Swap-bot Time: October 6, 2022 2:19 pm


Date Joined: March 19, 2015
Last Online: October 5, 2022
Birthday: September 26, 1993
Country: Belgium
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8 August 2022:
After completing my open swaps I will be taking a break from Swap-bot. My 16 year old cat, Ritsie, was just diagnosed with cancer and has to go for surgery to remove the tumor. Due to the stress and extra vet bills (already almost 1000 euros just from the tests, plus another 1000 for the upcoming surgery) I can't afford to participate in swaps right now.

9 February 2022:
Last week I got my official ADHD diagnosis! After searching for what's "wrong" with me my whole life, I finally have an answer. It's going to take some time to accept this, even though I have suspected ADHD for a while. I would love to receive some ADHD positive items like stickers, motivational quotes, etc to help me in this self-acceptance journey!

Extremely important if you are sending me something from outside of the EU:
If you are sending me a letter, tea or anything else in a normal envelope:

- Just address and stamp the envelope as usual :) No extra steps required
If you are ordering something from Etsy and having it sent directly to me:
- No extra steps required, because Etsy already adds tax to the order.
- If you order from a different marketplace or website based outside of the EU, and it doesn't already add tax when you pay, that means they are not registered on the EU OSS system, and I would have to pay tax on it
If you are sending a package that you are sending yourself:
- You MUST fill in a customs declaration, make sure to mark the contents as a gift, and mark the value under 45 euros. As of 1 July 2021, we need to pay import duties and VAT on all commercial packages from outside of the EU, regardless of their value, and all gifts valued at 45 euros or more.
- Do not send your package in the name of your business, as these are taxed regardless of whether they are marked as a gift or not.
- If I get a request for an invoice for a swap package that did not have a customs declaration attached, I will ignore it and these packages will be returned to sender.

About Me

Hi everyone! I'm Josslyn, but I mostly go by Jossie or Joss. I'm a 28 year old alternative model from South Africa now living in Belgium. I speak English and Afrikaans fluently and am moderately fluent in Dutch - I would love a Dutch penpal to further improve my language skills!


I love dyeing my hair weird and wonderful colours - it's currently split dye UV reactive green and black (although it's mostly been varying shades of green and black for years now, I do sometimes change it to blue or purple for a month or so every once in a while). I also love body modifications and have a few piercings and tattoos. I love hearing the stories behind other people's tattoos. I'm also very much into the goth subculture and everything it entails.

I have three beautiful kitties, Ritsie, Mavis and Lily!

I love traveling and hope to be able to travel more soon. I particularly love visiting places with medieval history with castles and forests. I literally picked the city I now live in based on the fact that it has a castle in the city centre :D I also love viking and celtic history. I could spend the entire day inside museums learning about history.

I am the founder of The Darker Side of SB and Swapping in Belgium! as well as co-founder of the Swappers in South Africa group along with @Hoosfoos

I have a 3DS & Nintendo Switch and play Pokemon (and Pokemon Go!) so message me if you'd like to exchange friend codes :)

I reuse packaging wherever possible! I am trying to buy less disposable plastics and boxes.

Favorite Crafts

I'm into the following crafts:
* Bone wall art - I am still very new at this but having lots of fun with it! All bones used in my creations are ethically sourced
* Jewellery making (elegant beaded jewellery - see my website link - I've also just started getting into electroforming and have recently completed a silversmithing course)
* Jewellery / trinket box making - I paint and decorate fancy boxes to different themes

Supplies are always appreciated!

I also like doing private swaps with other crafty people :)

I also recently got a 3D printer and am enjoying printing fun things with it. I am going to learn how to design my own models for printing when I am done with the current courses I am working on.

Please Send

Here are some things I like if you're looking for inspiration:
* ADHD positive themed items - motivational or funny quotes, stickers, etc! For example, my friend bought my a sticker pack with quotes like "Hyperfocus squad", "5 minute memory club" with a goldfish, etc. Any fun ADHD related items are welcome!
* Anatomical themed items, especially hearts
* Animals - bats, rabbits, cats, ravens, rats and wolves
* Bones, skulls, wet or diaphonised specimens (all ethically sourced please). I also love art that has these themes
* Botanical themed items, especially ferns, ivy and mushrooms. Also floral designs in black and white
* Cat toys or other items for my cats
* Classic horror - I love Nosferatu, Dracula, Elvira, Frankenstein, Vampira etc inspired items!
* Coffins
* Colours - black, ivy / forest green, neon green (only as an accent colour), dark blue and dark purple
* Cooking and baking recipes (I am not vegan, but my mother is, so I do not mind receiving vegan or vegetarian recipes! Please check the next section though for food allergies)
* Dark cottagecore, fairycore, forestpunk, goblincore, mosscore & witchcore aesthetics
* Creepy cute / spoopy items - especially cute black cats, bats or ghosts
* Crystals (I am really connecting with Labradorite lately, but any crystals will be appreciated)
* Dried or pressed flowers
* Fantasy (elves, dragons, magic, mythical creatures, etc - I'd LOVE to receive something jackalope themed!)
* Gaming related items (see favourite games)
* Harry Potter (I'm a proud Slytherin)
* Lace and velvet
* Letter sets & note cards
* Medieval, Renaissance & Middle Ages themed items - anything to do with castles, fashion, monarchs, etc. My favourite era in history is the Tudors but I love hearing about these eras of history all over the world!
* Moon themed items
* Mythology - particularly Celtic, Egyptian and Norse
* Plague doctors
* Pokemon (my favourite Pokemon are Pikachu, Ninetales, Eevee, Umbreon, Espeon & Mimikyu)
* Postcards - I prefer non-touristy postcards with art, or postcards with castles or other medieval elements
* Runes - Elder or younger Futhark. I have a strong connection with Kenaz and Raidho
* Scents - if you are sending me anything scented, I absolutely love berries (especially cherries), vanilla, patchouli, cinnamon, liquorice, ginger, peppercorn and coffee
* Self-care / love / acceptance related items. Also items with self love related quotes
* Spooky things
* Socks (EU39/UK6/US8) - I love fun socks, especially fluffy socks or socks with a spooky, Pokemon, animal (my favourite animals, or some woodland animals like squirrels, deer, foxes, etc), geeky, fantasy or food (burgers, pizza, sushi, etc) theme. When it comes to socks I don't care if they aren't necessarily spooky / gothic themed because I usually wear them with my platform boots so they aren't visible - my favourite socks I own are fluffy pink and purple striped Cheshire Cat socks!
* Tarot / Oracle card deck - I've been looking for the perfect decks for quite some time now. I am specifically looking for one with forest animal imagery but don't mind receiving a different kind to start with!
* Taxidermy themed or inspired items (no actual taxidermy - my cats try to eat them)
* The Addams Family (I love Wednesday and have a huge tattoo of her on my thigh)
* Victorian themed items, especially cameos, filigree, damask and lace!
* Viking & Celtic inspired items
* Washi tape - I love gothic style washi tape with things like moons black cats, ravens, bats, forests, damask, cameos, etc, as well as Pokemon washi
* Witchy and Pagan themed items (I have a gravitation towards Celtic, Norse and Egyptian symbolism)

Beauty products I love:
* False lashes - interesting or really long ones!
* Glitter & gems to stick on my face
* Makeup brushes - currently looking for a small fluffy brush to blend eyeshadow, and a tiny brush for making dots
* Perfume
* Press on nails - spooky themes or black with accent details

Candy / food / recipes etc I like:
* Berries & berry flavoured things
* Caramel (especially salted caramel)
* Chocolate - any kind but my absolute favourite is ruby chocolate! No nuts or fruits though please - chocolates with other things like gummy candy, caramel, etc inside are fine!
* Cinnamon
* Coffee
* Fudge
* Ginger
* Gummy sweets
* Liquorice
* Marzipan
* Sour candy
* Sweet things
* Tea - Any green or black tea is a winner for me. My favourites are berry, ginger, cinnamon, liquorice and masala, but I love trying new things!
* Turkish delight - this is my absolute favourite treat but I haven't been able to find any since moving to Belgium, so I would love to receive some!

Please Don't Send

Please don't send me any of the following:
* Baby / children related things - I am childfree by choice and so are all of my friends so I don't even have anyone to gift things like that to
* Bath products - our boiler is only on in the morning when I am still sleeping, so I cannot bath at our current apartment unless I get up early :(
* Bookmarks - I've recently received three new bookmarks so I have enough for now!
* Cartoon / Hello Kitty / Kawaii items (cute cat items are the only exception)
* Christmas themed items. I grew up in a family that did not celebrate Christmas so it means nothing to me (when I enter stocking stuffer swaps I don't keep the items as stocking stuffers, I open them right away. But of course in these kinds of swaps I do not mind Christmas themed wrapping papers or cards as they might be part of the swap requirements)
* Colours - gold, copper, pink, brown, khaki and orange
* Dia de los Muertos or "sugar skull" themed items
* Foam cut outs (the ones used in scrapbooking and paper crafts) - the texture grosses me out!
* Fridge magnets - our fridge is not magnetic so I have nowhere to put them :(
* Girly or super colourful items
* "Happy Halloween" items or other things with Halloween specific quotes. I love Halloween imagery all year round, not just for Halloween
* Jewellery - I have my own jewellery business and mostly wear my own creations to promote my brand (the only exception is jewellery from my Etsy wishlist, or handmade by my swap partner)
* Ouija board related items
* Makeup - I am a promoter for Notoriously Morbid Cosmetics and almost exclusively use their products
* Postage stamps - I sometimes keep a pretty stamp that was on a swap I receive, but I don't really collect stamps
* Religious items or symbolism (including Gothic crosses! NOTHING to do with religion please, EXCEPT Norse / Celtic or other pagan imagery. Please no pentagrams though - pentacles are fine if the point is facing up)
* Skull and crossbones items (the pirate style - other skull or bone themed things are fine!)
* The Nightmare Before Christmas items (other Tim Burton related items are fine)

Please don't send me any recipes / tea / candy, etc containing the following:
* Fish
* Mint
* Nuts
* Orange or orange flavourant (I'm allergic!)
* Spicy / hot food
* Tea - Earl Grey, English Breakfast or Rooibos
* Tomatoes - yes I know you probably won't be sending me tomatoes, but please keep this allergy in mind when sending me recipes as I am extremely allergic!

Favorite Music

I mostly listen to goth music (goth rock, post punk, wave, etc), folk metal and power metal, with a bit of symphonic metal and neo-folk. Here are some of my favourite bands:
Absurd Minds, Alestorm, Ash Code, Assemblage 23, Avantasia, Boy Harsher, Cruex Lies, Death In June, Depeche Mode, Diary Of Dreams, Eluveitie, Elvenking, Epica, Faun, Fields Of The Nephilim, Finntroll, Hammerfall, Hapax, Joy Division, Korpiklaani, Linea Aspera, Manegarm, The March Violets, Merciful Nuns, The Merry Thoughts, Northland, NU:N, Nosferatu, October Burns Black, Ordan Ogan, Powerwolf, Serious Black, She Past Away, She Pleasures Herself, Sisters Of Mercy, Solar Fake, Sonata Arctica, Twin Tribes, VNV Nation, XIII. Stoletiยญ, Ye Banished Privateers

Favorite Television

The Addams Family & Addams Family Values, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Beetlejuice, Despicable Me, Elvira Mistress Of The Dark, Frankenstein, Frankenweenie, Harry Potter, Hotel Transylvania, Lord Of The Rings, Nosferatu The Vampyre, The Princess Bride, Resident Evil, Underworld, Van Helsing, World War Z

TV Series:
The 100, The Addams Family (original 1964 series), American Horror Story, The Big Bang Theory, Forever, Game Of Thrones, iZombie, Modern Family, Pokemon, Ru Paul's Drag Race, Shadow And Bone, A Series Of Unfortunate Events, Superstore, The Tudors, Van Helsing, Vikings, The Witcher, Z Nation

Favorite Games

Alice Madness Returns, Bioshock Trilogy, DOOM, Dragon Age, Dying Light, The Elder Scrolls (Online, Skyrim & Morrowind), The Legend Of Zelda, Pokemon, Splatoon, The Witcher Trilogy, Vampyr.

My husband and I have also just started getting into Warhammer, and are really enjoying it so far. We are playing Age Of Sigmar and are still busy collecting pieces for our armies and to add dimension to the battlefield.

RAKS & Tags

* Random fabric swatches stuffed envie to @usacricket (received)
* "I've Got What You Want" tag to @Nevermore (received)
* "I collect...send to the person above you" tag to @Purplmyst (received)
* Global Swap Tag to @piratecaptainmo (received)
* Destash tag to @notme78 (received)
* "I've Got What You Want" tag to @TeaP (received)
* "I Offer Tag - Europe" to @notme78 (received)
* "I wish for....." to @SatisHuman (received)
* Menagerie Tag to @GrrrMeoww (received)
* Menagerie Tag to @Lonestarchild (received)
* "Quick! I need... Tag" to @52901m
* Surprise Tag to @Ikat78 (received)
* I Offer Tag - Europe to @meeltje57 (received)

* Kawaii Memosheets Envie from @missxkay
* "I've Got What You Want" tag from @sjayana20
* Stamped notecards from @user2637
* "I collect...send to the person above you" tag from @mgallardo68
* Destash Tag from @Lonestarchild
* "I've got what you want" tag from @GrrrMeoww
* "I Offer Tag - Europe" from @thelocalman
* Global Swap Tag from @user6937
* Menagerie Tag from @JuneRosebud
* "Quick! I need... Tag" from @Emzycal
* Surprise Tag from @bblue
* I Offer Tag - Europe from @itsnobody

* Receiving Menagerie Tag from @pkpeace


I have been flaked on by:
* @cancerianmoon626 for Pokemon Card Swap #1 and Pokemon Pen Pal - Generously angeled by @brokenwings - Thank you!
* @threelittlebirds411 for "I wish for....." tag. They have since deleted their account


Comment: Wow! Thank you so much! I LOVE the items you picked for me!
Response: I'm so glad you like them! Thanks for the heart!
Myself333 rated for Witchy Wonders on Aug 23, 2022
Comment: Thanks for the great witchy items, Jossie! Getting handmade jewelry is particularly special.
Response: I'm glad you like it! Thanks for the heart :)
rainydayangie rated for Cottagecore Galore on Aug 22, 2022
Comment: What a delightful package! Love it all, especially the homemade earrings! Thank you!
Response: I'm glad you like them :D Thanks for the heart!
Ellmaris rated for Tea 3x3 with Friends! #5 on Aug 17, 2022
Comment: Thank you very much for the resend - I'm very grateful. I can't wait to try all those delicious teas :D
Response: I'm so glad you received this one! Thanks for the heart :)
littlehana86 rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - July on Aug 16, 2022
Comment: Thank you. I love your outfit and the milkshake looks yummy
Response: Thank you! And thanks for the heart!
Cindymt rated for Tea 3x3 with Friends! #6 on Aug 13, 2022
Comment: Thanks :)
Response: Thanks for the heart :)
colleenbUSA rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - July on Aug 11, 2022
Comment: That milkshake looks yummy! And you have a cute cat! Thanks for sharing.
Response: Thanks for the heart :)
HappyMom rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - July on Aug 10, 2022
Comment: That's an amazing milkshake! I loved seeing your photos - Thanks Joss!
Response: Thanks for the heart :)
Comment: Thank you for sharing. Your garden is so nice.
Response: Thank you :) And thanks for the heart!
Eulegirl rated for Tea 3x3 with Friends! #6 on Jul 31, 2022
Comment: Thanks for the really cool teas in yummy flavors. They will go with me to school, where I can make them with my electric kettle (as one should)
Response: Thanks for the heart! I hope you enjoy them :D
Comment: Thank you so much for your story! I loved reading it. And I love your style so much. In the past I used to buy these clothes as well, not anymore. You should really go to Graspop. It is great but trust me book a hotel, haha.
Response: Thanks for the heart! I am hoping to go to Graspop next year because my husband also wants to go to a metal festival and it's the closest one that we could both attend (Alcatraz is closer, but always falls on the same weekend as another festival I attend)
Comment: I work from home as well and I don't have much to look at. But you have a cute little balcony with those plants!
Response: Thank you! My husband decided to make it look pretty since we were home so much during the pandemic. We're both not very good with plants but I think it looks good!
Comment: t is nice to see the different views that people have. One get so used to your own office view, that it is nice to see something else. You view at home is lovely with the plants.
Response: Thank you :) And thanks for the heart!
Comment: Dear Josslyn, thanks for this awesome list! I will check these bands out for sure and I'm soo excitied, as all 5 of them are new for me. That's great! ^-^ Also thanks for the Spotify playlist, I will start listening to it right now. Have a great day! Yours, Maxi
Response: Thanks for the heart! I hope you like some of them :)
Millia rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - June on Jul 19, 2022
Comment: Thank you for sharing some pictures of your June with me ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿƒ The library of Klementinum looked absolutely stunning! It kind of reminded me of the library in Beauty & the Beast... ๐Ÿ“–๐Ÿ“š I also loved the pictures of your cat & your festival outfit!
Response: Thank you for the heart :)
annim rated for Travel Questionnaire on Jul 14, 2022
Comment: Definitely visit Finland :)
Response: I would love to! Thanks for the heart :)
Comment: Thank you for the lovely gift. Everything smells so good although I'm not sure I can ever bring myself to burn that candle. Thank you for introducing me to a great UK-based small business. Yours is on it's way in two parts. One that's coming from a Belgian Etsy seller and one I'm sending that I bought from a couple of UK Etsy sellers. Stay safe, be happy. Cathy
Response: You're so welcome! I am looking forward to receiving everything! Thanks for the heart :)
sassafrass rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - June on Jul 11, 2022
Comment: Amazing pics! The library is just incredible. Thank you so much for sharing and telling me about your holidays and show. Mavis is beautiful too!
Response: It was even more beautiful in real life. Thanks for the heart!
ariestess rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - June on Jul 10, 2022
Comment: Thanks for sharing the gorgeous pics!
Response: Thanks for the heart!
QueenHannie rated for Tea 3x3 with Friends! #5 on Jul 9, 2022
Comment: Thank you so much for the lovely tea! It is gonna be such a treat! -Amy
Response: You're welcome! Thanks for the heart :)

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nomadmama on Nov 1, 2021:

Happy Halloween!

mchesser12 on Nov 1, 2021:

for: Halloween Profile Decoration

rarjones on Oct 31, 2021:

Halloween Profile Decoration - rarjones

meeltje57 on Oct 6, 2021:

Thanks for the great Pokemon cards I received for the "I Offer Tag - Europe". Stickers are cool too!!

Ikat78 on Sep 20, 2021:

Thank you for the Surprise Tag of cat PCs! They are adorable. ๐Ÿ’–

DollyDotBoo on Sep 2, 2021:

flying jewels

This is for the ESG: My favorite picture of the month August swap

Meisje on Dec 4, 2020:

Just because โ™ฅ

Christmas Christmas


Lonestarchild on Jul 22, 2020:

Thank you for the pig stickers for the Menagerie tag!

uiltje on Jun 30, 2020:

Gefeliciteerd met het behalen van je examen!

kiddomerriweather on Jan 19, 2020:

Please update this tag in the pf. Thanks! :)

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