Swap-bot Time: May 22, 2019 12:00 pm


Date Joined: August 21, 2008
Last Online: May 22, 2019
Birthday: November 5
Country: United States
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Updated March 26, 2019

I dont read my emails often, I do read the pms here, many times a day. So Pm first.

I am thrilled if someone posts fun images to my profile. Despite the explanation from others, I can not do this with my computer.

3/22/19. My husband made it to ONE year, of his new Life with new stem cells. They call it his birthday or his Zero day. He is doing so much better than one year ago. He still tires easily, but he is alive, and not sick. The Stem cell transplant saved his life.

2/13/19. My husband is 90% healed. Can you Imagine that a stranger, from Germany, gave a blood donation of his stem cells, and saved another persons life is a miracle. If you are between the ages of 18-44, "Be the match" would love to have you join the data bank, with a simple cheek swabbing. You might be able to save a life with your stem cells in your blood, not your bone marrow, as in the past.

7/5/18. Amazing news from my husbands last bone marrow biopsy. Before, Jak2 mutations, several Chromosomal mutation, and extreme Fibrosis in his marrow. Today. Jak 2 is negative. He has absolutely NO DNA chromosomal Mutations, and his fibrosis is 0 to 1, which is normal. The stem cell transplant has worked and is creating new blood, new marrow and fixing mutations. Rejoice with us.

Update 4/20/18 My husband came home from the hospital Friday the 13th (April). He calls it his released into the wild day. He is very restricted on what he can eat, do, or where he can go. His Day 100 will be the 4th of July, and he might get off some of the restrictions. He is basically trying to avoid any infections. I now will be home watching him, as required to monitor his for Graft vs host disease, which is basically rejection of his transplant. We go to the Bone Marrow Transplant clinic twice a week for IVs and blood tests and the like. We are watching the Diamondbacks on TV. He is pretty bored. I am pretty busy, cooking, cleaning, dealing with medical stuff. I still have plenty of time for my swaps. yeah!

Update 3/10/18 My husband goes into the hospital March 16th, starting chemo, His Stem cell transplant day zero is March 22nd. He will be in an isolation ward for 3 to 6 weeks.

Update 12/20/17, they found a stem cell match, for my husband!! a 28 year old male outside of the USA who is willing to donate. They keep putting off the transplant date. Now we are scheduled for March, when we should be starting chemo to destroy my husbands bone marrow and begin the stem cell transplant.

9/29/17 My husband Paul, is battling Bone Marrow Cancer. He is working towards a stem cell transplant. His chances of survival are good.

I will have been married 31, Jan 2019 years, We used to be foster parents. We took guardianship of 5 siblings in 2002. YEAH they are all adults now. We are not birth controlled challenged or of any religion or belief that would cause me to give birth 8 times. I stopped birthing babies after 3. (It was not fun anyway) Being a foster parent is really about saving one life at a time. or in my case 5 kids from the same mom. It is like going on a missions trip but you stay home and your house is really messy and your hair is frizzy.

We have both 2 calico cats, UNA and Patches, and one Chocolate point Himalayan, Yetti.

How I got 4 dogs, when I swore I was not a dog person, is very hard to explain. The oldest dog Sadie is 11 and at the request of a friend we took in her unwanted dog 2007. ETA: Sadie Passed peacefully MLK Day 2019. Then I needed Princess, in Aug of 2015 (humane society), then Shyanne, needed me in OCT of 2016, and this year FEB 2017 Tess needed us. So four dogs. And they are all so lovely and sweet. We are family. The last two dogs have some real issues with anxiety. It does make you wonder what happened to them before they came to me. As of 2018 the two dogs with anxiety issues are buddies and really have calmed down. I am so glad my son brought Tess home, as she is a darling dog who was not being appreciated for her true beautiful self at her other home.

My nickname AZmom875 started, because I was counting down, first 8 kids then 7 and I knew in 2007 the 2 boys would graduate HS and move out and we would be down to 5 kids at home. Oh right!!!! Everyone of these kids have boomeranged back more than once. We presently have ONLY 1 adult child at home now. It is grand!

I am CastleQueen5 over on atcsforall.com. Some of you know me over on that website. When I joined there. I wanted a name that didn't reflect my identity being tied up in my role as a mother. I bet some of you can understand that. So I chose to be the Castle Queen. The name came about because, a neighbor told me that I was the Queen of my Castle and my foster kids really need to treat me better. It stuck with me.

Things we leave behind.

Sometimes in life, we take a deeper look and try to decide what would we leave behind if we were to die? What brings me joy while I am alive? After doing some reflection due to having life's big events shoved in my face, I have decided I want to leave behind more quilts for my family and less paper items that might not mean so much to them. I rightly suspect that when I die they might toss all my ATCs and postcards, as they have no meaning to them. My ATCs do bring me joy while I am alive, and some postcards also do. But my future will be focusing creating some quilts to leave behind. No, I am not dying. Well, we are all going to die someday, but I should be fine for another 20 years or so.

ATC card likes and dislikes

FOR ATC cards:
I would HEART: Zebras, Sunflowers, cats, John Cusack, Coffee, Lattes; used postage stamps, butterflies, tea, tea cups, tea pots, fall leaves, trees

Other themes that are appreciated are penguins, zebras, maps or book pages as backgrounds, buttons, vintage, retro, quirky, zetti, frogs, dachshunds, alligators, mice.

I have been collecting Altered playing cards= APCs, Decks with these themes: Geigo Gecko, Zebras, It is too long to list the suits and numbers I still need. Contact me for that.

I dont like Pin up girls or nudes, but do collect cards with females that are positive or quirky.

I dont collect atcs with holiday themes even though I celebrate holidays. I like to collect non holiday themed cards, like a Bat or black cat card but not in a Holiday theme

I do collect the Weird or Bizarre Holiday cards. I host swaps once a month for one bizarre holiday in the group ALL ABOUT ATC. See my profile for the group.

I dont like Halloween atc cards, but I like pumpkins (not jack o lanterns), black cats, fall leaves, I LOVE FALL LEAVES CARDS, any black birds, scarecrows or sunflowers in a fall theme.

I dont collect atcs with Easter bunnies or Easter eggs or baskets, but rabbits, spring flowers, chickens, Crosses or Easter lilies are fine.

I dont collect St Patrick's Day, Valentines day or 4th of July atc cards, any thing patriotic, but I like green, and hearts, and love it when people make a mandala from ugly patriotic stamps.

What brings me Joy

I like items with Zebras, cats, sunflowers, coffee tea, teapots, Geigo Gecko, Black bears as themes

I like the cancelled postage stamps and esp like those with butterflies and sunflowers, hummingbirds.

If you can make Address Labels, I would love that. My computer is a MAC, so when I make labels with Avery, I can only do like 2 different images. BORING! And it doesnt line up correctly.

I do love coffee, esp flavored coffee, except Irish cream. Coffee and K cups are welcomed. I like most teas, except Jasmine and Rose. I am not fond of plain chamomile, mint or green teas, but love them in blends. I like spicy teas, herbal teas, medicinal teas.

For the stuff envelope swap, I mainly make atc cards now, so smaller items that will fit on 3.5x2.5 area. vintage, faces, clocks, animals, silk or paper flowers,paper punches.

I use a lot of chap stick, lip balm items, and lotions, and candles (of all sizes but tapers,) But it is too hot to send that stuff April to OCT. They melt in the packages and make a mess.

Dislikes/ No JOY

I am not real fond of Holidays or Patriotic themes when it comes to ATCS or Paper goods swaps, buttons or notepads or ribbons.

I celebrate and enjoy holidays, but I really dont want any holiday items for scrapbooking, atcs or other papercrafts.

I esp dont like Halloween or Easter Bunnies or Easter Eggs.

Please dont send me Holiday stuff, I will just save it to pass onto someone else cause I cant just throw things away, it goes against the pack rat hoarders oath.

Favorite Movies

I just love time travel movies, I find them awesome: Peggy Sue got married, Premonition, Back The Future Series, Frequency, Lake House, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, Somewhere in Time, and Butterfly Effect...

I like chick flicks, I avoid scary movies, because they give me nightmares; but I will watch anything John Cusack is in, even a rated R movie like Identity and 1408 both which still gives me the willies at night when I think about the movies

Favorite Books

I am on bookmooch.com see link above, and Paperbackswap.com Azmom875 there too.

I can read one book in one day or in a few hours. I can average 60 to 100 pages an hour.

I like mysteries, cozy mysteries esp if they are well done, Magical mysteries, time travel novels, I mostly like Women's fiction, quirky non fiction, or a good Memoir... I like some Christian fiction, but please have a plot, build some real characters or dont waste my time. I dont like the Christian Historical or amish books.

I like chic lit if the girls are not too insipid and slutty. I also like the 40 year old finding themselves after a crisis, kinda like HEN lit, but really just womens fiction. Tell me a good story, tell me a secret, give it a twist at the end. Show me true love not based on lust or throbbing in stupid bodily places. Dont waste my time, life is too short to read sub-par books. I also dont need blood, and gore, and unnec, graphic smut, and unnec. F bombs to find adult fiction enjoyable, but sure do love a good laugh, books that find that perfect blend between love and bedroom. I can tolerate paranormals that about time travel, people with the abilities to see ghosts, or talk to pets. Not into vampires, werewovles, demon hunters, shape shifters.

I do love craft books about quilting, scrapbooking, rubberstamps, or making atcs.

Teas I like

I do swap tea, here and on Paperbackswap.com I like red, black, white,chai and herbal teas regular or decaf I drink both.
I love spice teas, fruity teas, oolong, chocolate, I like yogi, good earth, and traditional medicinals, plus they have fun things on their tags.

I dont care for plain chamomile, mint nor green tea, but they are great in blends of other flavors. Jasmine tea is too flowerly and perfumey for me. I cant gag down the matcha or matte teas.

if you send me a tea I might not like, I will just pass it on, so dont stress about it.


angelgram rated for NATIONAL POSTCARD WEEK + NEW STAMP on May 22, 2019
Comment: I live a states away from a beach. Thank you for the sunset in FL. I knew it would be a good PC when I saw you were my partner. Hugs Mary
Mimi7 rated for Cat themed starter set on May 21, 2019
Comment: Hi Heather Thanks for these sets, love them. Will work on them and send them on soon.
Comment: Great ATC I love it, cute cactus punch. Thank you for swapping. You are very creative .
Candace rated for Kindness Bible Study on May 21, 2019
Comment: Thank you for sharing - and the teas!!
Comment: Thanks! Love the lacemaking stamp.
Tverne05 rated for ATC Cleanout #24 (USA) on May 20, 2019
Comment: Thanks for the selection of ATCs you sent. I can’t wait to use the fancy paper samples you sent.
Comment: I loved both of them-like how you made an extra one to be the note inside. I enjoy our friendship too!
dakotadee rated for Recycled postage stamps on PC #4 on May 17, 2019
Comment: love the way you arranged the stamps. I always think of stamps as miny paintings
myancey rated for BL - Postcard with a Butterfly #2 on May 17, 2019
Comment: Thanks Heather for the pretty butterfly. We see quite a few of them here in ga. At the Tennessee aquarium they have a butterfly exhibit and if u stand real still sometimes they will land on u. It's really cool! Have an awesome day.
PrairieKittin rated for Card Craze - 3 Themes on May 17, 2019
Comment: Wow! Hi again! It has been a while, hasn't it? Thank you so much for the cards. They will come in handy. Thanks!
HappyMom rated for ESG: Mid-month Motivation - May on May 17, 2019
Comment: Your messages are great - I appreciate that we're on the same wavelength 😀
Comment: Hi Heather, thank you so much for another wonderful swap. I loved your envelopes, they made me happy with all the lovely colors and textures. Thank you!
cauchy81sk rated for CSG ~ Pick 3 on May 17, 2019
Comment: Thank you! I also enjoyed reading the letter!
Comment: Thank You 😊
Comment: thank you for the postcard I received today!
iowa05 rated for RAK Stash Clean Out on May 13, 2019
Comment: Thanks much! 😉
yarnigras rated for Book Swap: May 2019 on May 13, 2019
Comment: Hi Heather! Thanks foe the books! I just got them and admit I haven't read either of them!!! I love Robin Cook but somehow managed to miss this one. I'll be reading it sooooon! I gave you a heart because you reached out to me through Goodreads and I thought you deserved it for making the effort to get to know my "likes." :-) Thanks so much! Valerie

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HappyMom on May 22, 2019:


CurlyTea on May 20, 2019:

Thanks for the fabulous junk... Lol I am going to have so much fun incorporating it into my art.

Lonestarchild on May 19, 2019:

Pregnant zebra. Giggle. Thank you!

HappyMom on May 17, 2019:

Mid-month motivation - great advice for BOTH of us!


Tigerlilyknotwise on May 14, 2019:

Thank you for the postcards from your trip! Too bad you didn't get to see any antelope. But at least it was a pretty place. Caves, and rocks, and dams! Oh my! LOL

Lonestarchild on May 11, 2019:

A mere "thank-you" is not enough for the amazing BOX of mags you sent for AWG. This box represents HOURS and HOURS of fun fun for me. Totally love it. Thank you so much!

phillaine on May 8, 2019:

thebragal on May 6, 2019:

Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend. Non-being is the greatest joy. Lao Tzu

He who has health, has hope. And he who has hope, has everything. Proverb

Hope you like these! Especially with what you’ve gone through with hubby.

RAK Stash swap.

Kathy821 on May 3, 2019:

Thank you so much for the wonderful Coffee RAK. You are such a precious person. I can't wait to try all the wonderful coffees. Such a sweet surprise!

kittyhahahotbot on Apr 21, 2019:

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