Which one wins: reality or imagination?

When was the last time you said “I love you” to your parents?
Who do you look up to in life?

Do you give advice to others, and why?

Which is the better option: being a heartbreaker or being heartbroken?

If you could swap lives with someone for a day, who would you choose and why?

Which emotion best represents you, and why?

What do you think will bring about humanity’s extinction?

Do you feel happy when you use social media?

Will you encourage the younger generation to use social media?

If you had a billion dollars, how would you use the money to benefit the less privileged?

Which one is a better situation: broke or lonely?

When you die, would you prefer to be alone or surrounded by people you know?

What’s the lowest point in your life this year?

What’s the highest point you’ve experienced in your life this year?

Who’s hiding behind the mask you present to the world?

Is your life going in the direction you want?

If your life was a movie, what would the title be and why?

Have you experienced any miracle in your life?

Does art have any significance in society?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how fulfilled are you about life?

When was the last time you were moved to tears by a movie?

How do you define “a life well lived?”

What regrets would you have if you were to die today?

Can humans avoid being in love?

Is there such a thing as absolute freedom?

If you were given free rein to design the ideal metropolis, what would your city be like?

Is there such a thing as lasting peace?

Do you approve of stealing from the rich to give to the poor?

Do you believe that each one of us has a special mission in life? 


SunflowerRose 04/14/2021 #

Depending on how much ppl write this could be a few pages long. Which may go over the standard rates.

Maybe a type 3????

There is also atleast one question that is just reworded but its basally the same.

ThrivingWell 04/15/2021 #

Definitely agree with SunflowerRose; this should be classified as a Type 3. After reviewing these questions & answering in my mind, I imagine this would take up a small notebook or journal, for me. 🤔

Also, I do Not regret informing, that I noticed the two questions regarding, “regret,” as well. 😄

As for the concept of this swap, I think it’s Great!!! There’s a lot of thought-provoking questions. So I encourage anyone who is feeling down, to join, too. Please really consider your answers and for some of the questions, look deep at different perspectives. Hopefully, you’ll learn more about yourself and discover how important you truly Are!

kizzlets 04/17/2021 #

@theoriginalbrooke How are we to answer these questions? A paragraph? Say 3-4 sentences? Like, some questions can be answered with a simple no, for example, "Do you wish to be famous?" No. So was wondering if that would meet your swap requirement. @theoriginalbrooke And do you want this in a journal format? Or would a letter format be okay too? Thanks, interested in this swap :)

theoriginalbrooke 04/26/2021 #

@kizzlets Feel free to write however you'd like. No specific amount of words are required for an answer, as long as you answer. Some explanation would be nice on more thought provoking questions. Can be journal or letter! I know I plan to do a letter. I've also changed this to a type 3 swap in case the paper gets thick from writing! @sunflowerrose @thrivingwell

kizzlets 04/27/2021 #

Thank you so much!

ThrivingWell 04/30/2021 #

Thank you! 🤗

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