Date Joined: February 3, 2010
Last Online: May 26, 2018
Birthday: January 21
Country: United States
Updated & current as of May 17, 2018 I've decided to save the time and space here and not go into all the "if you don't receive a swap from me, please PM..." because it seems like everyone says that (even flakers), and really, aren't we supposed to contact someone if something doesn't arrive? So, why say it again and again?
About postmarks - They rarely match up here. If you are a post mark reader - I'm sorry. I'm not a postmark reader, but if you are and my send by date doesn't match the postmark (they can be around a week off, I've heard), well, it's really out of my control. If you're going to be late, just tell me. It's ok. I am more annoyed with a lack of communication than I am about being a few days late (or whatever) in sending a swap.
I get rather annoyed when people spell my name wrong. It's Cindi, NOT Cindy! Seriously, if you are addressing mail to me, it's right there in black and white, typed out. Take the second to spell my name correctly! Thanks!
I'm a letter writer. I started pen palling around 1988, from a series of books called "Pen Pals". Anyone remember those? I'm not really looking for new pals, but if you read my profile and think we'd be a good match, please PM me. You can't plan finding a good friend, can you? :)
What I love most about swap-bot is connecting with people around the world, finding common interests and experiences. No other site will really help you 'meet' people in that way. That is what always drew me to pen palling and swapping FB's & xslips, back in the day. I've gotten some very close and long term friends this way. The world seems a little less scary when you realize you're not alone in a situation, or that others have your interests. So, this is my focus with swap-bot. Of course, no one likes to be flaked on or to receive poor quality - well - anything. But for me, the goal is to connect with others. To communicate. If that makes me a 'bad swapper' or a 'poor host' in your eyes, well, then just move on. This is a hobby for enjoyment, this is an opportunity to interact and understand others. Yeah, I'll send international swaps and I'll give new swappers a chance. And I'll rate a 1 or a 3 if the situation calls for it. For me, this is about sharing - thoughts, ideas, mail, information - not about the getting - OR the judging of quality of another's art work.
I'm more interested in the letter, what the writer is telling me, than the gifts and tuck ins, etc.
In 2017, I learned of the Write On Challenge for the National Letter Writers Month of April. How did I not know about this before?!
I'm a member of the Letter Writers Alliance! Love the idea of this club, and would LOVE to send a pigeon! If you know what I'm talking about, send me a PM. :)
So, about me & mine: I'm 42 years old, married 23 years now, a mom to 3 teens and really am a USAF wife. (USAF = United States Air Force) We are currently in Western Massachusetts, but as I've been told too many times "You're not from around here". I was born and raise in Michigan, but that was more than half a life time ago. Of all the places we've lived, I think Colorado was my favorite.
I'm not Christian, but do have my own beliefs. I'll respect you if you respect me! I don't care to label my beliefs, but have read a lot and participated in Wiccan celebrations, and enjoy reading about Buddhism. I sometimes miss the old traditions of the Lutheran services I used to attend, but that's not where my beliefs are. I don't 'hate' anyone for who they are or what they believe. I don't 'hate' any race, religion or group of people. I am "LGBTQ friendly" even though I am a hetro-married woman. It can happen!.
I deal with anxiety, migraines and depression, and it sucks. My children have varying levels of "special needs", including anxiety, Autism spectrum, and TBI. I'm a 'caregiver' for those who need it, and it is exhausting most days.
I'm not a crafter, but I do like to read, write letters, swap. I knit a bit, I cook & take care of the house, the family. I do all the cooking and baking for the family, and while I can't say that I always 'love it' or 'enjoy it', it's part of who I am. I do some sewing (by hand - I swear my sewing machine is possessed.), and like trying out a few crafts here and there, but am not an 'expert' at all.
I have a Passion Planner that I use, and recently purchased a Traveler's Journal and am getting that system set up. But I don't decorate my pages - at least not so far!
We have used an online school for 7 years and counting now. It's not the traditional 'homeschool' - this system has a school body with principal, teachers, counselors who set the standards and classes, and we do the state standardized tests as well.
We have 3 pets, all rescues that have traveled the country with us. Ben is a Turkish Van cat, Jack is an orange tiger cat, and Falcon is a Husky mix dog.
I'm afraid of owls. If you could skip sending me owl images, stickers, washi tape and not decorate the envelope with owls I'd appreciate it. I'm also afraid of deep water and drowning, but I doubt you'll send me a pool, so that's probably ok. :)
I LOVE Garfield. I've loved Garfield all my life, and dearly enjoy getting anything related.
I would like
I like butterfly shapes, trees, and prefer stars and moons to heart shapes; I prefer silver to gold; My favorite color is blue (dark rather than pastel); stationery sheets or letter sets (neatly folded is fine, but not torn/dirty or a messy fold) any Garfield item :)
items designed by Laurel Burch; pens - especially like purple ink - or business/promotional pens, souvenir pens; items with sun/moon/stars; Egyptian Gods/Goddesses;
I love old, abandoned buildings. I don't do the exploring thing (anymore!), but love to see photography of the abandoned buildings, etc. Old churches are the saddest, closely followed by schools;
Animals I like: sloths, llamas, cats, giraffes. Not much into reptiles or fish, in general. Prefer real animal pictures to drawn/cartoon types.
Cartoonish characters I like include: Garfield, Heathcliff, Scooby Doo, Tom & Jerry, The Flintstones, Captain Cave Man, Smoo (remember those?), Pooh Bear (especially Eeyore), Tiny Toons & Animaniacs, Freakazoid, Disney's Gargoyles
washi tape I do like washi tape, and would like tapes relating to books or text, script writing, sloths, giraffes, coffee, cats, unicorns and rainbows, stars, moons, trees. Prefer silver to gold
please do not send:
Items that smell like cigarette smoke (I have to throw those away, outside, as they will give me very bad headaches)
Items that are used or dirty, Items with nudity or profanity, any food items (except factory sealed tea bags), Watchtower and similar religious material. I am happy that you have your religion, but I am not interested in joining, Items with my name spelled incorrectly(seriously, if you are going to 'surprise' me with address labels, please make sure my name is spelled correctly!) Owl paper, stickers, washi, etc .... I'm afraid of them, so it's actually traumatic. any scented items - candles, samples, etc - I cannot use many scented items, so I would rather you not send them,
**Used stamps or post cards - I do not collect them, **Patriotic & 'God Bless America' type items - we are a military family, but do not care for those type of items. **FB's, x-slips, LB's, SB's, etc .... I do not swap them any longer, **Planner items (I use a Passion Planner, but do not embellish it), **Dollar store type items
I HATE it when someone tells me to "just Google it"! If you want to introduce me to something new, that's fine, but I need directions! Refer me to a specific web site, that's ok, but don't tell me to "just Google it".
THE COOLEST journals ever made: http://bookjournals.com
I try some paper crafts, I've made some Dotee Dolls, and do somejournal swaps. I make some envelopes, usually from book pages or calendar pages. I like to re-use items when possible.
I am open to private swaps! I don't mind doing International or newbie swaps. So, please send me a PM if you would like to do a private swap. :)
I would love to try Round Robin journal swaps, as well, with the right group of people.
I love to read. Prefer used books to new books. Also love audio books, use the library Overdrive app and a subscription to Audible.
Books I like
It is, of course, difficult to narrow down just a few favorites, but I do love folk stories and fairy tales (like the real ones, by the Grimm Brothers, not the Disney or Mother Goose versions.)
I love haunted house and ghost stories, always have. I love Egyptian mythology (Goddess Bast watches over me on my desk).
I enjoy memoirs and biographies. "Chaplin" by Charlie Chaplin was an interesting story.
The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson
Agatha Christie mysteries (Especially the Poirot series)
'Buddhist Boot Camp' and 'Faithfully Religionless' by Timber Hawkeye,
I'm a fan of Stephen King ( LOVE The Dark Tower books). Love the way he weaves places & characters through out his books. Also a fan of his son, Joe Hill. Lord of the Rings (but not the Hobbit), love the classic War of the World, and LOVED The Themis Files by Sylvain Neuval.
I read or listened to all of the Harry Potter books (& saw the movies), but preferred the Percy Jackson series by Rick Riordan more than HP. I think it was the mythology. :)
TV & Movies Some of my favorite actors are: Robert Downey Jr, Brendan Fraser, Rachel Weisz, Heather Graham, David Tennant, Anne Hathaway, Julia Stiles TV shows I watch & like: Are You Being Served? (Old BBC show), Supernatural, Sherlock, Dr Who
The Mummy, The Haunting, Brother's Grimm, 10 Things I Hate About You, Clue;
Disney's Hercules, Disney's Emperor's New Groove
Favorite Comedians: I mostly listen to the PG Comedy on Pandora, but also specials from Netflix. Some of the favorites are: Jim Gaffigan, Mike Birbiglia, Kathleen Madigan, John Mulany, Jerry Seinfield (of course!), Brian Regan, Trevor Noah
Favorite Music The Monkees, Imagine Dragons (we are going to a concert in June & am very excited!), John Mayer, Maroon 5 (on occasion), Katy Perry, Joan Baez, Soul Asylum, Enigma, Billy Joel, Daft Punk, Deadmau5, One Republic, 80's music - I grew up with it!, American Authors, Dar Williams, Bjork, Edwyn Collins, Ricky Martin (yes, really. I was a fan of Menudo when he joined, so that lingers), Lady Gaga, Eric Clapton
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