Swap-bot Time: March 18, 2019 12:38 pm


Date Joined: February 3, 2010
Last Online: March 18, 2019
Birthday: January 21
Country: United States

Intro & mail

Updated & current as of March 5, 2019

Hi there! I'd like to start off by saying that I've been a letter writer and a snail mailer for all of my life! I started swapping by snail mail in the late 1980's with Friendship Books and the like, but I wrote to family members starting when I was about 3! Snail mail it is one of the few constants in my life. I love that with a note or letter, I can learn about a new country, custom or life style, meet a new person, and the world gets a bit smaller and less scary. I've been on and off Swap-Bot for a number of years, and think it can be a really great site.

But I'd like state that - swap-bot isn't my life. It adds to my life, but my world does not revolve around it. I have yet to host or sign up for a swap and not complete it, I've rated everything I've received - or haven't received. But I don't immediately reply to a PM or comment. I'd love to hear from you, feel free to send me a PM or comment on my profile. But give me a chance to reply - it might take a few days.

I'm not looking for drama or complaints, no accusations and hurt feelings. This is my fun hobby.

I learned about the Write On Challenge a few years ago, and I LOVE it. Can't wait for April!

Just recently learned of the InCoWriMo 'vintage social media' challenge for the month of February and completed 28 handwritten, mailed letters in 28 days for my first year!

I'm a member of the Letter Writers Alliance and I recently founded a group here on swap-bot Reading & Writing for those who, like me, enjoy reading (or listening to) books, creative writing, and journal experiments. I love to join and take part in International swaps when possible just to hear about your part of the world. Even if it's in the US. :)

After coming across the Unread shelf Project 2019, I started a group called TBR Bookshelf as well, to keep me on track with my TBR as well as find others in the same situation. :)

I'm usually open to ideas for Private swaps as well, US or International. Just send me a PM!

Please don't feel you need to add tuck ins, if not specified in the swap. I'm perfectly OK with no tuck ins. Actually, I'd prefer no tuck ins unless it's Garfield!

And, although snail mail and pen pals are my first love in life, I need to cut back on pen pals, so I won't be seeking or accepting any new pen pal relationships. It's hard to say no to, but something I need to do. I will join - or host - a letter swap here or there in February and April or for letter writing challenges, but not for a new pen pal relationship.


After I drop my mail off in the blue boxes or at the post office, I mark it 'sent'. The only postmarks I trust are the metered strips from the post office. If you're going to be late, just tell me. It's ok. I am more annoyed with a lack of communication than I am about being a few days late (or whatever) in sending a swap.

I get rather annoyed when people spell my name wrong. It's Cindi, NOT Cindy!

I hate Face book. I do have an account, and I remember to check it about once a year. I have an Instagram account and check it a bit more often - maybe monthly - but don't have 'friends' on either site. I'm fully anti-social media. Please don't ask me to be 'friends' or whatever on such sites, I don't use them. I recently heard a comedian say it's amazing how I can have 750 'friends' but no one to help me move the couch! That's how I feel.

About Me

So, about me & mine:

I'm turning 43 years old in January, married 23 years now, a mom to 3 teens and really am a USAF wife. (USAF = United States Air Force) We are currently in Western Massachusetts. I'm not thrilled with the current presidency or their politics, but I am an American.

I'm not Christian, but am 'Faithfully Religionless'. :) I have read a lot and participated in Wiccan celebrations, and enjoy reading about Buddhism. I sometimes miss the old traditions of the Lutheran services I used to attend, but that's not where my beliefs are. I am "LGBTQ friendly"

I deal with anxiety, migraines and depression, and it sucks. I'm also an Adult Child of Alcoholics. My children have varying levels of "special needs", including anxiety, Autism spectrum, and TBI. I'm a 'caregiver' for those who need it, and it is exhausting most days.

We have 3 pets, all rescues that have traveled the country with us. Ben is a Turkish Van cat, Jack is an orange tiger cat, and Falcon is a Husky mix dog. I'd love to have a hamster, but Ben is just too predatory for small animals. :(

I'm afraid of owls. If you could skip sending me owl images, stickers, washi tape and not decorate the envelope with owls I'd appreciate it. I'm also afraid of deep water and drowning, but I doubt you'll send me a pool, so that's probably ok. :)

Favorites & what I like

I LOVE Garfield. I've loved Garfield all my life, and dearly enjoy getting anything related.

I would like

I prefer NOT to receive 'tuck ins' with swaps, But, if a tuck in is required for a swap,

I like trees, and prefer stars and moons to heart shapes; I prefer silver to gold; My favorite color is blue (dark rather than pastel);

any Garfield item,

rainbows, unicorns, llamas, bulldogs, hamsters, items designed by Laurel Burch; pens - (business / promotional pens, souvenir pens); items with sun/moon/stars; Egyptian Gods/Goddesses (esp. Bast); I love old, abandoned buildings.

Although I cannot read them very well, I LOVE tarot cards. I love the artwork on them, and would be happy to receive a random tarot card - maybe wrap a washi tape sample around it. :)

I re-use or re-purpose as much as I can, prefer used books, and LOVE any paper that's not made from trees. Love the Leaning Tree line of cards and products. Bamboo paper is the best!

I do like coffee, my family likes tea, and we all enjoy hot chocolate (though no artificial sweeteners) We use whole bean coffee, ground coffee, k-cups, Senseo packs, and the Nescafe Dolce Gusto pods! (My husband really, REALLY likes coffee). I prefer Starbucks, and am stuck in the land of Dunkin' Donuts. :/

I don't drink alcohol, and my guilty pleasure drink is Pepsi. (Or Vanilla Coke, when I can find it!)

Cartoonish characters I like include: Garfield, Scooby Doo, Pooh Bear (especially Eeyore), Tiny Toons & Animaniacs, Sanrio's Gudetama, Adventure Time. Regular Show. Also Ziggy and Simon's Cat! :) Please, NO OWLS of any kind

please do not send:

Items that smell like cigarette smoke (I have to throw those away, outside, as they will give me very bad headaches), also please no scented candles, air fresheners, etc. for the same reason.

Items with my name spelled incorrectly

Owl paper, stickers, washi, etc .... I'm afraid of them, so it's actually traumatic.

Patriotic & 'God Bless America' type items - we are a military family, but do not care for those type of items.

Favorite Crafts

I've made some Dotee Dolls, and do some journal swaps. I've made some Pocket Letters, but I think I prefer regular letters. My 'mail art' is usually limited to washi tape and/or stickers - or printed paper, as I make some envelopes, usually from book pages or calendar pages. I like to re-use items when possible.

I buy my stamps online, so I can get a good variety, and they come sealed in individual clear plastic 'bags' with a cardboard - I have started to re-purpose these as envelopes!

Planners I'm not a planner person, but have a Passion Planner - I do like that style more, the binding, size and basic design - as well as a traveler's notebook. Recently started a Bullet Journal and enjoyed The Bullet Journal Method by Ryder Carroll so much, I just bought my own copy of the book! Just doing the basic journal at this point, though. Not adding art and charts.

Favorite Books

I love to read. Prefer used books to new books. Also love audio books. I am on Goodreads, and I log in all my books there. Gave up on the 'book journal' as I do so many swaps for my lists and reviews, I was making several different copies. :(

I'm not a 'collector' of books - I like to practice 'catch and release' - I read it and then trade or donate it. I prefer to use the library and save the money!

Some of my favorite authors are:
Agatha Christie, Stephen King , Shirley Jackson, Timber Hawkeye, Sarah Rayne, Sylvain Neuvel, The Grimm Brothers :) Rick Riordan (LOVE the Percy Jackson series and off shoots)

Some favorite Children's books are Original Winnie the Pooh, Where the Wild Things Are, Oh the Places You'll Go, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, Harry the Dirty Dog, Sweet Pickles series, Cookie Monster and the Cookie Tree, Raggedy Ann books, many Little Golden Books.

Enjoy books about: Haunted houses, ghosts, and fairy tales, mysteries, cozy mysteries, historical fiction or mysteries. I read some biographies and memoirs, but don't care much for self help style books. And don't read many sci-fi or fantasy. And really not a fan of Harry Potter.

I enter giveaways for ARC's on Netgallery and Goodreads. I seem to love the thought of pre-reading a book!

Favorite Television

TV & Movies

Some of my favorite actors are: Robert Downey Jr, Brendan Fraser, Rachel Weisz, David Tennant

TV shows I watch & like: Are You Being Served? (Old BBC show), Supernatural, Sherlock, Dr Who, Northern Exposure, Broadchurch

Favorite Movies: The Mummy, The Haunting, Brother's Grimm, 10 Things I Hate About You, Clue;
Disney's Hercules, Disney's Emperor's New Groove, Disney's Aladdin. Although I'm not a huge Disney fan, I do like enjoy many of the movies and have re-watched them all several times.

Favorite Music

Favorite Music The Monkees,Imagine Dragons,John Mayer, Katy Perry, Joan Baez, Soul Asylum, Enigma,Billy Joel, Daft Punk,Dar Williams, Bjork, Edwyn Collins, Ricky Martin (yes, really. I was a fan of Menudo when he joined, so that lingers). Saw Imagine Dragons in concert in June 2018 and it was amazing! :)

Also like to listen to the PG Comedy channel on Pandora. Some favorites are Jim Gaffigan, Kathleen Madigan, John Mulaney, Mike Birbiglia, Brian Regan.

Stickers & washi

I still love stickers! :) Stickers I would enjoy:

Lisa Frank, Garfield (any, they are the only ones I actually collect & don't use), Scooby Doo, rainbows, books, coffee, flowers, stars/moon/sun, fall/autumn, trees, unicorns are ok, realistic animals like dogs, cats, llamas, giraffes, sloths. I have been a fan of Sloths, Llamas, and Giraffes for many years, and am happy with the images that are gaining popularity now. :)

No owls

Cartoon types I'd enjoy: Garfield, Scooby Doo, Looney Tunes/Tiny Toons/Animaniacs, Muppets, Adventure Time, Regular Show, Muppets, Snoopy/Peanuts, Ziggy, Sesame Street (esp Big Bird and Cookie Monster)

I'd rather NOT receive: holidays, teachers rewards, little kid themes, big- eyed animals, OWLS!!!, hearts. Please do not send American flags or 'God bless America' or the like items.

Washi Tape

I would enjoy tapes with coffee, books, cats, sloths, giraffes, unicorns, rainbows, llamas, stars, moon, trees, butterflies, snowflakes are ok, and I like snowmen. Blue, purple or silver colored. I prefer silver to gold. I don't mind glitter washi tape, as long as it won't "shed" on the paper or in the envelope.


MelbourneGirl rated for World Book Day - Postcard Swap on Mar 17, 2019
Comment: <3Thank you so much for the lovely card with the wonderful dr Seuss wisdom :) :) Have a wonderful Spring! <3
Response: Happy spring :) and thanks for the hart :)
neea1989 rated for R&W: Now hear this! (March) on Mar 14, 2019
Comment: Thank you for making such a fun swap! β™‘ The podcasts "Serial" and "Cabinet of Curiosities" seem really interesting, I will check those out!
Response: Hope you enjoy them. :) thanks for the heart :)
ericabella rated for St. Patricks Day Card Swap #7 on Mar 14, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the sweet card!
Response: thanks for the heart :)
jayneblonde002 rated for TBR: Read an e-book week! on Mar 14, 2019
Comment: Thanks for your review.
Response: thanks for the heart :)
ccmmsu rated for R&W: Found image short story on Mar 13, 2019
Comment: Hi Cindi! I really enjoyed reading your story. It was fun to see things from Jigg's POV as well as the boys. That really is a memorable name for a dog. :) I love the paper dolls, and I like how you made them a big family. It took me back to family reunions when I was a kid (complete with baseball games). Thanks for hosting this swap. I haven't written anything creative in years, and this was the perfect way to get back into it. I'll definitely be watching for more of these swaps. :)
Response: I don' think I've written from the dog's POV before, so that was kinda different. Might have to try it out again. :) The little dog in the picture just reminded me of my dad's stories of his dog when he was young, I had to do it. :) Thanks for the heart :)
hazelwitch3 rated for TBR: Pledge and read! on Mar 13, 2019
Comment: Thanks for your review of 'Still Life'. I've not read any Louise Penny, although a number of people have told me I might like her.
Response: I'm hoping the others in the series are more enjoyable - maybe that just wasn't the right book for me. Oh well. Thanks for the heart :)
Comment: Thanks for the book review. Sorry to hear you were not a fan of the book. I usually quit if I'm not enjoying it. Just too many good books waiting to spend time with one that is not making the cut.
Response: I didn't used to quit a book if I didn't enjoy it, I'd stick with them. But more and more recently, I'll skim ahead a bit to see if it picks up, then bail. I feel a bit bad, but as you said, there are too many good books to spend time with a rotten one! Oh well. Thanks for the heart :)
satinification rated for Post Secret swap #2 on Mar 12, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the letter. In the past, many times I wanted to send my secret, but it was only thanks to this swap that I finally sent one. Thank you for the opportunity. I'm definitely one of those people with "deep dark secrets". Maybe I will send some different one in future. There are often very serious and funny secrets on that website. I will now wait until my secret will arrive! Thank you for that interesting swap :) Have a nice day!
Response: I'm glad you finally got the chance to send in a secret! I didn't share a 'deep dark' one, but it was interesting to send that out. Thanks for the heart :)
tentmari rated for CL: February Reading Log - Paper on Mar 11, 2019
Comment: Thanks for sharing your book list and a brief description of each book. I enjoyed reading what you thought about the books, too.
Response: thank you for the heart :)
MLouiseO rated for St. Patricks Day Card Swap #6 on Mar 11, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the card, and the stickers. I love the card, and envelope.
Response: thank you for the heart :)
cauchy81sk rated for R&W: InCoWriMo letter swap on Mar 11, 2019
Comment: Wow, you have travelled here, that's amazing! :) I also enjoyed reading your thoughts on the bullet journal, and finding a postcard was cool too! :)
Response: Yes, I thought that was pretty random! I haven't traveled much outside the US, so it was a happy coincidence. :) Thank you for the heart :)
Bucket rated for TBR: February update! on Mar 11, 2019
Response: Thanks for rating :)
Drachenfrau rated for R&W: National Reading Month on Mar 11, 2019
Comment: Thank you for your sweet memories, Cindi! :-) "Becoming" is on my tbr-list and my sister loves the audiobook! :-)
Response: I hope you get to enjoy the book, too. :) Thanks for the heart :)
KSENiA rated for CL: 2019 Reading Goals on Mar 9, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the lovely notecard and for sharing your goals.
Response: thanks for the rating and the heart :)
Comment: Thank you so much! I love the washi and stickers!
Response: Glad you liked what I sent. Thanks for the heart :)
fiorellaione rated for R&W: Now hear this! (March) on Mar 8, 2019
Comment: Serial was the first podcast I ever listened! And my first incursion in the audio-only format. I also have several of thos records with short stories in them, but I never played them =O
Response: I used to love those 'read along' books with records or cassettes. I guess now Kindle does something like that, but it wouldn't be the same, would it? Sigh .... Thanks for the heart :)
colleenbUSA rated for TBR: Read an e-book week! on Mar 7, 2019
Comment: That was quick! I'm so glad you enjoyed your book!
Response: Yes, that was a quick read - very good. :) Thanks for the heart !
Comment: Thank you for the Dr. Seuss swag and for joining in! I loved, loved, loved the way you designed the envelope. Uber cool!
Response: So glad you liked it, and thanks for the heart :)
cauchy81sk rated for R&W: In February I read ... on Mar 5, 2019
Comment: An amazing list again! As for the bullet journal, I wrote some comments about it in my InCoWriMo letter swap to you. :)
Response: I"m curious to read your thoughts about bullet journaling. :) Thanks for the heart :)
Comment: Thanks for the reviews! I have to read Sarah Rayne in e-book form as the print in some of her print books is stupidly small!
Response: Yes, I've experienced that as well. Some libraries have had her ebooks, which is helpful! Glad to know it's not just me who finds some print too small! :) Thanks for the heart :)

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Katti on Mar 18, 2019:

Have you received my InCoWriMo letter swap? You haven't rated for that ine yet. I just wonder if it reached you or if I should send it to you again. All the other letters came through. best wishes, Katti

Katti on Mar 18, 2019:

Hello Cindi! Happy St. Patrick's Day! β˜˜πŸŽ©πŸŒˆπŸ’°

jenmcjen on Mar 17, 2019:

Artistic on Mar 5, 2019:

I think I have 'An American Marriage' on Audible waiting to get to. :)

uliaya on Feb 19, 2019:

Dear Cindi! Thank you so much for angeling Happy Holiday Card Swap! I absolutely love all things you sent to me. Thank you very much again and wish you a wonderful week!

mrsD on Feb 4, 2019:

thank you for angeling the HHCS I was flaked on! so kind of you. cheers!!

Lillypooh12 on Jan 26, 2019:

Thank you so much for your RAK! It was incredible! I can’t beleive how much you got in there. I will enjoy using this so much. Thank you again!!!!!

groundhogstamper on Jan 25, 2019:

Your awesome RAK arrived today and I've enjoyed going through everything and will enjoy using all of these goodies. Thank you so very much.

glennasgarden on Jan 22, 2019:

Happy Birthday yesterday!

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