Swap-bot Time: February 23, 2020 1:54 am


Date Joined: October 11, 2018
Last Online: February 22, 2020
Birthday: May 4
Country: United States
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About Evan

My profile was last updated on 2/18/20. I am ever evolving so should my profile be.

My name is EVAN (I am a girl). I live in Los Angeles with “T” my husband, Lumos (my chihuahua service dog). I am an AUTISTIC actress, artist (see link to shop above) and writer. My husband is a writer, director, he also creates TTRPG games. We live a pretty simple pseudo-minimalistic life. Not a lot of excess, but full of things we love. My personal style is very Mori-girl (look it up, it’s adorable) and whimsical.

T and I got married on a Friday the 13th, so we celebrate our marriage EVERY Friday the 13th. Because celebrating once a year is BORING!! I am looking for POSTCARDS for T. Because from our wedding day I have written him a postcard every single Friday. He keeps them in a box that I gave him as a wedding present. I write and tell him how much I appreciate him and his hard work, the highlights of our week, and how much I love him. I would love to send him postcards in things he enjoys, so if you have any of these themes I would greatly appreciate it - WHALES, SPACE EXPLORATION, BOSTON anything(especially the bruins), VIDEO GAMES, MOVIES (specifically movie posters and black and white photo type) and FOOD (he is a huge foodie). Maybe also some romantic specific cards would be nice.

1/12/2020 I have been declared legally blind, today. Reason: unknown. There are more tests on the way. I woke up about two weeks ago and could not see anything further than about 10 feet. Being autistic - my senses are all now in overdrive. I have had a meltdown nearly everyday, from overwhelm and sensory issues. Thank you everyone for your kind words and thoughts. I am trying really hard to work thru this in the best way for me. I want to write and create art as long as I can and as much as I can, incase it gets worse.

I am very grateful for everything I receive. Thank you for taking the time to create and send me something. I look forward to checking my mailbox everyday. I leave feedback promptly, so if you have not received feedback I have not received your items yet. I also do not check to see if I am getting feedback, as I am not here to gain ratings. So if you have not received something from me that I have marked sent, please let me know. It may have got lost.


  • Colors: Gray and Green (Any shades) also like only pale pink (like the color of cherry blossoms)
  • Food: Marshmallows
  • Drink: Milk with honey or Nutcracker Sweet (Celestial Seasonings Tea)
  • Number: 13
  • Flower: Forget Me Not
  • Animal: Mouse
  • Top 5 Fave Movies of the moment: Pacific Rim, Sky Captain and the World of Tomorrow, Meet Joe Black, Tomorrowland and Captain Marvel
  • Fave TV: Foster’s Home for Imaginary Friends, Last Airbender, Doctor Who, Code Lyoko, Little Witch Academia
  • Fave Music: Soundtracks, Musicals, Lindsey Sterling, BabyMetal
  • Books: see below


I REALLY LOVE BOOKS!! I am an avid reader - I read 2-4 books a week. Thank goodness for Kindle Unlimited. I do own a kindle with over 150 titles (not including the Kindle Unlimited books) on it. It is one of my prized possessions. Amazon gift cards are always welcome here. The reader is easier on sets/at work. I also love to listen to audio books. But I do love paper books once in awhile.

The books I tend to choose:

  • Adventure - Redwall series, Subtle Knife series, Pirates, Peter Pan
  • Speculative/Science Fiction - Cherie Priest, Hunger Games, Enders Game,
  • Magic/Fantasy - Harry Potter, Narina, the Magicians, Neil Gaiman
  • Mythology - Selkies, Mermaids, Dragons, Scottish Lore, Norse lore, Percy Jackson
  • Whimsy - Alice in wonderland, Mark McGuire books, Gail Carriger, Stardust
  • Historical Fiction - Jennifer Connelly, Downton Abby, Edwardian and Victorian Fiction
  • Classics - Jane Austin, Shakespeare, Emily Bronte, Roald Dahl
  • Romance (Sometimes) - Danielle Steele, John Green, Nicolas Sparks
  • Non-Fiction - Comedy (Ellen, Augusta Boroughs, Sederis) and Books about Film and Theater including biographies of movie/tv stars

🚫 I DO NOT read horror or crime/legal drama books

I am okay getting books without their Dust Jackets.


My WHOLE LIFE pretty much revolves around PETER PAN. When I was a little girl I struggled to make friends - I was a bit awkward, and we moved a lot. The book became my best friend (I have read it over 100 times to date) and that fondness grew and grew.


  • THE BOOK, the play, and the retellings.
  • Movies - All of them! The live action (2003) and Hook are faves
  • Kisses - Thimbles (Tchotchke and Vintage mostly) and Acorns (I love glass and felted ones)
  • Victorian era niceties
  • Pirate and nautical things including Pirate ships, mermaids, booty and rum.
  • Fairies - not just Tink, all types - like Lady Cottington’s and Amy Brown
  • Any Peter Pan handmade art or crafts
  • If it makes me think of Peter Pan it is a winner!!

Swapping with Evan

I LOVE doing pirate swaps. If we have things in common or if you would use like to do a private swap with me, please let me know.

Looking for ideas of what to send me. PLEASE GO WITH YOUR GUT! (And follow the requirements!!) If you still need ideas -

  • Crochet or knit coasters
  • Button Bouquet Stems (Buttons on a wire 8-12” long) - you can find ideas on pinterest
  • Blank paper bag journals (like a finished product that I just fill in)
  • Whimsical things
  • Gingham and plaid
  • Girly things with my name on it (even handmade) since it’s a boy name in general it’s always boy type items.
  • Anything from my Faves on Etsy (link above)
  • Swizzle Sticks
  • Russian/Eastern Orthodoxy items especially iconography and crosses
  • Vintage floral print
  • Honey Tea Spoons/Suckers
  • Things from my Amazon Wishlist (link above)
  • Egg Cups
  • 4 of Hearts playing cards
  • Crew length socks in florals, stripes, patterns (like argyle and dots) or with animals on them (non cartoonish/no animal print)
  • Music Boxes
  • Tea Strainers in fun colorful silicon shapes (like the TeaTanic- look it up it’s adorable!)
  • Starbucks gift cards
  • Anything with a Neverland Aesthetic
  • Your Artwork or crafting: ATCs, Handmade PCs, Paintings, Sketches, flip books, paper crafts, If you can make it I will love it...of ANYTHING on my profile
  • Mouse Anything: especially Mice doing Human things!! Art, stationery, PC, tchotchkes, ANYTHING with a mouse on it.
  • Crows and Ravens
  • Axolotls - Adorable alien dragon babies
  • Rainbow Zebras - where the stripes are rainbow instead of black.
  • Selkies and Seals
  • Peter Pan - or any character from Peter Pan
  • Captain Marvel
  • Holly Hobbie
  • Gudetama
  • Children’s books in French or Russian: especially looking for Peter Pan, Harry Potter, Narnia, Babar, Madeline and Disney.
  • Slytherin aesthetic
  • Queenie Goldstein
  • Newt Scamander
  • Nifflers
  • Thestrals
  • SCENTSY (don’t mind if they are gently used) Bars - My Dear Watson, Lucky In Love, any of the Disney/Starwars ones. Warmers - PETER PAN or any nightlight warmer. Buddy - MADDIE (ballerina mouse), Nile, Gilly, Mickey Mouse
  • Wax Seals - pre-made ones
  • Disney Characters - Sorcerer Mickey, Merida, Pocahontas, Rex, Bernard (from Rescuers)
  • Scrap Yarn - long enough to add to my scrap throw blanket I am working on.
  • Blank ATCs
  • Blank Postcards 4X6” ones

If you happen to send things I do not find useful. I will pass them on in other swaps or to local friends. So, if you happen to get something back in a swap, please don’t take it personally.


I started collecting playing cards! I am trying to build a FUN deck of playing cards with cards from all different decks. Mainly I am looking for the novelty kind with pictures or illustrations on them (Poker size 2.5X3.5”).

🚫Casino cards or musty smelling vintage playing cards

Here is what I have so far

Poker Deck (2.5 X 3.5”):

♠️ - A, 2, 3, 4, J, Q, K

♣️ - A, 3, J, K

♥️ - 3, J, Q, K

♦️ - 4, 5, Q, K


Bridge Deck (2.2.5 X 3.5”):

♠️ - 3, 6, 9, Q

♣️ - A0, 2, 3, 4, 7, 8. 10

♥️ - A, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 9, 10, J

♦️ - A, 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, J, K

Joker x 1

Please Do Not Send:


🚫ALLERGIES: Walnuts (other nuts are okay)

🚫Anything musty or smoky smelling - it kills my senses and overwhelms me and goes in the garbage.

🚫AUTISM SPEAKS anything - puzzle pieces, blue pieces especially. This organization is not supportive of actually autistic people. I don’t agree with their philosophy, nor do they speak for me. (Advocating moment)

🚫 Propaganda of any kind: Religious, racial, political, not for profits... I just pass them on or toss them out.


I thought I would give a RAK on my profile!! Every month will be something NEW!!

FEBRUARY - DUMP CHILI: This is a super simple recipe, I make about once a week.

Ingredients: 1 lb cooked meat, 2 cans of beans (drained), and one 16(ish) ounce jar of Salsa. Optional - 1 can of corn (drained).

Instructions: Dump it all in a crock pot and put it on warm till it is warmed thru and you are ready to eat. ENJOY!!

The flavors are up to you. For example you can do ground beef, kidney beans and regular salsa for plain chili. Or you could do chicken, white beans and green salsa for chicken chili. One of our faves is steak chunks, black beans and Newmans Own mango salsa with corn.


montigneyrules rated for PSO: Dear Friend Letter on Feb 22, 2020
Comment: Actually, Purple is my favorite color. Haha. And I put the same commonalities in the letter to you!
Response: OH NO!! Did I confuse you with someone else?!? Figures!! Thank you for understanding. !
aligurl75 rated for POSTCARD of LISTS #5 on Feb 22, 2020
Comment: I don’t mind recycled postcards. That was a very good idea. Tomorrowland is one of my favorite movies too. Thank you for the postcard.
twileteyes rated for Handmade POSTCARD Challenge #4 on Feb 20, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the great card! I love that quote too! Whenever I hear the word weather the 'weather the weather' quote comes to mind for me.
Comment: ▂▃▅▇█▓▒░۩۞۩ Thank You ۩۞۩░▒▓█▇▅▃▂ Evan for the (¯`*•.¸♥♫ ♫ B░E░A░U░T░I░F░U░L ♫ ♥¸.•*´¯) ♥♥♥♥ ATC that required some of your undivided attention and quality time. You are so talented! Your art reminds me of Vincent Van Gogh! Your ACT rendition of Pinocchio looks a lot like his "Starry Night"! So haunting and hopeful at the same time! 𝕴𝖒𝖕𝖗𝖊𝖘𝖘𝖎𝖛𝖊! You know, he painted that famous masterpiece when he voluntarily entered the asylum of St. Paul near Saint-Rémy in the Provence region of southern France. "You're only given a little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it." Robin Williams. Gawd, how I miss that man! I am deeply touched by your ATC. Words cannot express how much it means to me. It is gorgeous. I love it! 💖❥💞❦💕❧💗♡💓♥️❤️❤💘ღ💝❣💘💚💟💙💜💛 εїз Ƹ̴Ӂ̴Ʒ ❤ ƸӜƷ εїз
chimerix rated for PSO: Profile based ATC on Feb 18, 2020
Comment: Thank you so much for the beautiful hand drawn dragon ATC! I really like it. Aloha
Response: I am so glad you liked it! It’s always hard when it is profile based, because maybe I interpret wrong. Glad I got it right for you! Cheers
Comment: I love all the thought and effort that you put into everything here, sis! Right down to checking that the nail polish bottles have Cookie Monster on them!!! I’m feeling SOOOO gitty with joy right now and it’s all because of you! It’s nearly 2am and I’d rather paint my toes than sleep 😁😘 Love you 4ever, Like U 4 always!!!
BetsyPreston rated for Writing Challenge #2 on Feb 18, 2020
Comment: Thank you for your story! I also enjoyed the stationery. Thanks also for hosting the swap - it was fun to try something a little different than what I usually do.
jules4534 rated for Playing card swap #1 on Feb 18, 2020
Comment: I love these cards! My fav character from GOT and a cool brewing one! Thank you so much! This is so fun!
noone7212 rated for POSTCARD of LISTS #4 on Feb 17, 2020
Comment: I love this cute card! Thank you!
TeaNi rated for Send Anything #4 on Feb 15, 2020
Comment: thank you for all the fun goodies you sent! :)
skinny52 rated for Walk Thru The Alphabet - C on Feb 15, 2020
Comment: Great assortment of C items, I especially love cats! And I love how you addressed the envelope too. I'm loving this swap series and I'm already setting things aside for the rest of the alphabet! Thanks for hosting! Best wishes, Martha
Response: I have been saving up letters too!! I am excited about them.
thecolorofinfinity rated for Postcard of Lists #3 on Feb 14, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the great card and great list!
Comment: That is an interesting thought about toys and the memories that they hold usually only being good. I never really thought about that. I love the stamps that you used! Thank you for the cute hand drawn postcard.
Comment: Love the Postcard. Happy Valentines Day to you and your husband!
gothbarbie rated for Partner's Zodiac PC on Feb 13, 2020
Comment: Pretty silver crab! : ) Thanks!
aprilivy rated for Novel-TEA swap #4 on Feb 11, 2020
Comment: Thank you so much, I absolutely love that book!
StargazerHM rated for Novel-TEA Swap #1 on Feb 11, 2020
Comment: Thank you! I received ur second letter! Wonderful swap!
MissNyx rated for SELF CARE Funtastic Swap on Feb 11, 2020
Comment: Thanks for such a stupendous package of goodies. I loved the sparkly bag and everything inside---especially the foot salts. Thanks for going above and beyond on this swap!
colleenbUSA rated for GEEK of the WEEK #5 on Feb 11, 2020
Comment: I love the postcard! Thank you! Great choices of cars!
MuggleMom rated for HA: House Colors Swap on Feb 10, 2020
Comment: Wow, I was not expecting the package I got today!! Especially the Ron (swoon) postcard! Thank you so much!!! xx
Response: I am glad you liked it!! It was fun looking for gold! Haha.

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Highlander18 on Feb 21, 2020:

Great postcards! Thank you very much! - Happy Mail RAK Each card is very interesting and great additions to my collection.

chimerix on Feb 21, 2020:

Thank you so much for the hand drawn Emerald City ATC! I love it. (Forum ATC in my favorite theme tag.) Aloha

threelittlebirds411 on Feb 19, 2020:

Thank you sooo much for the postcards and stickers for the 'I Wish For...' tag! I love them all!!

mysmashbooklife on Feb 13, 2020:

I was reading through your profile and i love that you named your service dog Lumos <3!

And i hope they will find out what happend to your eye-sight. That must be horrible...

Melanie xxx

myancey on Feb 2, 2020:

Did red Dino make it on one piece ? Did u like the stickers ?

lambchoppy on Jan 28, 2020:

Hi there! Promoting a PC swap I'm hosting if you're interested. Have a nice day!

Sticker PC Swap #12 - USA ONLY

PaperProf on Jan 27, 2020:

Thank you for the owl items for the Animals Tag. The owls you sent are adorable, and I love the mail art!

threelittlebirds411 on Jan 23, 2020:

Thank you for the postcards and owl sticky notes for the Pick 2 Tag!!

spotteddogs on Jan 12, 2020:

Thank you so much for the PCs and notecards for the Pick Two tag. I LOVE the PCs with my initials!

pianoheart on Jan 11, 2020:

Thank you for the appliques for the I collect forum tag :)

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