Swap-bot Time: January 16, 2021 11:00 am


Date Joined: October 20, 2014
Last Online: January 16, 2021
Birthday: November 10, 1974
Country: United States

About Me

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Please don't hesitate to tell me if it's been an abnormally long time for a swap or if it arrives with postage due. Just let me know and I'll reimburse you, or do a resend if necessary. I don't mind one bit.

I work for the VA and am extremely busy, so often I can only work on my swaps on the weekend, and may send out near or on the last day. This may cause a delay in rating as well. However, I ALWAYS rate and I ALWAYS send on time. Rating is super important to me and I like to devote time and effort to it, and really let the person know how much I appreciate their time and generosity.

pic of me

I'm 46 years old and neuroatypical (autistic), and wouldn't choose to be any other age or way to be. I'm a mama of two (ages 16 and 14) and have been with my beloved best friend husband for 22 years. I love to laugh and joke, but can also be very serious. I love sunglasses and have about 20 pairs that I cycle through. I have two black cats that are siblings and a huge menacing calico who despises them. I drink massive amounts of Lime LaCroix every single day. I am a grateful member of Al-Anon and Adult Children of Alcoholics and will gladly hear about and share on these topics if anyone wishes. I'm a court transcriptionist, for veterans mainly, and it is very fulfilling work.

I make dioramas out of televisions and cigar boxes and am working on several right now, one is a vintage circus and one is going to be Shackleton's Endurance ship. I am hoping they won't take 10 years to finish as my last one did; (see below). Update: They are going to take 10 years.

one of my dioramas:

I love tiny things and plastic toys which I incorporate into my dioramas or put into shadowboxes or just fill up jars and put them on shelves. My obsessions change from day to day and I often get sucked into a rabbit hole researching different topics.

My hobbies include needlepoint, cross stitch, cooking, reading, crafting, traveling, SLEEPING, and listening to music. I'm originally from the Detroit, Michigan area but have been living in the south for 13 years now.

I'm NOT a super picky swapper and will not give low ratings just because something doesn't exactly match my standards. Those things just get put back into my swap box to be sent on to someone who will enjoy it better. I will not be offended by much of anything unless it's hateful or bigoted, and will love anything profane or funny or weird or kitschy or bizarre.

"No matter where you go, there you are." ~ Buckaroo Banzai

"Strangers on this road we are on/ We are not two we are one." ~ The Kinks

Postcard and Ephemera Likes

I prefer artsy or funny postcards over touristy, but I will be happy to receive any postcard, naked or in an envie, vintage or new or ad. I definitely enjoy handmade postcards, too. You can send me all the weird or "gross" postcards, bugs and creepy creatures, scary women, wtf cards and I will be ecstatic.

Specific topics I like:
nature and natural history,
aboriginal/first nations art,
EYES and eye imagery,
birds, especially blue jays and cardinals,
science fiction,
the supernatural,
huge things,
tiny things,
folk art, outsider art,
strange tourist destinations or attractions
things about CULTS
insects, esp houseflies or beetles
warrior women,
witches/witchy things/paganism,
LGBTQIA+ (pansexual a PLUS),
radical progressive politics,
things about voting,
amazing women politicians,
aspergers/aspie/autism positive (not Autism Speaks),
gingko trees and leaves

Fandoms: Supernatural (Destiel forever),
Harry Potter (I love Hermione and Snape the best)
Doctor Who, Jodie Whittaker or Tom Baker

Things I collect and LOVE


Any of these are instant hearts and love and gratitude:

pressed pennies,
shaped plastic combs,
plastic dinosaurs,
buttons/badges/enamel pins,
gay stuff,
bitchy stuff,
fat stuff,
anything tiny and plastic,

My current button stash display:
my button stash

People and characters I absolutely love/heroes/sheroes:
John Waters
Kate Bush
Frida Kahlo
Wonder Woman
Tank Girl
Bette Davis
Pee Wee Herman
James Baldwin
Temple Grandin
Shirley Chisholm
Stevie Nicks
Marilyn Monroe
Dolly Parton

Favorite Crafts

Needlework, dioramas, ATCs, articulated paper dolls, shadowboxes, stickers.

My needlepoint based on a Russian suprematist painting from around 1915:
my needlepoint

Fav Artists:
Howard Finster (all-time fav)
Kehinde Wiley
Amy Sherald
Keith Haring
Tamara de Lempicka
Kara Walker
Paa Joe
Diane Arbus
and a MILLION MORE...see my Pinterest

Favorite Television

I am a HUGE Supernatural fan. Recent loves: Upload, Killing Eve, Belgravia, We're Here, Picard, Discovery, What We Do in the Shadows, Hanna. I think Schitt's Creek was one of the best shows ever. Loved Broad City.

Currently bingeing: Shows about cults and The Vow. :O

I love old movies, especially 40s movies with Betty Davis or Cary Grant or Margaret Sullivan or Humphrey Bogart. TCM is a staple. I was raised on musicals and know almost every word to most of them (whether I want to or not).



I don't have many and will absolutely not rate down for these. Just a list if you're wondering what things I don't really have a use for and that automatically get put in my giveaway box:

planner stuff
kawaii stuff (except Twin Stars)
things that glorify drinking (ex. Wine-o-clock, etc)
perfumey stuff (except patchouli)

As I said before, I don't like anything bigoted or hateful or white supremacist. I'm not a Christian, but I don't mind religious items or prayers or things like that. Jesus seems like he was a cool guy. I wish more people were like him.

Favorite Colors

My favorite color is orange. I also love rainbow patterns or color schemes.

Fav Music

TOP FIVE: Kate Bush, Joanna Newsom, Iron & Wine, Lavender Diamond, Lynyrd Skynyrd

OTHER: Sufjan Stevens, Innocence Mission, Lizzo, Sia, My Morning Jacket, Beyoncé, David Byrne, Dawn Landes, Alela Diane, Feist, Florence + the Machine, Y La Bamba, Elvis Perkins, Gillian Welch, Arcade Fire, The Middle East, Santigold, Future Islands, Aimee Mann, Yeasayer, Wye Oak, Tom Tom Club, Liam Finn, Finn Bros, Grizzly Bear, Fleet Foxes, Deerhunter, Cocorosie, Fleetwood Mac, Stevie Nicks, Neil Young

Favorite Movies

Blade Runner, Pee Wee's Big Adventure, Popeye, Any period movie (Jane Eyre, Pride & Prejudice), Seeking a Friend for the End of the World, To Have and Have Not, Tank Girl, Secretary, Star Wars (any), Dune, Harry Potter, The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai, Addicted to Love, Punch Drunk Love, Darjeeling Limited, District 9, ALL the Alien movies.

Favorite Books

I read everything from romance to non-fiction to fanfic. Mainly, I like mysteries and have a few favorite authors like Kathy Reichs, Preston&Child, and Lindsey Davis. I really enjoy very old first-person accounts, like old diaries and compilations of letters. Other favorite authors: Rikki Ducornet, Emma Donoghue, Lois-Ann Yamanaka, Octavia Butler, William Gibson, The Brontë sisters, Banana Yoshimoto. I write fanfic sometimes, but mainly read. I'll tell you my OTPs if you're interested, and would LOVE to hear about yours!

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AlisonKingWriter rated for CS: Christmas Craft swap on Jan 13, 2021
Comment: OMG! Thank you so much- I LOVE the felt sweater ornament! The mail delays determined it didnt get here before christmas but it's absolutely going up next year! Hope you and yours are well! <3 Al
squince rated for NYUP: 3 Weird Postcards on Jan 13, 2021
Comment: Loved them all!! And the cat washi!!
Response: So glad! :):) Thanks for the heart :):)
mamajoy rated for 3 AD Cards Plus . . . on Jan 12, 2021
Comment: An envie full of goodies. Love the ad cards and the extras are so interesting. Thank you.
Response: So glad you enjoyed! :):):) Thank you for the heart.
nanadiana rated for NYUP USA Only #67 on Jan 11, 2021
Comment: Wow! That pc took the long way to get to me, it just arrived today! Thank you for the cute winter postcard. How did the ugly sweater cookies turn out? Sounds like a fun project! Thanks again!
Response: I'm so glad it finally made it! Thank you for the haert :):) The ugly sweater cookies were SO fun, and SO ugly, lol! My nephew won the cash prize with his sweater. :):):)
Comment: Hi, Claire,Thank you for your New Year's card. I'm glad that you put the Ox sticker properly! I heard a deviled egg for the first time. We ate "Toshikoshi soba" with tempura on the 31st. I am very happy to see you last year. (I learned how to put an image because you taught me!) I want to continue a good relationship this year. Happy New Year, lot of love and send a hug! -Mina :)
Response: Wow! It got there so fast. I'm so glad we met last year, too. :):) I just looked up toshikoshi soba and that sounds very special and delicious. Sending many, many hugs to you sweet friend :):):)
Ashzaller rated for A gift from Krampus on Jan 6, 2021
Comment: Thank you so much for the cute towel and krampus stuff! <3
Response: You're very welcome! :):) Happy 2021!
Comment: Thank you for the awesome card and message! I didn't get to put up the Christmas cards I got for 2020, but I will surely try to show this one off for 2021!
Response: I'm so glad! I'm keeping mine to put up too. Hope you have a wonderful 2021!
Comment: Such a cute card, love it! ^^ Hope you had a lovely Christmas! <3 :)
Response: I did! I hope you did too. Thx for the heart! :):)
Comment: Thank you for the nice postcard :) I love making cookies as well! Merry Christmas!
Response: Hope your holidays were wonderful! :):)
Marleen1979 rated for New Years POSTCARD - Int'l on Dec 29, 2020
Comment: Thank you! Love your card, wishing you a wonderful 2021 full of good fortune and blessings.
Response: Happy 2021 to you! Thx for the heart :):):)
Aseret25 rated for NYUP USA Only #67 on Dec 26, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the wonderful Christmas owl postcard! Hope your cookie decorating contest went well!
Response: It did! Everyone was way more into it than I thought they would be, including adults. The winner was chosen in a blind judging, and was quite pleased with the 20 bucks he got :):):) Happy 2021!
Tricia22 rated for Christmas on Dec 23, 2020
Comment: Thank you, love the postcard! May your Christmas be Merry & Bright!!🎄🎅🏻
Response: Glad you loved it! :):) Happy 2021! :):)
Comment: Thank you for the adorable vintage Christmas postcard! I cannot believe it finally showed up (postmarked Nov 23... snail mail for sure) I LOVE making cut-out Christmas cookies as well! Best memories and so yummy! Blessings
Response: I'm so glad it made it! I got a huge load of mail yesterday, some from Nov, so i think the gridlock is getting cleared. Have a happy Christmas! :):):)
PrairieKittin rated for WC ~ Witch balls on Dec 21, 2020
Comment: I wish I could give 12 hearts!! I love this whole package! Thank you so very much!! Even the little Cthulu charm brought squeals of delight!! Thank you, you went above and beyond!!!
Response: Oh, I'm so glad you enjoyed!!! :):):) Thanks for hosting this cool swap! Yours arrived on the same day! Going to rate now :):):)
Comment: Thank you for the wonderfully, weird postcard! I have seen that artist’s work before! She does amazing stuff! Hope you have a wonderful holiday!
Response: Isn't she the greatest!? I can't get enough of her assemblage. Glad you enjoyed! Loving your carved stamps on insta! You are so talented! :):) Thanks for the heart :) Happy Christmas
Carollee922 rated for PTG: Christmas PC Swap #3 on Dec 21, 2020
Comment: Thank you so much for the beautiful PC. I just don't think that I can bring myself to cut it up. It is very cool though. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
Response: I can't cut them up, either! Glad you enjoyed! Merry Christmas! :):)
Comment: Thank you for the awesome fortune teller! I love your art! And the Barbie World of Fashion pamphlet!
Response: Oh, I'm so happy you liked it! Sorry the pamplet was a little scuzzy. I've had it since I was little! :):):) Have fun :):)
bringitb rated for One More Christmas Card on Dec 18, 2020
Comment: Thanks so much for the adorable card and all these amazing goodies! I just love that Nightmare Before Xmas playing card!! =) Have a great holiday season, and thanks again!
Response: So glad you enjoyed! You are so very welcome! Happy holidays! :):):)
brooklynbunch rated for Offensive Holiday Card Swap on Dec 18, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the retro Santa card, the great postcards, and the stickers. Susan (brooklynbunch)
Response: You're so welcome! Glad you enjoyed! Thanks for the heart :):)
coffeef1rst rated for Holiday Postcard Swap! on Dec 17, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the cute postcard.
Response: You're very welcome! :):)

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Meisje on Dec 4, 2020:

Just because ♥

Christmas Christmas


CookieMomster78 on Nov 26, 2020:

You have been one of the lights in a seemingly dark world.

takehimaway on Nov 20, 2020:


debtea2 on Nov 14, 2020:

Hello DYSC?

ittybittykitty on Oct 31, 2020:

Happy Halloween!

ScrapHappyGabi on Oct 31, 2020:

minajapan on Oct 31, 2020:

Thank you for Happy Halloween :) Happy Halloween for you :) :) :) (How do you add a photo ?? I want to be able to do it.) -Mina :)

Autist on Oct 30, 2020:

I don’t know how to add pictures...so...

👻Happy Halloween🎃!!

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shirleyinCA on Oct 29, 2020:

Thanks for your delightful Boo post

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