Swap-bot Time: February 25, 2024 9:34 am


Date Joined: December 1, 2007
Last Online: February 25, 2024
Birthday: May 8, 1956
Country: United States
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About Me


PLEASE NOTE: If I mark a swap as being sent and that day has no mail delivery, it's because I put it in a USPS box by our mail room (which is just down the hall from me).

If it's not in the box by the time the mail comes, it doesn't get picked up till the next day so when I put a letter in the box in the evening or on the weekend and it shows marked as being sent on a Sunday or the prior day is marked sent and the postmark shows the following day, this is why ...

I mark sent as soon it goes into our USPS box because I'm afraid if I didn't, that I'd totally forget and wouldn't mark it sent at all. Old age? Perhaps! lol


For at least the past 6 months (and probably longer than that too but I didn't check as carefully as I do now) ... I seem to end up with quite a few people who do not feel it's important to rate the swaps and then I have to message them and then HOPE that they'll rate me. There have been some who have not even after I messaged them.

If this keeps up, I am tired of having to write and ask (beg?) for a rating and after a certain period of time, I'm just going to start listing non-raters on my profile. There's a rating system for a reason and I thought it was a requirement to do so.

At the same time, any non-raters who do get listed will not be eligible to join my swaps. If I do get them as a partner in a swap that I join then all I can do is hope that they'll rate me and if they do, then I'll remove their name from the non-raters list. I hate to do it but being rated is important to me and I imagine it is to the person who isn't rating but only if they don't get rated themselves I think is when they care about it - not when they won't rate others swaps.

Hi! My name is Debi and am a 67 year old Christian woman and I would love to hear from anyone who was born on that exact same day, which is May 8, 1956. I've looked for years but as of yet have not found anyone on that exact day.

A bit about me, I'm divorced, have 2 kids who are grown and on their own and also have 7 grand-kids and am a GREAT-Grandma to Jax and Kayden, Aimee (age 4) and baby Madilynn was born @ 12:06 a.m., Oct. 25, 2018. Also in August of 2022, I got 2 more great-greatchildren ... Jerime Levi was born the first week in August (my grandson, Levi's baby) and the 3rd week, Levi's sister, Lacey had her baby and the baby's name is Lilly.

Update: As for September 15, 2023 I now have 7 great-grandchildren. My granddaughter Lacey had a baby girl named Delainie Sage. 😀

Besides my kids and grand-kids, I have a very spoiled cat named Kyla, who turned 11 on July 22nd (2021) - Yep, that]'s her in the picture below!

[Update: I had to have Kyla put to sleep on Friday, April 28th, 2023 and can tell you that it was the hardest thing I have EVER had to do.] At this time [5/3/2023], I am still feeling heartbroken and lost without her here but do know that eventually I'll be okay again. For now though, it isn't easy. 😢


My Likes & Dislikes

  • Postcards [or pictures] of carousels

  • I would love to be able to get a postcard from a plantation house from the south. I fell in love with Tara when I read and then watched "Gone With the Wind" and would love postcards from that type of house - the white pillars and well, a plantation house.

Thanks so much for taking the time to read this!


  • Anything with skulls

  • Anything dark or evil

  • No adult themes

  • I absolutely hate swearing so please, if you read this before you send a swap to me, PLEASE leave out the swear words. I can guarantee that if they are in a swap and sent to me, you will NOT get a heart.

  • Terrible handwriting to the point that I have to struggle to read the letter and a good part of the time, I can't make it all out no matter how hard I try. VERY frustrating!

Hate to do it, but ...


I have put off doing this for a VERY long time but finally it's come to the point that some people just ignore your messages asking them to rate you and well, I've had enough.

I ALWAYS contact the person BEFORE posting here for not rating me for a swap. No answer, No rating = Welcome to MY HALL OF SHAME! (I mean, seriously ... it takes what? Like 2 to 3 minutes at the most to rate someone?!)

@Fabriqueen - "Email swap #1 - coronavirus" [Swap end date: April 16,2020]


@Fabriqueen - Postcards With a Prompt #123 - US Only (Note: Diane did finally rate me for this swap. The swaps send-by date was MARCH 13, 2021 and was rated on MAY 27, 2021.

@Nevi2018 - OHS: 24 Things to Do Before 2024 [Swap end date: November 11, 2023] (Rated 2/4/23)


NRGordon rated for Song association— she on Feb 21, 2024
Comment: Thanks for the swap and your nice list.
Response: Thanks for the rating and the heart. Have an awesome day! 😀
Lisserz rated for Any postcard will do ... #10 (USA) on Feb 20, 2024
Comment: Thank you for the postcard.
Response: Thanks so much for your rating, I appreciate it (and the heart too!) Have a great week! 🌹🌹🌹
NRGordon rated for Song association—beer on Feb 20, 2024
Comment: Thanks for your fun list.
Response: Thanks so much for the rating! Have a great rest of your week, Neal. 😀
Comment: I didn't know the Pope couldn't be an organ donor!
Response: Thanks so much for the rating and the heart! Have an awesome day. 😀
denisedecker58 rated for SONG THEME #26 on Feb 19, 2024
Comment: Thanks! Great list of songs!
Response: Thanks Denise and thanks so much for the heart, it's much appreciated! Have a fabulous week! 🌹🌹🌹
myancey rated for Song association— she on Feb 18, 2024
Comment: Great list. Thanks so much
Response: Thanks so much for the quick rating and the heart as well AND for hostessing this swap!! 🌹🌹🌹
JaneG rated for Song association— she on Feb 18, 2024
Comment: Nice list. A couple that are new to me, so I'm excited to check them out.
Response: Thanks so much for the quick rating and for the heart as well. Have a great rest of your day. 🌹🌹🌹
NRGordon rated for Any postcard will do ... #9 (USA) on Feb 15, 2024
Comment: /thanks for the swap and your note. We just moved from Maine to Cape Cod and miss the snow. We finally got a read storm yesterday. We got 8", which will likely be melted away by tomorrow.
Response: Thanks for the rating and the heart as well. I'm glad that you got some snow where you are now. We haven't gotten very much last winter and this winter too which doesn't bother me at all. Normally we got 100+ inches a year and so far this year I think it's maybe 20 inches we've gotten. Have a good day! 😀
Comment: Beautiful names. I'm currently listening to a book with a son named Liam.
Response: Thanks for the rating and the heart! Speaking of books, that is how I named my first granddaughter ... my daughter was going to name the baby Amanda I think it was but the book I was reading had a character named Lacey and so I asked [begged! 😂] her to name the baby Lacey and she did (that was 29 years ago next month!) 😀
Lisserz rated for TOPIC THEME SUBJECT #21 on Feb 13, 2024
Comment: Thank you for the postcard. You, I and the partner I sent to all agree driving is the best way and you can stop and see attractions when you drive. If everyone thinks this way, Amtrak is going to be out of business. I also have a fear of an Amtrak derailing with me on it. Nope! Not even going to attempt it.
Response: Thanks so much for the rating! Ya know why? I'm pretty sure that my partner I received a PC from said the same thing (drive!) I know exactly what you mean about the train maybe derailing. Also there is NO WAY that I would even think of flying. As you said in your comment .... NOPE! 😂🤣😂 Have an awesome day! 🌹🌹🌹
mysmashbooklife rated for Song association —girl on Feb 12, 2024
Comment: I love girls, girls, girls by Mötley Crüe. It is a great song. Thank you for the others.
Response: I'm glad you liked the song (me too!) Thanks so much for the rating and the heart! 😀
craftymtngal rated for ANYCARD WITH PROMPT #97 on Feb 11, 2024
Comment: Thank you! Great list!
Response: Thanks for the rating! 😀
kasa rated for Song association —girl on Feb 11, 2024
Comment: Hi Debi, Congratulations on your 1000th swap. Well done. On your list of girl songs I had seven of them too and some of my songs were older than your ones. Thanks for sharing and being a great swapper.
Response: Awe, thanks so much, I appreciate the congrats and the quick rating and the heart as well! 💕 I love these swaps, sometimes songs will come back to me that I hadn't thought of in a long time! Have a great upcoming week. 🌹🌹🌹
bbketcher rated for Song association- animals on Feb 11, 2024
Response: Thank you.
octobereve930 rated for SONG THEME #28 on Feb 11, 2024
Comment: great list of weather songs. thank you 2/11
Response: Thank you for the rating and of course, for the heart. Have a great Super Bowl Sunday! 😀
Comment: Thank you! I also love horses! :)
Response: Thanks for the rating, Minna! 😀
Response: Thanks so much for the rating and for the heart as well. 🌹🌹🌹
basykes rated for TOPIC THEME SUBJECT (TTS) # 22 on Feb 10, 2024
Comment: My holiday was Halloween. Having 5 kids, it was a terrible trauma every year how much candy the kids could eat at any one time. I'm also not a seamstress, so costumes were a problem too.
Response: I liked Halloween when I was a kid and we could go trick-or-treating but I haven't been a fan of it since that time (which was a LONG time ago. 😂) Thanks so much for the rating and for the heart. Have a great rest of your weekend. 🌹🌹🌹
indigorose rated for (E-mail Swap) It's All About You! on Feb 10, 2024
Comment: Thanks a lot for your interesting answers! :)
Response: Awe, thank you! And thank you so much for the rating and the heart. Have a great weekend! 😀
NRGordon rated for Song association —sugar on Feb 9, 2024
Comment: Thanks for the swap and your list. New tunes and memories are why I like these swaps.
Response: Thanks so much for the rating and the heart, Neal and I agree with your reasons for liking these type of swaps. Have a great weekend! 😀

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octobereve930 on Feb 11, 2024:

HAHAHA "welcome to my hall of shame" omg girl that line cracked me up...so glad I was not drinking my coffee as it would have shot directly on to my computer screen. You are funny. lol xxxx Hugs Di (octobereve930)

yvonne401 on Feb 5, 2024:

Welcome to Christian Swappers Group! It's great to have you here! Everyone in this group is an officer so feel free to put something up.



junemoon on Jan 29, 2024:

I totally agree with you about people not rating. One reason I mostly try not to do internationl swaps is because I never know how long it will take for something to reach another country. However, with USA swaps--I think it's both bad manners and really a major fault.

Rosie2766 on Jan 28, 2024:

Quick Friendly Profile Comment!

Hello Debi!!
Oh my…. I’m having the same issue with not getting rated!! It’s hard to have to message everyone!! Thanks for hosting good safe swaps!! I’ll have to see if I have a “plantation” house. There is a place here in WV that has a huge mansion….it’s called Blennerhasset Island!! I did have some postcards at one time… I’ll definitely look!! Well, I enjoyed visiting and reading your profile!! I look forward to some more of your swaps!! Until then, take care!!


AlyssaLynnWrites on Jan 28, 2024:

CONGRATULATIONS ON ALL YOUR GRAND-BABIES!!!! It must be so exciting to have so many littles to spoil! I’ve given my parents three grandchildren and they’re all definitely spoiled, but there are 6 total between myself and my siblings. I hope your 2024 is awesome so far, and I hope all of your swaps bring you happiness!!

CraftyMommaonaBUDGET on Jan 1, 2024:

Hello Happy New Year 2024

CraftyMommaonaBUDGET on Nov 23, 2023:

rarjones on Mar 6, 2023:

EL ROI [el-roh-ee]: "God of Seeing" (Genesis 16:13) – the name ascribed to God by Hagar, alone and desperate in the wilderness after being driven out by Sarah (Genesis 16:1-14). She realized that El Roi saw her in her distress and testified that He is a God who lives and sees all.

And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Matthew 10:30

AGOCF - Bible Quote #3

Fritosmom on Jan 23, 2023:

Before I became a Christian, I had a terrible problem with forgiving people for even the slightest infraction. AGOCF-Bible Quotes #1- Today I say "Forgiveness is setting the prisoner free, only to find out that the prisoner was me." Matthew 6:14 For if you FORGIVE other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also FORGIVE you.

yvonne401 on Jan 22, 2023:

AGOCF ~ Bible Quote #1

I hope you liked the verses I chose for you.



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