Swap-bot Time: February 27, 2021 7:30 am


Date Joined: March 19, 2015
Last Online: February 26, 2021
Birthday: September 26, 1993
Country: Belgium
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24 November 2020:
Things have been going a lot better! I found a new job that is absolutely perfect for me, and we have adopted a kitten who we have named Lily.

30 October 2020:
Yesterday I had a mental breakdown and quit my job. Things have not been okay for a while and I reached my breaking point. I will honour the swaps I am signed up for, but after that I will not be joining new swaps for a while since I now have no income.

28 July 2020:
I've updated my profile to include more information on what I like :)

29 June 2020:
I am now reusing packaging wherever possible! I am trying to buy less disposable plastics and boxes.

About Me

Hi everyone! I'm Josslyn, but I mostly go by Jossie or Joss. I'm a 27 year old alternative model from South Africa now living in Belgium. I speak English and Afrikaans fluently and am moderately fluent in Dutch - I would love a Dutch penpal to further improve my language skills!


I love dyeing my hair weird and wonderful colours - it's currently dark green and black (although it's mostly been varying shades of green and black for years now, I do sometimes change it to blue or purple for a month or so every once in a while). I also love body modifications and have a few piercings and tattoos. I love hearing the stories behind other people's tattoos. I'm also very much into the goth subculture and everything it entails.

I have three beautiful kitties, Ritsie, Mavis and Lily!

I love traveling and hope to be able to travel again soon. I particularly love visiting places with medieval history with castles and forests. I literally picked the city I now live in based on the fact that it has a castle in the city centre :D I also love viking and celtic history. I could spend the entire day inside museums learning about history.

I am the founder of The Darker Side of SB and Swapping in Belgium! as well as co-founder of the Swappers in South Africa group along with @Hoosfoos

I have a 3DS & Nintendo Switch and play Pokemon (and Pokemon Go!) so message me if you'd like to exchange friend codes :)

Favorite Crafts

I'm into the following crafts:
* Bone wall art - I am still very new at this but having lots of fun with it! All bones used in my creations are ethically sourced
* Jewellery making (elegant beaded jewellery - see my website link - I've also just started getting into electroforming)
* Jewellery / trinket box making - I paint and decorate fancy boxes to different themes

Supplies are always appreciated!

I also like doing private swaps with other crafty people :)

Please Send

Here are some things I like if you're looking for inspiration:
* Anatomical themed items, especially hearts
* Animal bones or animal bone jewellery (ethically sourced please)
* Animals - bats, rabbits, cats, ravens, rats and wolves
* Cat toys or other items for my cats
* Classic horror - I love Nosferatu, Dracula, Elvira, Frankenstein, Vampira etc inspired items!
* Coffins
* Colours - black, ivy / forest green, dark blue and dark purple
* Cooking and baking recipes (I am not vegan, but my mother is, so I do not mind receiving vegan or vegetarian recipes! Please check the next section though for food allergies)
* Creepy cute / spoopy items - especially cute black cats or bats
* Crystals (I am really connecting with Labradorite lately, but any crystals will be appreciated)
* Dried or pressed flowers
* Fantasy (elves, dragons, magic, mythical creatures, etc - I'd LOVE to receive something jackalope themed!)
* Gaming related items (see favourite games)
* Gothic dolls
* Harry Potter (I'm a proud Slytherin)
* Lace and velvet
* Letter sets & note cards
* Medieval items - anything to do with castles, medieval fashion, monarchs, etc. My favourite era in history is the Tudors but I love hearing about medieval history all over the world!
* Moon themed items
* Mythology - particularly Celtic, Egyptian and Norse
* Pokemon (my favourite Pokemon are Pikachu, Ninetales, Eevee, Umbreon & Espeon)
* Postcards - I prefer non-touristy postcards with art, or postcards with castles or other medieval elements
* Runes - Elder or younger Futhark. I have a strong connection with Kenaz and Raidho
* Scents - if you are sending me anything scented, I absolutely love berries (especially cherries), vanilla, patchouli, cinnamon, peppercorn and coffee
* Seeds - we are busy planting a little veggie and flower garden on our balcony! So far we have cucumber, lettuce, basil, chives and mint, so I'd love seeds for other things! When it comes to flowers, purples and blues are my favourite but I like all colours
* Spooky things
* Tarot / Oracle card deck - I've been looking for the perfect decks for quite some time now. I am specifically looking for one with forest animal imagery but don't mind receiving a different kind to start with!
* Taxidermy or taxidermy themed or inspired items
* The Addams Family (I love Wednesday and have a huge tattoo of her on my thigh)
* Victorian themed items, especially cameos, filigree, damask and lace!
* Viking & Celtic inspired home decor
* Washi tape - I love gothic style washi tape with things like moons black cats, ravens, bats, forests, damask, cameos, etc, as well as Pokemon washi
* Witchy and Pagan themed items (I have a gravitation towards Celtic, Norse and Egyptian symbolism)

Beauty products I love:
* Glitter & gems to stick on my face
* False lashes - interesting or really long ones!
* Perfume
* Makeup brushes - currently looking for a small fluffy brush to blend eyeshadow, and a tiny brush for making dots
* Stick on nails - spooky themes

Candy / food / recipes etc I like:
* Berries & berry flavoured things
* Caramel
* Chocolate - any kind but my absolute favourite is ruby chocolate! No nuts or fruits though please - chocolates with other things like gummy candy, caramel, etc inside are fine!
* Cinnamon
* Ginger
* Gummy sweets
* Liquorice
* Sour things
* Sweet things
* Tea - my favourites are berry / ginger / cinnamon / liquorice, but I love trying new things! Please no Earl Grey or Rooibos though
* Turkish delight - this is my absolute favourite treat but I haven't been able to find any since moving to Belgium, so I would love to receive some!

Please Don't Send

Please don't send me any of the following:
* Baby / children related things - I am childfree by choice and so are all of my friends so I don't even have anyone to gift things like that to
* Bath products - our boiler is only on in the morning when I am still sleeping, so I cannot bath at our current apartment unless I get up early :(
* Bookmarks - I've recently received three new bookmarks so I have enough for now!
* Cartoon / Hello Kitty / Kawaii items (cute cat items are the only exception)
* Christmas themed items. I grew up in a family that did not celebrate Christmas so it means nothing to me (when I enter stocking stuffer swaps I don't keep the items as stocking stuffers, I open them right away. But of course in these kinds of swaps I do not mind Christmas themed wrapping papers or cards as they might be part of the swap requirements)
* Colours - gold, copper, pink, brown and orange
* Dia de los Muertos or "sugar skull" themed items
* Fridge magnets - our fridge is not magnetic so I have nowhere to put them :(
* Girly or super colourful items
* Jewellery - I have my own jewellery business and mostly wear my own creations to promote my brand
* Ouija board related items
* Makeup - I am a promoter for Notoriously Morbid Cosmetics and almost exclusively use their products
* Postage stamps - I sometimes keep a pretty stamp that was on a swap I receive, but I don't really collect stamps
* Religious items or symbolism (including Gothic crosses! NOTHING to do with religion please, EXCEPT Norse / Celtic or other pagan imagery. Please no pentagrams though - pentacles are fine if the point is facing up)
* Skull and crossbones items (the pirate style - other skull or bone themed things are fine!)
* The Nightmare Before Christmas items (other Tim Burton related items are fine)

Please don't send me any recipes / tea / candy, etc containing the following:
* Fish
* Mint
* Nuts
* Orange or orange flavourant (I'm allergic!)
* Spicy / hot food
* Tea - Earl Grey, English Breakfast or Rooibos. I prefer fruity teas
* Tomatoes - yes I know you probably won't be sending me tomatoes, but please keep this allergy in mind when sending me recipes as I am extremely allergic!

Favorite Music

Absurd Minds, Alestorm, Assemblage 23, Avantasia, Blutengel, Death In June, Depeche Mode, Der Klinke, Diary Of Dreams, Eluveitie, Elvenking, Epica, Fields Of The Nephilim, Finntroll, Hammerfall, Joy Division, Korpiklaani, Manegarm, The March Violets, Merciful Nuns, The Merry Thoughts, Morbid Poetry, Northland, Nosferatu, October Burns Black, Powerwolf, Pretentious Moi?, Rosetta Stone, Serious Black, She Past Away, Sisters Of Mercy, Solar Fake, VNV Nation, XIII. StoletiΒ­

Favorite Television

The Addams Family & Addams Family Values, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Beetlejuice, Elvira Mistress Of The Dark, Frankenstein, Frankenweenie, Harry Potter, Hotel Transylvania, Lord Of The Rings, Nosferatu The Vampyre, The Princess Bride, Resident Evil, Underworld, Van Helsing, World War Z

TV Series:
The 100, The Addams Family (original 1964 series), American Horror Story, The Big Bang Theory, Forever, Game Of Thrones, iZombie, The Last Man On Earth, Modern Family, Penny Dreadful, Pokemon, Ru Paul's Drag Race, A Series Of Unfortunate Events, The Tudors, Van Helsing, Vikings, The Witcher, Z Nation

Favorite Games

Bioshock Trilogy, Dead Island, DOOM, Dragon Age, Dying Light, The Elder Scrolls (Online, Skyrim & Morrowind), The Forest, The Legend Of Zelda, Pokemon, Splatoon, The Witcher Trilogy, Vampyr.

RAKS & Tags

* Random fabric swatches stuffed envie to @usacricket (received)
* "I've Got What You Want" tag to @Nevermore (received)
* "I collect...send to the person above you" tag to @Purplmyst (received)
* Global Swap Tag to @piratecaptainmo (received)
* Destash tag to @notme78 (received)
* "I've Got What You Want" tag to @TeaP (received)
* "I Offer Tag - Europe" to @notme78 (received)
* "I wish for....." to @SatisHuman (received)
* Menagerie Tag to @GrrrMeoww (received)
* Menagerie Tag to @Lonestarchild (received)
"Quick! I need... Tag" to @52901m

* Kawaii Memosheets Envie from @missxkay
* "I've Got What You Want" tag from @sjayana20
* Stamped notecards from @user2637
* "I collect...send to the person above you" tag from @mgallardo68
* Destash Tag from @Lonestarchild
* "I've got what you want" tag from @GrrrMeoww
* "I Offer Tag - Europe" from @thelocalman
* Global Swap Tag from @user6937
* Menagerie Tag from @JuneRosebud
"Quick! I need... Tag" from @Emzycal

* Receiving Menagerie Tag from @pkpeace


I have been flaked on by:
* @cancerianmoon626 for Pokemon Card Swap #1 and Pokemon Pen Pal - Generously angeled by @brokenwings - Thank you!
* @threelittlebirds411 for "I wish for....." tag. They have since deleted their account


Fabriqueen rated for CS: Show Me Your Cat 🐈 on Feb 27, 2021
Comment: Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful kitties with me! I know they are a joy! Have a wonderful day! Hugs, Diane
Lyndylou5 rated for World Coins! $ on Feb 21, 2021
Comment: Thank you for the lovely note you wrote, that's very interesting. All three coins are very pretty. I've never seen 8 sides coins before. They're wonderful!
Response: Thank you for the heart. I'm glad you like the coins!
Sendingkindness rated for blind, quick tea swap 17 on Feb 16, 2021
Comment: Thank you for the lovely teas and cute card! I can’t wait to try these new flavors out!
Response: Thanks for the heart. I hope you enjoy the tea!
littlehana86 rated for ESG: Favorite Photo - January on Feb 14, 2021
Comment: Hello! Thank you for your photos. My country has no snow.. I only experienced snow once when I was in Italy in a short trip.. it is too cold for me but I like it. :)
Response: Thank you for the heart! I love snow but don't like when it's cold without snow, like most of winter in Belgium xD
HappyMom rated for ESG: Favorite Photo - January on Feb 8, 2021
Comment: I needed to see these - my cuteness jar was empty! Thanks!
Response: Thank you for the heart :D
colleenbUSA rated for ESG: Favorite Photo - January on Feb 8, 2021
Comment: Thanks for sharing! Your cat is too cute! And your jewelry is beautiful!
Response: Thanks for the heart. I'm glad you liked my photos!
Colinde rated for CS: Show Me Your Cat 🐈 on Feb 7, 2021
Comment: Thanks a lot for sharing your furry lovie with me!! :-D Cats make life better! Best wishes
Response: Thanks for the heart :)
MsMarvel rated for Silly Pet Pics on Jan 17, 2021
Comment: Thank you! Your kitties are too cute!!!!
Response: Thank you! And thank you for the heart :)
Seedlings3P rated for Silly Pet Pics on Jan 17, 2021
Comment: Very Cute and Sweet - Thank you for sharing your babies with me.
FairyLady rated for Silly Pet Pics on Jan 17, 2021
Comment: They're all so adorable. ^_^Thanks for sharing.
Response: Thank you! And thanks for the heart :)
Ashzaller rated for Silly Pet Pics on Jan 15, 2021
Comment: Thanks so much for sharing <3
Response: Thank you for the heart :)
Pei04 rated for CS: Show Me Your Cat 🐈 on Jan 12, 2021
Comment: Thanks for sharing photos and info about your kids. I love the photo of Ritsie, he looks so happy :) Such a sad story about Lily, but glad she's doing ok now. And I love the litte white spot on Mavis chest :) Thanks again and take care!
Response: Thank you! And thanks for the heart!
Comment: Thank you for telling and showing us your pretty kitties. It is so good that Lily now has a safe and happy home.
Response: Thank you for the heart! :)
ashanti2106 rated for CS: Show Me Your Cat 🐈 on Jan 10, 2021
Comment: Thank you for introducing me to your cats :)
Response: Thank you for the heart :)
ericabella rated for CS: Show Me Your Cat 🐈 on Jan 10, 2021
Comment: Hi Jossie! Your cats are so precious. I hope you have a lovely day!
Response: Thank you, and thanks for the heart!
reauk rated for CS: Show Me Your Cat 🐈 on Jan 10, 2021
Comment: Thanks for sharing about your furbabies And lovely photos ❀️ All your babies are gorgeous I really feel blessed your shareing with me πŸˆβ€β¬›
Response: Thank you for the heart <3
KIllerMal rated for Share your Country #6 on Jan 2, 2021
Comment: hello ^^ thank you for the adorable magnets, the recipe and the letter, I read curiously! I gave the recipe to my husband so he cooks it.
Response: Thank you for the heart! I hope you enjoy the recipe :)
reauk rated for CS: beauty samples teabag and a note on Nov 21, 2020
Comment: Thanks josslyn Added to my Christmas stocking for Christmas πŸŽ„
Response: Sorry for the late reply. Thanks for the heart! :D
bluebear rated for Tiny European Swap #12 on Nov 11, 2020
Comment: Thank you
Nevermore rated for Tasty Europe #3 on Nov 9, 2020
Comment: Oh my goodness I love this chocolate thank you so much!
Response: I'm so glad you like it! It's my absolute favourite :D

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Meisje on Dec 4, 2020:

Just because β™₯

Christmas Christmas


Lonestarchild on Jul 22, 2020:

Thank you for the pig stickers for the Menagerie tag!

uiltje on Jun 30, 2020:

Gefeliciteerd met het behalen van je examen!

kiddomerriweather on Jan 19, 2020:

Please update this tag in the pf. Thanks! :)

GrrrMeoww on Nov 18, 2019:

I just got your bat necklace from the menagerie tag today, thank you, I love it!

notme78 on Oct 8, 2019:

Thank you for the hello kitty paper via I offer tag - europe

TeaP on Mar 15, 2019:

I love the charms. Thank you si much for the tag.

notme78 on Mar 1, 2019:

Thank you for the postcards via destash tag.

piratecaptainmo on Feb 25, 2019:

Thank you so much for the tea you sent for the PF Global Swap tag! I'm so excited to try them!!!

CurlyTea on Sep 26, 2018:

Happy Birthday!

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