Swap-bot Time: February 25, 2018 7:25 am


Date Joined: January 10, 2008
Last Online: February 23, 2018
Birthday: July 14
Country: United States
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About Me

I pledge to rate on the day I receive a swap. I have gotten upset over some swaps that were rated very late, feeling like the packages I worked so hard on went into oblivion. It is stressful when partners can't even bother to rate, comment, or answer a PM. Sigh. So, please rate when you receive something and PM when you are missing something.

♥♥ I'm a 40yr old working mom of two friendly and ultra cute kids, a 10 year-old and a 8 year-old. Crafts are my passion, what I do when I'm stressed out. I'm happiest when I'm with my children, husband, or making things. I also have 3 chihuahuas - our eldest Assata passed away just recently. So, along with the two little ones, my husband, the dogs, all the sewing, knitting, and crocheting, I've got my hands full.

I am half-Korean and half-Caucasian. I consider myself Asian American; I grew up with both cultures, giving me a different worldview and perspective on issues of culture and race. My favorite foods include tofu, Korean bbq, and veg sushi. I love learning about different cultures and lifestyles. I love traveling and experiencing new places. I lived in England for a semester in college and loved it! We spent our spring break in Amsterdam, France, and Brussels.


I lost my first born child, after I developed pre-eclampsia. This came less than a year after I lost my mom suddenly due to heart failure. The last couple of years have been hard, to say the least.

After a difficult, very high risk pregnancy, we finally welcomed our beloved son Ishmael. He is the new love of my life and I'm grateful for every day I have with him. He is 10 years old! I can't believe how quickly he's grown!

We also welcomed our new baby girl Naderah. This pregnancy was normal, but the twice daily shots made it pretty interesting. She is such a healthy and beautiful little girl! She's been smiling since her first week! I still can't believe this perfect little girl was inside of me!

I include my losses on my profile because that's part of who I am, as much as my two beautiful children and husband are a part of my life. Grief and joy are somehow with me everyday. It is different with everyone who has had a loved one pass away, but this is my way. With my friends, I can truly talk about this stuff and not have to hide it and pretend like everything is okay all of the time. I am not asking for sympathy, but if I am sharing who I am on this site, then this is part of it. Otherwise, I probably wouldn't swap at all. I hope that makes sense.

Favorite Crafts

As I said, I'm a crafter. I started knitting from the age of 8 and have added to my crafty ability ever since - crochet, cross-stitch, sewing, and embroidery. I make lots of general crafty stuff too - magnets, scrabble bracelets, plastic canvas, etc. I do some paper crafts too, but needlework is really my passion.

Nowadays I am knitting shawls, scarves, and fingerless mittens with sock yarn and the occasional dishcloth with cotton yarn. I am almost done crocheting a ripple blanket for my daughter too.

Yes, I am thrifty. Thrift stores and yard sales are my favorite shopping places. I've only splurged on expensive-ish yarn for some baby items.

Over the years, my fabric collection has grown a yard and fat quarter at a time! My general style or aesthetic is modern and bright. Think high-contrast and vivid colors. I also love Asian inspired fabrics. I love vintage fabrics and patterns. Turquoise is my favorite color these days, but I still love pinks and other blues. Combos like pink and brown, turquoise and brown. Yum. I love Japanese and French crafts, too.

I've been collecting postcards since college, but mostly art, artsy, beautiful, and interesting or weird cards. I love animal cards and vintage cards. I don't know what to do with touristy, cityscapes or scenic cards, so please no thank you. I do appreciate any snail mail I get lately (really, I do), but honestly, I don't keep these cards and feel bad about it. I prefer non-touristy cards, vintage cards, and some scenic cards without many words on the front. Zazzle cards are okay with me, too.

I joined Postcrossing because I love sending and receiving postcards so much. I still prefer non-touristy cards, but I just love the mail.

After making my first ATC's, I fell in love with making them! It allowed me to be creative and very detailed and achieve a sense of completion. Of course, these were for a swap, but I had to make some for myself, too!

Favorite Movies

  • The Matrix
  • Hate (French movie)
  • Fight Club
  • Pride & Prejudice (the A&E version)
  • Galaxy Quest
  • Black Swan
  • The Lake House

Favorite Television

  • Star Trek: The Next Generation
  • X-Files
  • Criminal Minds
  • Project Runway
  • Medium and Ghost Whisperer
  • True Blood
  • The Big Bang Theory

Favorite Books

  • Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
  • Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie
  • The Known World by Edward P. Jones
  • The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton

Yes, I was obsessed with the twilight saga, which led me to devour Charlaine Harris' Sookie books and many other vampire/werewolf books Some of the best include: Sunshine by Robin McKinley, Night Road by A.M. Jenkins, and The Black Dagger Brotherhood series by J.R. Ward. These days I have moved away from paranormal romance to romantic suspense and contemporary romance. I loved the Virgin River series by Robyn Carr. I love reading self-published or small-press authors as well. Two of my favorites are Roxie Rivera and Rachel Grant, very different from each other, but both excellent authors.

I graduated from college with a double major in creative writing and political science. These are two things close to my heart. I continue to write both poetry and prose, and you can find some of it on my blog.

Random Questions

  • If you could, where would you max out a credit card? JoAnn's (where have you been all of my life??), Hobby Lobby, Target (where I have maxed out a card or two) and Ikea
  • Why do you like the music you listen to? I feel a connection to the lyrics or it's just really good (i.e. Radiohead)
  • What are your favorite colors? Pinks (not hot), blues, turquoise
  • Do you collect anything? Vintage postcards, craft books, books, fabric, cotton and wool blend yarns, owls, interesting and artsy postcards
  • What's your dream job? Writer; For now, my job as a teacher is exceedingly good, something I usually enjoy and am good at
  • Favorite cosmetics brands: Oh, I hardly wear anything at all, except chapstick! Occasionally, lipstick, like parent conference night! I do love a good body wash and Lush bath bombs
  • Favorite scents: Lavender, jasmine, rose
  • Favorite flavors: hazelnut, vanilla, dark chocolate
  • Favorite magazines: ReadyMade, Adbusters, Interweave Knits, Interweave Crochet, Piecework, Giant Robot, Marie Claire Idees, Stitchery
  • Favorite piece of jewelry: a mother of pearl locket that holds a picture of my husband and resized footprints of the son we lost, a purple "tiger's eye" ring which belonged to my mother and my engagement ring
  • Favorite Holiday: Halloween
  • Favorite season: Fall and Spring
  • Coffee or tea? I just got a Keurig machine and am addicted! So send those K-cups my way! I also take tea if it's individually wrapped.
  • Where would you go on vacation if you could go anywhere? Japan or Cuba
  • What kind of geek are you? I'm a book nerd, a video game addict (e.g. Mario Bros, etc.), chess player, and Trekkie. Plus I wear a calculator watch!


  • fabric - FQs or charms
  • Japanese crafts/fabrics
  • zakka anything
  • deco tape
  • washi tape
  • ribbon
  • DMC brand embroidery floss
  • handmade sewn items
  • cotton yarn
  • wool blend yarn
  • sock yarn
  • bamboo knitting needles
  • craft books or patterns
  • unused postcards (non-touristy, animals, art)
  • Jetoy cat postcards and stationery
  • ephemera for ATC making
  • geeky stuff like office supplies, notebooks, felt tip pens, sharpies
  • handmade paper
  • kawai memo sheets & lettersets
  • Hannari Tofu stuff - so cute it hurts
  • other Kawaii stuff
  • Super Mario Bros. items
  • 80s stuff
  • nice soaps
  • unique, blank journals and notepads
  • listpads
  • address labels
  • stickers (just not sticker flakes)
  • owls, squirrels, mushrooms, birds
  • robots, geekery
  • things made from recycled or reused items
  • handmade things by YOU!

What I Don't Like or Want

  • touristy or glossy scenic postcards (not so much)
  • sticker flakes
  • images of death (skulls, the word death, x'd out eyes)
  • furry or glittery yarn
  • acrylic yarn
  • matchboxes
  • licorice, gummy candy
  • fluorescent colors
  • patriotic or religious images or quotes (including Easter)
  • your political beliefs
  • Disney or character specific products
  • anime or manga
  • lotion (I just have too much right now)
  • candy-flavored lipbalm
  • cheap or unwanted dollar store items
  • packages that don't have a hand-written note included
  • swappers that don't rate

What I Can Send You

  • washi tape
  • washi tape samples
  • cute notepads or notebooks
  • handmade envies
  • address labels
  • handmade pouches
  • knit or crocheted dishcloth
  • crocheted bookmark
  • stickers
  • notecards and postcards

Flaked on by:
@tehrenanaiis - Not the Usual PCs in an Envie
@hippiechick1955 - Asian Pacific American Heritage Month Book Swap
@madpoetics - Put a Hat on it altered PC swap
@Annelies - Christmas Card Express 2011 - angelled by @coolbaker5
@lorijean - Embroidery Floss Swap - angelled by @slamophile
@missflowers - Tiny Profile Surprise in a 1-stamp envie #2 - angelled by @nyansan
@daisiessnailmail - 4,3,2,1 fun swap


Stacy97 rated for Little "Classroom" Valentines Swap on Feb 23, 2018
Comment: Thank you for the sweet Valentines!
Comment: Great postcard! Love those fun retro ladies!
Comment: nice picks!
cbpoole rated for Happy Little Notecards #63 on Feb 21, 2018
Comment: Thank you for the wonderful tips on saving money! I definitely agree about the little expenses - they add up quickly!
Pipigus rated for Books and postcards #6 on Feb 21, 2018
Comment: Hi Mary, thanks for your beautiful Reading Woman! I feel like one. The book you're reading at this moment is a book that I'll put on my to read list. I am reading a book of a Dutch writer now, for young people. But I just read this book of Marieke Nijkamp: Before I let go. She is a young Dutch writer, but she publishes in America. Www.mariekenijkamp.com I wish you a lot of good books and much swap fun. Greetz, Chantel
Gabrielle rated for B&W postcards swap 11 on Feb 21, 2018
Comment: Great card! It is always fun to swap with you!
Comment: Hi Mary, I had not reaized you were my sending partner until I received the beautiful twilight postcard yesterday. I love it! ♡ Thank you.
LoveThis rated for B&W postcards swap 11 on Feb 21, 2018
Comment: thankyou very much for the beautiful card :)
NaitomeaMinx rated for FEB Book: Romance Novel on Feb 20, 2018
Comment: Never read this writer before so I can't wait to get started! The plot blurb already has me interested in the story! Thank you so much for sharing and for the adorable bookmark!
Response: Let me know how it goes! I love her writing!
Karen07 rated for B&W postcards swap 11 on Feb 20, 2018
Comment: Thanks! I love this card!
goinjenny rated for B&W postcards swap 11 on Feb 20, 2018
Comment: Thank you
HannahsMommy07 rated for Happy Little Notecards #63 on Feb 19, 2018
Comment: Thank you for the different vocabulary, and as an occasional smoker I do know that they all taste different, lucky strike is one I am glad to not have lived through the popularity though. As a teen I tried most of the crap brands lol
Comment: 💜
Response: I'm glad it finally made it to you! Thanks for the rating!
Comment: OH MY! What an intriguing postcard. I LOVE that image. I would have never imagined an image like this "kissing contest" one existed in 1937. Thanks for sharing.
Response: I loved it too! I'm glad it found a good home with you! Thanks for the rating and happy swapping!
Comment: Thank you!I like it a lot!
judee0624 rated for NYUP USA Only #35 on Feb 15, 2018
Comment: Thanks for the pretty flower
Camiliann rated for NYUP USA Only #35 on Feb 15, 2018
Comment: Thanks for the vintage style pc
Comment: I love new sofas....hope everyone is enjoying and carving out their spot!

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djcamp04 on Feb 21, 2018:

❤️Thank you so much for the super cute Valentine card & stickers from PF Valentine card tag! ❤️💐 Sorry it took me so long to Thank you! 😔❤️

laurieburkett17 on Feb 20, 2018:

Thank you for the neat mushroom postcard from the PIF tag!

jukejan on Feb 20, 2018:

Thanks for posting the sticker RAK, it's fun to be winner winner chicken dinner!

CurlyTea on Feb 14, 2018:

Aladyjackson on Feb 8, 2018:

Thanks for the amazing postcards!! And the note, I loved everything!

CurlyTea on Feb 6, 2018:

Thank you for the freaking awesome narwhal washi for my wishes in AWG!

Tigerlilyknotwise on Feb 5, 2018:


Thank you so much for the cute little bird stamp from my Etsy wishlist! (AWG) :)

goinjenny on Jan 25, 2018:

Thank you for the envies in AWG January. They are the perfect size!

bluesky on Jan 20, 2018:

Hi Mary, I really love the cute stationery you sent me :) thank you so much. wish you a nice week.

yvonne401 on Jan 20, 2018:

THANK YOU @bluehairedmary for the JANUARY ETSY WISH of Zentangle Mini White Charcoal Pencils!



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