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ScottishLass34

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ScottishLass34
Date Joined: January 21, 2018
Last Online: July 9, 2019

Country: United States

About Me

Profile updated on: 7/8/19

Some pretty disturbing bullying has been going on here and I’m the latest victim of this particularly aggressive, had nothing better to do it seems, swapper @vivaladiane whose convinced she knows me as another swapper. She’s been bad mouthing, and I’ve never met or swapped with the woman. The only we’ve spoke is her reaching out in a creepy private message saying she likes nature stuff to and wants to swap with me, and that I remind her of her “close” friend. Whose obviously not that close or she’d know where she is. I’ve dealt since day one on here with so called “og-original members” that seem to feel entitled to bully newbies and harass them about being potential flankers to the point they just flee the site. I thought this would be an empowering website for fellow women artists, it’s not. It’s a strong majority of women who seem to have no other life pursuits but this site and really enjoy bullying. Which is just sad and disappointing. I tried to go above and beyond in swaps, and dealt with a international swapper rating me a one and then changing it to a 5 and thanking me for my resend when I never did a resend. I knew she received because I had the tracking number to prove it. She just got called out by me for trying to get another free swap; more recently then I’ve dealt with coming back from visiting my brother in Michigan in rehab, having been removed from two groups I had 5❤️Ratings in for all my swaps and stellar reviews on my tags. But the group coordinator of one apparently didn’t like her free handmade PIB postcard and removed me from her group after some of the rudest messages giving me her address while oozing annoyance apparently for the offense of trying to reach out and make her a nice, and I might add free to her, handmade postcard. I’ve never dealt with such ingratitude, she clearly has serious issues not knowing how to respectfully deal with other people, just read her profile, it just oozes friendliness. (Extreme sarcasm). I have a bipolar sister, mental illness is not an excuse for treating people like shit.

I’ve clicked on the swapper profile I was told should be linked with mine and it’s deleted but regardless I’m not linking any profile with mine because I didn’t earn those ratings. I earned these. This Diane chick thinks she’s some kind of sleuth on here, she’s a BULLY!

. And I’m done here...just done! To the like two people who were really amazingly wonderful to me I thank you for you kindness, maybe the rest of you can learn from them and show some kindness to new members trying to be apart of your “original members only” self appointed club.

And seriously, to Diane , wtf is wrong with you? II read about you in the forums and all the bullying you’ve done “calling out” completely innocent swappers whose only crime is being new. You create a mob mentality with your “followers”there... a lot. Your behavior is deplorable. Adult bullying really?!?! Pathetic. This place is TOXIC!!! She has her lil minions lined up to rate me ones despite what I send out. I was told she’s already tried to convince one swap partner of mine to rate me a one for having to do a resend but my partner wouldn’t and apologized saying she felt it was wrong to ask her to do that. Why she and others won’t speak up to this women I don’t know. I’ve been in tears for hours, while I tried to comprehend what would possess grown women to behave this way. I’ve still followed through on my swaps cuz I don’t care about the ratings since I’ll never be back here, I just want my partners to get their swaps. And be happy with the care and effort I put in them. I don’t want to deal with a bully. I spent the last year and a half trying to escape and then deal with an abusive ex boyfriend who turned stalker and held he at gunpoint before taking his life in front of me. I wanted this to be a positive place to make new friends while I’m living in a new state and don’t really know anyone and I tried so hard to be open and honest and genuine and make amazing swaps and still got attacked. For whatever reason this women is convinced she knows me and that I used to swap on here. The swapper @misswimsy was well liked it seems and left in good standing, but isn’t me and I guess swapbot has now deleted her profile cuz it’s gone. But enough..,I don’t need to explain myself but this women should be held accountable and not allowed to do this to others.

Ratings

RockyBeach rated for Monochromatic Yellow Postcard on Sep 8, 2019
1
rating
Comment: I guess this simply just lost in the mail. But I don't got a reply to my PM. If you ever come back and do a resend, I will re-rate of course!
Mellipenpal rated for Put vintage on! on Jul 18, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thank you so much! The envelope & everything in it are gorgeous.
pattiairel rated for WIYM: Match-a-Stamp Mail Art #7 on Jul 17, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Sarah thanks for a nice swap♥♥♥
Jjean rated for CPG Ephemera Scavenger Hunt - US Only on Jul 10, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thank you so much for the wonderful envelope Full loved the Queen postcard but really all was very nice.........
4Friends rated for SCATTS PC SWAP - A - US ONLY on Jul 10, 2019
5
rating
Comment: thank you for my pc
5
rating
Comment: Wow this I is such a great PC! Thanks! I love the Art Nouveau style and the quote is perfect! Thanks so much! Hugs from Alaska, Sherry
Response: I’m so very happy you love it! I always enjoy swapping with you! Thanks for the heart as well. 😊
RockyBeach rated for Used Postage Stamp Mail Art on Jun 26, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thanks for your fun Europe themed ATC!
Response: So you happy you enjoyed it, and thank you for the heart!
LizzyJo rated for Wavy Wiggly Lines on Jun 21, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Your wavy wiggly line lady PC finally found its way into my mail box! It's very cool. I appreciate that you added the green hearts. Thank you!
Response: I’m so happy she made it! I was worried with the delays in mail the storms here in Dallas have been causing. Thank you for the rating, glad you liked her!😃
VAgardengirlgirl rated for Inspiring Article Swap on Jun 21, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Beautiful package and thoughtful articles! Great 1st swap! Many thanks!
Response: So so happy to hear it made it to you and I feel honored to be the first person to send you a swap! Many happy swapping days ahead of you I’m sure! Thank you for the rating and heart! 😃
USTravelingGirl rated for Scatts PC Swap - W - US Only on Jun 21, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thank you! I would hide all the white chocolate ones too lol! Good answers!
Response: Glad you enjoyed it! 😊
amymisha rated for Complimentary Craft Supplies on Jun 19, 2019
5
rating
 
5
rating
Comment: Thanks
Response: Your welcome, hope it made you smile 😊
MsBellaDonna rated for Postcard Destash RAK on Jun 16, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Italy is definitely a country I want to visit! I think I would really enjoy Scotland too!
LilysMama rated for Postcard Destash RAK on Jun 13, 2019
5
rating
Comment: I think Scotland would be an amazing place to visit! Thanks for joining :)
Ukucaitie rated for Postcard Destash RAK on Jun 13, 2019
5
rating
 
Tverne05 rated for Postcard Destash RAK on Jun 13, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Yes, Scotland would be a great place to visit. I listed it as one of my places too.
KathyB rated for Send a book you really enjoyed! on Jun 5, 2019
5
rating
 
Response: thank you, hope you enjoy the book, I loved it!
wolfeagle rated for 1 + 1 May on Jun 3, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thank you so much.
Response: Your welcome. Thank you for hosting so many fun swaps! 😊
Wykyd rated for Trash BOMB RAK, aka desk clean off on Jun 2, 2019
5
rating
 
5
rating
 

Rating Overview

Overall Hearts Stars Hosted
4.9640 88 3 3
Completed Fives Threes Ones
82 110 0 1
Type 1 Type 2 Type 3 Uncategorized
5 46 31 0
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Comments

Canariangal78 on Sep 6, 2019:

I went through the same situation 10 years ago - not with this swapper although I have heard way too many similar stories about her but other ones- and Admin did not even reply to my messages asking for help. I have seen so many good decent people leaving the site because of this. It seems some people here has total freedom to bully, insult and even threaten whoever they wish. Sad that this is allowed. I don't even understand why you have been suspended since you have a perfect 5 on your ratings.

lou on Jul 10, 2019:

VERY CONCERNED RE THE BEHAVIOR YOU’VE REPORTED & HOPING SB ADMIN WILL TAKE YOUR CONCERNS SERIOUSLY!

FURTHER, I APOLOGIZE ON BEHALF OF THE KIND, DECENT PEOPLE HERE AT SB THAT ENJOYED SWAPPING WITH YOU.

THE APPARENTLY INTENSE AND PROLONGED RUDENESS YOU WERE SUBJECTED TO WAS OUT OF LINE — UNFORTUNATELY, THOSE WITH QUESTIONABLE BOUNDARIES KNOW THEY GET LOTS OF ROPE IN THE NAME OF FREE SPEECH AND OFTEN THEIR CONDUCT GOES UNCHECKED.

HANG IN THERE & EVEN IF YOU DID BY CHANCE HAVE 2 PROFILES, THAT’S EASILY REMEDIED & NO REASON FOR THE MISTREATMENT YOU RECEIVED.

NO DOUBT FORUM HAGS WILL ALWAYS EXIST

stephiedee on Jul 10, 2019:

Thank you for the postcard - it arrived today. Very pretty image.

VivaLaDiane on Jul 9, 2019:

The profile wasn't deleted until after my message Sarah, but nice try. ;)

LauraM540 on Jun 12, 2019:

oh my! Loved the Vintage beach themed goodies from the Who Likes? tag! So glad I snagged that one!

pinklilly on Jun 8, 2019:

Sarah, thank you so much for the Pick 3 TAG!!!! I love all the goodies you sent me!!!! I haven't even seen all those things before, wow, what a happy mail on a not so happy day for me!!! Thank you so much for brightening my day!! Ida

yunasy on Jun 5, 2019:

Thank you so much for the rabbit themed items for the menagerie tag! I love them so much!!!

bigmamabird on May 28, 2019:

What a generous and thoughtful OMAE Paper Bomb arrived from you today to brighten up our rainy day! Thank you very much for all the bits and bobs that will surely find good use around here!

tcornell on May 23, 2019:

Thank you for the flowery bits and the Jane Davenport papers/washi samples that you sent for the Take 2 tag!

warheart on May 15, 2019:

Thank you for the grabbie tag!! ♡♡

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