Swap-bot Time: March 24, 2023 6:18 am


Date Joined: March 1, 2011
Last Online: September 9, 2020
Birthday: December 15
Country: United States
The Blog of Change

About Me

Pack to actively seeking penpals! It's been a weird journey of life and I would like to share it with people that can commiserate and celebrate the ups and downs!

I totally miss the women that I met through swapping/pen-palling and I'm looking to gain some email/blog friends to empower and be empowered.

Favorite Books

The Four Agreements. If you have not read this book...run to the nearest library or bookstore and do something about it. This is the only book that I have in both print and audiobook that I constantly go back to for reassurance of my path and I've met countless women that have really allowed themselves to be bathed in it's wisdom. This is a life-changing read.

There are others outside of the self-help rathole. I currently found a set of awesome European Culinaria books that I cannot stop looking at. I want to see every place, try every recipe and do every thing.

I also love cozy mysteries. There is something about a book you can finish in a few hours that I just love. It totally takes you to a place while you are on the treadmill or wherever. lol.

Favorite Movies

I'm not much of a movie buff, but I have some that I really love:

Moonstruck Lost in Translation The Witches of Eastwick Many selections from Mystery Science Theater 3000

I do really love documentaries and watch them often. Some of my favorite topics including Cults/Religious Life, True Crime, Tudor Royalty, Food History and Drag

Favorite Television

Some favorites:

Bob's Burgers What We do in the Shadows Vera RPDR Dragula

I'm not into television a lot but when I commit to a show - it is true love only. lol

Favorite Crafts

I've never been very good at crafts but I definitely appreciate peoples' talent and hard work.

Are the following things crafts? Baking Gardening Letter-writing without mail art Thrifting

Because if they are - then I guess I am crafty! :)

Favorite Colors/Things

Crystals, Aromatherapy Oils, Coffee, Stained Glass, things that look like they were owned by a Grandmother, Lavender, Vinyl, Spotify, Raspberries, Lace Curtains. I just moved to a new place in NC and I'm learning that with each new place comes a new opportunity to repurpose what I own and make a house a home (d'awwwww). I've found that my stuff does fit pretty seamlessly and that my palette for this place is falling into emerald green, lemon yellow, magenta and orchid. Yeah - I don't know either.

Favorite Music

I collect Classical, Opera, Classic Country, Bluegrass and Vocalist records. I could easily collect more, but honestly...every radio station in the world plays Classic Rock and the like...there is no need to own things that I hear every waking minute. One of the things that I am searching for most of the time when I am rooting is records from The Mills Brothers. There are thousands of different pressings from them but I enjoy looking and finding different sleeves. I'm slowly starting to amass a decent collection from them.

Here is a brief synopsis of what live music was like for me when you go see live music (someday, it will happen again)

I also love going to live shows and try to get to as many as I can. I don't drink or smoke...so I guess this is the thing that I am willing to spend more money than I should doing. lol. This year, I have seen Marty Stuart, TSOL, Dead Kennedys, GBR, Placido Domingo in Luisa Miller (at the Met!), Judas Priest, various performances by the Pittsburgh Symphony Orchestra, The Savoy Big Band. I am slated to go to a bluegrass festival this week (to see The Del McCoury Band, The Bluegrass Congress, Ricky Skaggs, etc.) and I'll be seeing Radiohead, The Foo Fighters, Steve Miller and hopefully Tenacious D through the rest of the year. Along with many others I haven't committed to yet.

I love talking about live music and would enjoy a penpal that loves it, too.


I like to swap in flat mailing most of all - because the creativity of what fits into a envelope is fun. But, I also really just want, more than anything, a thoughtful letter. It can be any stationery with any handwriting and I will appreciate that you've taken the time to share your thoughts and your life. And in turn, that's what I'm intending on giving. But, I do like to share postcards and silly inclusions when the mood strikes.

I'm thinking about more email swaps again, but we'll see - as I spend so much time emailing not for fun. lol


BTim rated for My playlist in June 2015 on Sep 30, 2015
Comment: Sorry for the late rating... really enjoyed learning about the music you listen to. Thanks!
Beckyboo9 rated for Etsy Wishlist: $5 or less on Aug 17, 2015
Comment: Thank you! Love my pencils!
heyyyallie rated for New email pals - July 2015 on Jul 29, 2015
Comment: Replied to your lovely long e-mail. Hope it works out and you find the right doggy! :)
Response: Thanks so much for your email! It's neat getting to know someone, isn't it? I'll reply soon. :)
allmylove rated for New email pals - July 2015 on Jul 29, 2015
Comment: What a lovely long email, i'll reply as soon as i get a chance :)
tweetyiscool29 rated for New email pals - July 2015 on Jul 28, 2015
Comment: Loved your letter! made me smile so much :) I'll definitely reply to it asap!
Response: Awesome! I look forward to hearing from you. :)
Zindelo rated for Depression Sucks! #1 Email version! on Jul 21, 2015
Comment: Ahhh yes, good old grumpycat. Also that's an interesting thing with the movies! Take care :)
Slaine rated for Depression Sucks! #1 Email version! on Jul 20, 2015
Thraxan rated for Depression Sucks! #1 Email version! on Jul 20, 2015
beeskneessam rated for 10$ etsy swap #7 on Jul 17, 2015
Comment: Thank you so much for the earrings. They are perfect!
sunflower2723 rated for Pen Your Passion - E-Swap on Jul 11, 2015
Comment: i will try to write back very soon. thank you
NiseyB89 rated for My playlist in June 2015 on Jul 8, 2015
Comment: Awesome List!!! Thanks for sharing!!
jlburke3 rated for My playlist in June 2015 on Jul 7, 2015
Comment: Thanks for the great playlist, Jess! :)
neslihandalga rated for My playlist in June 2015 on Jul 3, 2015
Comment: Thank you!!
Comment: What a diverse playlist! Almost all of them are new to me so I'm looking forward to adding them to my list for the festive season. Thanks for sharing.
Meisje rated for Cauliflower recipe~Email on Jun 30, 2015
Comment: Thanks for sharing will add this on to my recipe collection.
BluGinhm rated for Cauliflower recipe~Email on Jun 22, 2015
Comment: This looks really good! Thanks for sharing!
GracelynnsMommy2014 rated for Cauliflower recipe~Email on Jun 21, 2015
Comment: Can't wait to try this recipe thank you :)
Comment: Thanks so much for your letter! As you know, I already wrote back! hahaha! Hope to talk to you soon!
slamophile rated for Cauliflower recipe~Email on Jun 20, 2015
Comment: Sounds really good - Thank you .

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nimithil on Oct 8, 2015:

Hi :)

Already send you messages to kindly remind you to rate me for the email penpal swap from July.

lettergirl on Jul 25, 2015:

I like Fred Rogers, too. And yellow. And stickers, which I am not sure you mentioned. I have ADD, too. And I miss you. I say we go into business together, with a line of T-shirts that state: "What Would Fred Do"? With apologies to Jesus, and the clever person who came up with the original design; I think these would be a cash cow, and the beauty is we could put our moms in charge and count our money from the respective comfort of our childhood bedrooms.

lettergirl on May 2, 2013:

Except that it's dumb that newer messages get put on top of older ones. My brain doesn't work like that. I like to read down. That's just a little fyi for you. Write my messages going down. So you'd have to end with:

You're my number one pen-pal, Jess

See what I'm saying?

lettergirl on May 2, 2013:

Nope. I got nothing.

lettergirl on May 2, 2013:

Hi there, you're not on here much anymore, huh? What's new? I don't have much to say at the moment, but I'm sure I'll think of something as soon as I click "leave comment". Let me try.

rachelcdoyle on Feb 21, 2013:

lettergirl on Oct 19, 2012:

Hi there...So perhaps I shouldn't have fired off a message like that to you. Sorry for making you hear all of my ugly thoughts. :(

lettergirl on Sep 14, 2012:

I'm leaving a message on your profile because you are awesome.

lettergirl on Aug 6, 2012:

That rad card did indeed help things. I'm not Mary Poppins yet, but your letters really cheer the suicidal gloom away, so that's something, huh? haha! Just a little serious depression humor for you there. A very little. No really, I'm doing better, and I can't wait for your letter. I got a kick out of the card, and the way you used it, and I'm ALREADY feeling the love for my next Mother's Day, so that's a bonus! :) Ok I'm at work, trying to get the room ready for the little kids who come and stare at me tomorrow morning for Meet the Teacher. Bulletin boards make me want to flee, but I'll persist. Talk to you soon.

lettergirl on Jun 10, 2012:

A letter awaits you shortly. It is probably flying over the St. Louis Arch as we speak. (As long as as we speak is Monday or Tuesday.)

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