Swap-bot Time: January 24, 2020 11:18 am


Date Joined: January 19, 2010
Last Online: January 22, 2020
Birthday: February 17
Country: United States
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About Me

January 2020 - I am returning to swap bot after a 10 year hiatus. In 2010 I was really loving swap bot & sending (& receiving) some really fun stuff. Then life sent me a series of curve balls... car troubles, major dental surgery, my Mom was hospitalized etc, etc. I really had every intention of getting all my swaps sent, but I got some out late, & yes, flaked on a couple. My current low rating is because of this dark period. I am in a very different place now (10 years later), and find I really miss the creative outlet swap bot gave me. I have contacted the swappers I let down and, for those still active, made plans to send/re-send. I hope you can see fit to give me a chance to prove that I am better than my past mistakes.

I am a wife & Mom to two sweet boys (ages 5 & 2), a crafter, an activist, a religious educator, a book lover & a wanna be...

I wanna be: an artist, a good person, someone who dances while sober, wickedly clever, fun, beautiful, musically talented, educated, kind, exciting, a philosopher, political, knowledgeable, loved, spiritual, vibrant, a world traveler, someone who knows how to: fix things, ride a horse, inspire others & get places on time.I wanna be a great hostess, dramatic, truthful, wise, sexy, a fantastic cook, & happy. I have mastered some of these things, dabbled in many, & some of them may elude me always but wanting to be these things, successful or not, gives you an idea of who I am for me.

"As you think, you travel, and as you love, you attract. You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you." -- James Lane Allen

Interests include : Arts & Crafts (obviously), My family, My friends, My lovely gray tabby cats, the city of Asheville NC where I live, Asheville montage Cooking , Baking & Candy-making (chocolates), Wine (especially dry,spicy reds), Herbology, Really good Coffee,
Vintage/retro styles/items, ephemera (especially Art Nouveau, & Craftsman & to some extent Art Deco), Steampunk items/aesthetic , Ink, Woad, & Henna Tattoos, Architecture, Celtic Myths/Legends/Crafts, Irish anything, Costumes, Masks & anything Carnival/ Mardi Gras, Travel (that is I'd really like to- I haven't so much yet),
Paganism (Wicca), Unitarian Universalism, & Catholicism,
Social Justice & Politics(I secretly want to be Arianna Huffington) , Feminism, & Standing up for the oppressed, NPR (Public Radio in General - especially This American Life, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Democracy Now, Car Talk, Speaking of Faith, the Story Core segments & the excerpts from The Moth)
Reading , Poetry, Roller Derby, Film Noir, Pin up art, Vintage Cars, Power tools, Peacock Feathers, Swans, Seahorses, Mermaids, Snakes, Cameos, Time pieces of all kinds, Antique buttons. Ivy, Poppies, Lillies, Shamrocks, Dogwoods, Willows, Thistles, Lotuses & other "pod" plants Shakespeare in the Park, Renaissance Faires,
& the Muppets (or really anything Jim Henson) Jim Henson & Muppets

Favorite Crafts

I love pretty much all crafts! I have the most experience with: drawing, painting, photography, acting, collage, henna, & some sculpting, I also love: beading, print making, stamping, calligraphy/fonts, stencils/screen prints, puppets, ceramics, paper making, book arts, sewing, doll making, jewelery making, etc & would love to try/learn/get better at: furniture design, woodworking, glass blowing, tree sculpting (arbor smithing), gardening/landscaping in general, bas relief tiles, art restoration, perfumery & millinery

Favorite Books

Since becoming a Mom I don't get to read as many physical books as I'd like, but thankfully audio books keep me sane. I read/listen to a pretty wide mix of fiction & non-fiction from a variety of genres. I like to read anthropology, sociology & political science books for fun as well as light fantasy/fiction. I'm one of those people who can be in the middle of 3 or 4 books at once & I think this is totally normal, or at least as normal (& far less annoying to those around me) as channel surfing. I also occasionally like erotica but I do not read romance books with the likes of Fabio & women in ripped bodices etc on the covers. Some noteworthy books are: Slaying the Mermaid..., The Red Tent, The Time Traveler's Wife, Of Love and Other Demons, Like Water for Chocolate, Waiting for Godot, The Other Woman..., Ahab's Wife, The Ground Beneath Her Feet, the works of Anais Nin & any I've found by Charles deLint, I.Allende, B. Kingsolver , F. McCourt, or N. Gaimen. I have also been known to like books by: Joanne Harris, Sarah Addelson, Sue Monk Kidd, Phillipa Gregory, Laurel K Hamilton & so many others...


Lately I am especially into blues/greens. My general tastes run to muted earthy tones (olive greens/cadet blues) black and shades of gray. I am really into navy & peacock feather colors. I love purples & deep, claret reds. I prefer silver to gold & adore copper.

I do not generally care for pink...the only exceptions I can think of are the first lovely pink blooms of spring here in the mountains: the redbuds, the pink dogwoods & "tulip" Jane Magnolias.

Favorite Movies

My favorite movies tend to be set in another time/place ...I like period dramas/comedies & fantasy... I'm having a hard time thinking of them now... Much Ado About Nothing, Labyrinth, Big Fish, Howard's End, Chocolat, Midnight in the Garden of Good & Evil, Oscar & Lucinda, Tea with Mussolini, Braveheart, Stardust, The Aviator, The Last King of Scotland, Waking Ned Divine, Gross Point Blank, Big Night, The Lord of the Rings Movies, Miller's Crossing, Frida, Edward Scissorhands, Chasing Amy, Atonement, The Princess Bride, Stealing Beauty, Pan's Labyrinth, Benny & Joon, The Dead Poet's Society & of course anything Jim Henson.

Favorite Music

Tori Amos, The Cure, The Pogues, Ani Di Franco, This Mortal Coil, Portishead, Rasputina, Sting, U2, Erin McKeown, Madeline Peyroux, Led Zepplin, Teegan & Sara, Dresden Dolls, the Beastie Boys, Toad the Wet Sprocket, Beck, The Black Crowes, They Might be Giants, David Byrne, Bonnie Raitt, The Empty Hats, The Rolling Stones, Depeche Mode, Enya, Suzanne Vega, David Bowie, Tom Waits, Django Reinhardt & local "hot club" artists: One Leg Up & the Spaceheaters, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana...

My work

Here are some examples of my swaps so far: Imbolc postcard:Imbolc postcard Jan'10
February Theme Matchbox swap (2): Feb Matchbox close up
Vintage Flower Girl ATC:Vintage Flower Girl ATC Paper Goddess Doll: Goddess Paper Doll

Favorite Artists

Artists I Love E. Gorey, E. Munch, V. Van Gogh
E. Schiele, G. Klimt
C.R. Mackintosh, A. Mucha, & H. Matisse

I love all kinds of art but seem to be especially drawn to the works of these artists (and too many others to mention).

I like expressive art & provocative images.


Comment: Thank you so much for all the cute, nerdy Valentines goodness!
Comment: i loved the lil interactive cards like yours. thank you. happy valentines day.
Response: Gad you enjoyed the swap. Thanks for the kind & prompt rating!
Comment: Thanks!
Response: Thanks for rating! Glad to know they've started reaching people.
draco rated for TV Show Reccomendations on Jan 21, 2020
Comment: i'll check them out
KSENiA rated for TV Show Reccomendations on Jan 17, 2020
Comment: Thank you for recommendations. I felt the same about Santa Clarita Diet
Response: 🀣 It’s odd, I’ve never been one for gore but this is just so quirky/over-the-top absurd it won me over!
Moominbrooke rated for TV Show Reccomendations on Jan 16, 2020
Comment: Thanks :0)
Response: Thanks 😊
Cindymt rated for TV Show Reccomendations on Jan 16, 2020
Response: Thanks 😊
cmalaina rated for Where to Start... on Jan 15, 2020
Response: Thanks! ❀️
Comment: Received a PM after the send date saying that you will be late but it have been over 2 months now. Will change if I ever receive.
Comment: I hate to rate a 1, but I have not received anything. You PMed saying it was going to be late, but now we are 2 months past the send by date... I sent you a PM before rating, but have not heard back...looks like you haven't been on the site in a while. I will gladly change the rating if you send.
yunasy rated for Fairie ATC on Apr 25, 2010
Comment: She never sent me anything.
autumndivona rated for Ostara Handmade Postcard Swap on Apr 25, 2010
Comment: Thank you for keeping in touch and for the extraordinary package you sent! {{{hugs}}}
CraftyWench rated for RED RIDING HOOD MATCHBOX SWAP on Apr 22, 2010
Comment: Great MB! Thanks so much for the huge package. You really didn't have to do that, but it was very sweet of you. Thanks!
area51ufo1 rated for Mountain View Naked P.C. Swap on Apr 22, 2010
Comment: Thank you for finally sending. But I cannot give you a 5 because I had to wait over 2 months to receive.
Response: Your postcards may be unforgivably late but they will arrive. I will make good on every swap I signed up for & have not signed up for anything new in the last month since I started getting in over my head.
steffelchen rated for Mountain View Naked P.C. Swap on Apr 20, 2010
HeideC rated for Mark My Words Matchbox on Mar 19, 2010
Comment: Thank you for a very cool matchbox.
Response: You are very welcome. Thanks for your understanding.
Kittenish rated for Paper Goddess doll on Mar 17, 2010
Comment: AMAZING!! I love the snake Goddess you sent for me. She's going on the, you guessed it, Snake Altar. I love snakes as they are my totem and a sacred animal to me along with most other reptiles, and arachnids. This goddess is gorgeous. I love her so much. I also love that you put beads on her so that she rattles when I shake her and reminds me of a rattle snake! I LOVE HER SO MUCH! Your extras were PERFECT. I'm so looking forward to a mini quilting project with all the fabrics you sent and the paper is perfect weight and shimmer for some lovely layered paper beads and jewelry. Thank you for understanding about my myriad of allergies and not sending food :) Thank you again. This swap is beyond what I expected. Thank you!! Kittenish.
Response: I am ever so glad you like her. I think she is the swap I am most proud of so far. I really appreciate your patience & giving me time enough to finish her as I intended (rather than just rushing & skipping the beads for instance).
Comment: WOW! First, the ATC is fabulous, I LOVE it. You are so talented. You spoiled me with the chocolate and the GRAY sharpie I have yet to have found, thank you, thank you! The topping on all this is that you included a gift for Sage and Trent. You deserve 1000 Hearts for being such a very special partner. Blessings, Mona
Response: Thank you, you're sweet to leave me such a nice comment. The Gray sharpie was kinda tricky, it was part of a "Cafe'" colors limited edition set, but once I spied it I knew I had to get it - especially after the private message you sent me.
LittleMermaid rated for Vintage Flower Girl ATC on Mar 3, 2010
Comment: So wonderfull ATC. I love it. Your first ATC work is so beautifull. And also thank you for the nice paper package and the tea. Thanks.
Response: I'm very glad you like it! Thanks for the rating!

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katehawk on Mar 23, 2010:

Hello friend! I started a matchbox group called matchbox & more and I was hoping since you like to make matchboxes that you'd be interested in joining? I'd love to have you as a member! :)

CrayonMom on Feb 4, 2010:

quainthomesteader on Jan 25, 2010:

Check out my new UU chalice swap... http://www.swap-bot.com/swap/show/53315

Jaelle on Jan 23, 2010:

Waking Ned Divine was an awesome movie, and Tori Amos rocks! Welcome to Swapbot!

oreon on Jan 22, 2010:


Welcome to this crazy place...I'm so glad that you joined & I look forward to having you as a partner!

quainthomesteader on Jan 19, 2010:

Hey, I love NPR too! Very cool! Thanks for joining my Imbolc swap!!

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