jessica

Hello! I'm Jessica, 44 years old, & living in California, USA. I'm a witchy goth crazy cat lady who is beyond introverted. I wouldn't change it for the world.

Favorite Colors: black, dark grey, teal (the darker the better), & purple (the darker the better).

Crafts I Do: crocheting, knitting, mail art, art journaling/junk journaling, deco swapping

I am obsessed with World of Warcraft & will more then likely forget you exist come Tuesday reset days, patch days, & expansion release days. I'll answer you once Tuesday is over, the newness of the patch wears off, or I have sufficiently geared my tank enough for my guild come expansion releases.

Why did I put that in there? Who cares about World of Warcraft? I care about it. I also care about people thinking I'm ignoring them when I'm not - I just forget they exist.

Yes, I am pagan. No, that doesn't mean I want to change that fact.

Please don't send me religious items.

MAILBOX ISSUES
It seems the mailbox issues are finally over for me. It still takes a week or so to get mail, but that is due to the post office not me. If it says it has been delivered it only means that it has been sorted to my postal worker's mail to deliver; NOT that it is in my mailbox.

Decos & Themes I DONT Swap

There are very few themes I do not sign when it comes to decos. I thought it would just be easier to list those, then list what themes I like.

Please try not to send these to me. I would greatly appreciate it!

• Christmas (Christian or otherwise, even Christianized Yule)
• Disney
• Cutesy (Sanrio is the ONLY exception)
• Easter
• 4th of July
• Thanksgiving (US or Canadian)
• Anything Christian
• Anything promoting hate, bigotry, misogyny, etc.
• Anything to do with the current state of the US.

Do You Have Deco Themes You Cant Or Wont Sign?

If any of them are the following themes please contact me to see if I can take them!
* Halloween
* Fantasy
* Dark
* Goth
* Metal/rock music
* Norse
* Odd
* Pagan

SWAPS I HOST IN 2025

I have decided I will only be hosting color decos swaps in the future. Starting in January 2025 they will be
* January - Blue
* February - Red
* March - Your Favorite Color
* April - Green
* May - Yellow
* June - Rainbow
* July - Orange
* August - Any Color
* September - Purple
* October - Black
* November - Brown
* December - Nothing. If you owe a swap somewhere catch up!

DECOS I'VE GOTTEN BACK

I've realized I haven't been keeping up with the ones I have gotten home. I am so grateful to the folks who have sent one of mine back to me. I hope in 2025 I can make an album for them. Saying thanks tho other then this might be hard as I forget such things. However I am going to try to improve on that!

profile updated April 19, 2025

If I am not online for a few days, a few weeks it is more then likely due to my Lupus and/or Rheumatoid Arthritis. Both are 'uncontrolled'. One minute I can be fine, the next I feel like I am going to die or my hands/arms refuse to work.

I have gotten a few questions to expand/explain a few things on my profile. I used generalizations, so as not to overwhelm folks. However, here is an ABC list of my likes for those who want more.

A – Architects, Aethetic Perfection, Avatar (band NOT show), Amy Brown art, aliens, Avenged Sevenfold, Alexander Skarsgard, audiobooks

B – the color black, black cats, BlutEngel, Bad Omens, Bullet For My Valentine, Beavis & Butthead, black plants & flowers, black paper, black cardstock, buttons, Beetlejuice, bullet journaling, Blackbriar

C – cats, Chris Motionless, Chris Harms, Chris Pohl, cottagegore aesthetic, chaos, crocheting, Cheezits, cat postcards

D – decos, death knights from WoW, death, Dr Who, Dead Files, Dr Pepper, Daria, distress ink pads, drag queens

E – EBM, Electric Callboy

F - Faderhead, Falling In Reverse, fanfiction, Faun (band)

G – Goth, Gared Dirge, goth rock, gelli plate printing, ghosts, Ghost, graveyards, gel pens

H – Hellfest, Halloween, Heilung, Hell Yeah, Hell Boulevard

I – Ice Nine Kills, In This Moment, Invader Zim

J – Jonathan Davis, junk journaling, Johnny Depp, Josh Gates

K – Kim Dracula, Korn, Karen Marie Moning, knitting

L – Loki (both Norse & Marvel), Lord Of the Lost, Lacuna Coil, Ludovico Technique, Lucifer (show), Linkin Park

M – Mixed media art, metalcore, Motionless In White, Mono Inc, Marilyn Manson, Minecraft, Massive Ego, Meinhard, Me'ra Luna, Mudvayne

N – nu-metal, Nine Inch Nails

O – Oomph!, ODDKO

P – pen pals, patterned scrapbook paper, paganism, postcrossing

Q -

R - Rammstein, reading

S – Slipknot, swapping, Sims 4, Sylvanas Windrunner, science fiction, Sevendust, Silent Hill, Stephen King, Squidward, skulls, stickers (no teacher, reward, cutesy), stationery (with lines in physical form or for me to print out, without for digital), snakes, Supernatural (show)

T – Tim Holtz stuff, Tim Skold, tea for my Mom, tarantulas, the color teal, tattoos

U – Underworld, used postage stamps

V – vintage (browns, 1800s), vampires

W – witch craft, World Of Warcraft, Wacken Open Air, Wardruna

X -

Y -

Z -

I love heavy metal/rock genre. More in depth the genres are metalcore, goth rock, EBM, some industrial, nu-metal, and some grunge.

My favorite bands are Lord Of the Lost, BlutEngel, Mono Inc, Motionless In White, Slipknot, Bullet For My Valentine, Ice Nine Kills, Architects, Bad Omens, Korn, Nirvana, Avatar, Rammstein, Oomph, & Kim Dracula

I am a pretty easy going host. I know life gets in the way. That being said - RATE YOUR SWAPS PLEASE! I am not going to chase you down to see if you sent & if you're partner has received. You are an adult & I shouldn't have to treat you like you where a child. If you have issues with your partner read further please.

• CONTACT ME for any reason. I don't care what it is - if you need to contact me then do so.
• Please wait 2 weeks until after the mailing deadline to worry about your swap being received by you or your partner. Mail has been weird in the US since 2016 - even before then.
• If you have tried to get your partner to send to you & they have ignored you, they said they sent but you haven't gotten it, etc contact me about it please! I will help you get your swap somehow.

I could add so many instances where you SHOULD contact me about a swap, but these are the most important ones. I take my job as a hostess seriously; help me to help you if you need/want it.

I know I could have worded this differently. However the word part of my brain isn't working well as usual.