Swap-bot Time: September 26, 2020 12:35 pm


Date Joined: October 11, 2018
Last Online: September 26, 2020
Birthday: May 4
Country: United States
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Last updated on: 1 September 2020

My name is Evan. I am a girl 🎀. I love things with my name on them!!

🏳️‍🌈♉️📝🔮 👸🏻🎥🍄🧣👩🏻‍🦯🦸🏻‍♀️👩🏻‍💻☦️🤬🎧📓🏰🐕‍🦺

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  • I am autistic 🧠
  • I have a chihuahua
  • I got married on Friday 13 September 2019
  • I am Pansexual 🏳️‍🌈
  • I am Taurus 🐃
  • I have a degree in dance 🩰
  • I am an actor 🎭 - but COVID, so I am a writer and crafter atm
  • I drink my coffee black ☕️ and my wine bubbly🥂
  • I like to do yoga everyday 🧘🏻‍♀️
  • I am climbing Mount Everest in my house (58,070 stairs!) 🏔
  • I like play TTRPG 🎲 (like the one my husband wrote - see link above) and I am Chaotic Neutral
  • I enjoy writing letters and having pen pals. I could always use stationary items and forever stamps

July 2020 was rough. I lost my sister to AML Leukemia. Upon returning home from her funeral, I was diagnosed with RRMS. It has been a lot for me to process. I have begun being a lot more selective of the swaps I participate in and create. Focusing on RAK and Wishlist type things. Thank you everyone for your understanding and grace.

PLEASE NOTE: I am only on Swap Bot a MAX of ONE hour a day (I literally have my ipad set to disallow me to be on longer) So if I don’t get back to you straightaway that is why. Be patient, I will be back tomorrow.


  • Color: Grey
  • Number: 13
  • Emoji: 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • Word: Believe
  • Flower: Amnesia Roses
  • Animal: Mice
  • Place: Disneyland
  • Candy: Nerds Rope
  • Cookie: Russian Tea Cakes
  • Cupcake: Sprinkles Banana Cupcake
  • Ice Cream: Vanilla
  • Fruit: Strawberries
  • Pizza: Cheese
  • Sandwich: Grilled PB&J
  • Cereal: Cheerios
  • Cold Drink: Lemon Lime Koolaid (The green one)
  • Coffee: Black
  • Tea: Nutcracker Sweet by Celestial Seasons
  • Warm Drink: Warm Milk with Honey
  • Book: Peter Pan
  • Comic: Mouse Guard
  • Author: Neil Gaiman
  • Artist: Jeffery Veregge
  • Song: Moonlight Sonata
  • Band: Baby Metal
  • TV Show: Doctor Who or Firefly
  • Cartoon: Sofia the First
  • Top 10 favorite movies (because I can not pick one!): Peter Pan(2003), Hook, Brave, Tomorrowland, Pacific Rim, Practical Magic, Onward, Rise of the Guardians, Penelope, and Captain Marvel
  • Super Hero: Captain Marvel
  • Season: Fall
  • Sport: Olympics
  • Childhood Toy: Monchhichi
  • Holiday: Halloween followed by Russian Orthodox Christmas  (Jan 7th)


  • crochet 🧶
  • pen-paling 💌
  • kitchen witchin’ 🍵/apothecary 🧪
  • dance🩰
  • Napping 🛌


  • Disney 🎄 Ornaments
  • Keys - Skeleton🗝 Modern 🔑
  • Spoons 🥄 unique and tchotchke teaspoons and demitasse spoons.
  • Disneyland 🗺 Ephemera
  • Miniature toys (smaller than a quarter) and polyhedral dice 🎲

Things that make me SMILE

  • Gudetama 🥚
  • Mori 🍄 Girl 🌿
  • Còsagach - Scottish Hygge
  • Fairy Sized household items 🧚🏻‍♀️
  • Chihuahuas 🐕
  • Snails 🐌
  • Holly Hobbie
  • Otters🦦
  • Easy to follow Recipes on recipe cards 🧁
  • Trash pandas🦝
  • Anything with my name EVAN on it
  • Figure Skates ⛸ and Ice Skating
  • Orange 🧡 Awareness ribbons
  • The words “Believe” & “Hope”
  • Carousel Horses and Animals🎠
  • Hot White Chocolate (especially McStevens Unicorn Dreams or similar)
  • Vintage Spaceships 🛸 and NASA  🚀
  • Scottish things/ clan Grant 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
  • Snow White 🍎


My husband (Tennyson) and I are having our FIRST Anniversary on September 13th. We were supposed to be having a big party/reception with all our friends and family in LA. Since we only had a small intimate dinner for the actual wedding because my sister had been recently diagnosed with leukemia, so we were going to wait for our anniversary to celebrate so she could be there. Covid has cancelled the celebration and my sister passed away in July. We are stuck at home. So, I am bit of wreck. We are still excited about our first anniversary, we would love to invite everyone to celebrate with us.

Anniversary Ideas:

  • Anniversary Cards
  • Inexpensive date ideas, silly marriage stories and advice
  • Anything with our names on it
  • First Anniversary traditional gifts are Paper
  • Our wedding/party colors were ALL shades of blue
  • Our theme for the party was movies (since we both work in the film industry)
  • Anything from or inspired by our registry for the non-existent party - Link above

Peter Pan

My whole life pretty much revolves around PETER PAN. It’s my main special interest. When I was a little girl I struggled to make friends - I was a bit awkward, autistic, and we moved a lot. The book became my best friend (I have read it well over 150 times to date) and that fondness grew and grew. GOOD RULE OF THUMB: If it makes me (or you for that matter) think of Peter Pan or Neverland it is a winner!

PETER PAN things I am wishing for ✨

  • Peter Pan things from Amazon Wishlist or Etsy Wishlist links above - or anything INSPIRED by it
  • Peter Pan ATC’s - especially secondary characters
  • Peter Pan Art - If it is non-Disney your own version or vision of Peter or any other characters EVEN BETTER!
  • Peter Pan ACCESSORIES (Jewelry, Hair things, scarves, hats, etc)
  • Disney items with Peter Pan on them (Pins, stationary, toys, clothes, etc)
  • PETER PAN Ephemera with adventurous/ Peter Pan type words and things on it - printed off things too!
  • Green hat with embroidered red feather
  • Peter Pan Handmade ANYTHING
  • Peter Pan Journals and story books
  • KISSES (Thimbles and Acorns)
  • Peter Pan Notecards, Postcards and other stationery items - zazzle is okay
  • RED FEATHERS (doesn’t have to be actual feather)
  • I am making a Peter Pan ribbon chandelier and would love RIBBON in any width and length(the longer the better) or strings of trims (rikrak, pearls, lace, fibers, etc) in any the following colors- GREEN (any and all shade), Gold, Tan/brown, White/Ivory, Red

I also have a PETER PAN GROUP now!!!!!! Check it out!! Copy and Paste:




🚫ALLERGIES: Walnuts (other nuts are okay) Red 40

🚫Anything musty or smoky smelling - it kills my senses and overwhelms me and goes in the garbage.

🚫AUTISM SPEAKS anything - puzzle pieces, blue pieces especially. This organization is not supportive of actually autistic people. I don’t agree with their philosophy, nor do they speak for me. (Advocating moment)

🚫 Propaganda of any kind


I had found Swap Bot on someone’s profile on Postcrossing, and instantly fell in love. The thought of filling my postbox (and others) with Happy Mail was so intriguing. In the beginning I signed up for everything that caught my fancy. When I suddenly found my self overwhelmed with stuff. Being Autistic and a bit of a Minimalist it got to be a bit much. When I tried signing up for swaps to get rid of the stuff, I always forgot I just end up getting stuff in return. I started doing RAKs and Tags, to eliminate the excess. I am now in a comfortable place swap bot wise and stuff wise. I now try to sign up for things I would be happy not only to send, but receive as well. Aside from my group founder responsibilities to keep my group busy, that is.

When I sign up for a swap, I usually have it finished and packaged before the swap is assigned. Except for profile swaps of course. Once it is handed off to either the post box or someone to take it to the post office (as I am blind and getting there is hard) I will mark it “sent”. Once I receive a swap I leave feedback promptly. If I have not left feedback on your swap yet, I have not received it. After I leave feedback I move the swap to “archived”. Because of this I do not know if you have received your swap or not. I don’t chase feedback. So, if you have NOT received something from me that was marked sent, please reach out to me. I am always open for communication.

I am here for fun. This is a leisure activity for me. A get away from the normal monotony of life, so to speak. If I have to stress over dates, ratings and hunting things down it is no longer fun. Then what is the point? I do not take part in drama or gossip. If I am faced with either I will walk away, and most likely block the people involved. This is NOT what I am here for.

My rules of swapping:

  • Keep it as personal as I can
  • Always communicate honestly and promptly
  • Have fun

Also - I do reuse items that I do not find useful. There is a slight chance you will get something you sent me back in a different swap if we are partnered again.

I would LOVE to do more private swaps! If something in my profile catches your eye, or you have an idea for a swap, I am always up for trying something new! And I love penpals!


MissAlissa rated for Private Harry Potter Swap on Sep 18, 2020
Comment: If I could give you 100 hearts, I would! This package was beautiful & truly like opening a birthday present. You went above and beyond and I loveeeee it! I gasped quite a few times at the beautiful arrangements, packaging and how creative you are. Your skill level is amazing! Thank you so much!
GlyndasCreations rated for GAG: Disney with a Mask on Sep 12, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the great ATC. Love her!!
shirleyinCA rated for Decorated Disney Envelope! on Sep 9, 2020
Comment: Thanks for a fun Disney envelope! Do you have a source you can share for that gorgeous blue paper with the white Disney silhouettes? I've never seen that before and love it so much! Fun goodies in the envelope, too - I don't have that wonderful 7 Dwarfs pc yet so Yay!
Response: That paper is tissue paper they have in the Disney Store online.
CookieMomster78 rated for GAG: U-Name-It Challenge! on Sep 8, 2020
Comment: Oooh, yay, it’s an M&M day!!!! I love Mickey and Moana, of course! I am so excited to add these little masterpieces into my collection! Mahalo, Sis! ❤️
CookieMomster78 rated for Adulting Awards! on Sep 8, 2020
Comment: Yay! I feel like I’ve earned my second adult merit badge (first was snail mail super star)! Now, I’m feeling proud! Thanks a million for the fun way of boosting my confidence! You’re amazing!
CookieMomster78 rated for JAMS: Peter Pan Starter Set on Sep 8, 2020
Comment: Bangarang! Will get to JAMMIN’ these ATCs today! Thanks for coordinating the fun swap too!!
CookieMomster78 rated for GAG: Dynamic Duos on Sep 8, 2020
Comment: OMG 😆 This ATC is sooo worth waiting for! Thank you, sis!! I truly l-o-v-e my new Jiminy-Fig’ : best buddies ever!
AZmom875 rated for Adulting Awards! on Sep 5, 2020
Comment: Cute adulting stickers. NOW I know where you are moving from your letter. Thanks for the fun swap.
Comment: Thank you for the fairy starter! I love the paper you started this set with!
CraftyShana76 rated for GAG: Peter Pan Challenge on Aug 26, 2020
Comment: I always enjoy receiving your ATCs. TYVM!
Kirkdebb rated for GAG: Mythical Creatures - Fairy on Aug 24, 2020
Comment: Very pretty fairy! I love all the sparkles you added to her!
Comment: Hi Evan! My favorite Disney movie is The Aristocats! I love the music and the characters.
Comment: My favourite Disney film is the little mermaid. It was the first film my mum took me to see at the theatre as a child.
kclicquot rated for I&B: Mail Art on Aug 22, 2020
Comment: What a lovely swap! Thanks for the mail art and letter. . . . I will check out the art you mentioned. THANKS!
pianoheart rated for Shop Small Business on Aug 19, 2020
Comment: Thank you so much for the cute sundew terrarium - I love it :)
gerberdaisy rated for I&B: Swapbot Goodies on Aug 18, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the goodies. I have the perfect person in mind to share the Jane Austen note card with. Postcards are always a plus :)
captkristi rated for I&B: Post Cards for Everyone! on Aug 14, 2020
Comment: Thanks so much!! I hope you are doing well and staying cool in AZ!
CookieMomster78 rated for I&B: Sip & Escape Swap on Aug 14, 2020
Comment: 💙💙Me Love My New Cookie Monster Book & Tumbler!!!!!💙💙Thank you sooo very much for making me feel loved & reminding me to focus on the simple JOYs in life! You’re a bright shining star in my life!! 🌟 💖❤️💜💚💕💙🥰
CookieMomster78 rated for Flat Rate Padded Envie on Aug 11, 2020
Comment: Thank you sooo much for sharing this package of goodies! I’m looking forward to coloring some of the Disney Parks postcards! Excited to’ve received an extra special golden feather clip too! You make my heart feel so special ❤️

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CrystalZ on Sep 23, 2020:

Thank you so much for the ebook you tried to me in the Wishlist group! I do appreciate the effort you have put forth on this one.

myancey on Sep 18, 2020:

Did the record make it not broken? I was worried. I had that same record when o was a kid with a fisher price record player. I hope you have a great day!

Tricia22 on Sep 11, 2020:

AWG Sept wishes- Thank you for the Halloween pc’s, so cute!! 🎃

AlisonSwaps on Sep 10, 2020:

Thank you so much for the awesome package! The mango green tea smells amazing! I can’t wait to try it tomorrow morning. My daughter and I just cracked up over the adulting stickers. We cracked up over the “I ran with scissors” sticker! 😂

pinklilly on Sep 9, 2020:

Thank you so much for the wonderful package of lace and ribbons!! Love these, will definitely use them in my projects!! so very kind of you!!

chimerix on Sep 9, 2020:

OMG! Thank you so much for the amazing package! I love all of the trims and ribbons. The little baggies will come in so useful. And the stamped images and ATCs are super fun. Thank you so much. Aloha!

debtea2 on Sep 9, 2020:

Thank you for the adorable finished Jam.

lady41701 on Sep 8, 2020:

Thank you for sharing your letter sets with me! They are so cute and I will enjoy using them. I love writing letters and cute stationary is a must .:)

J198928 on Sep 8, 2020:

Thank you for the coloring pages love them :) RAK usa only group hugs Jen

CookieMomster78 on Sep 2, 2020:

Missin’ ya!

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