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Date Joined: June 25, 2010
Last Online: August 8, 2020
Birthday: April 28
Country: United States
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About Me

β™₯ in limited contact during the month of July while off exploring β™₯

--home again for the last week of July!

Hello. Welcome to my profile. My name is Phillaine. I live with my sweetheart and our two (magic!) hypoallergenic Siberian cats in a city that's pretty great as far as cities go. My heart's home is in the North Woods, and I aspire to build a tiny cabin to incorporate into our woodland adventures at the family homestead. At the same time, I am very happy to be living in my first-ever (rental) HOUSE which is charming and wonderful and crooked and a century old and in need of lots of love, which I supply with great enthusiasm.

I LOVE to be outside: my happiness is directly tied to the amount of time I spend outdoors. I am thrilled that I now have the opportunity to do work in the yard any and all times that the weather is fine, and I'll never come close to running out of things to do. Also, I'm fortunate to live near an enormous wilderness area which I'm eager to explore.

My current focus is on creating an environment and lifestyle that will support my health and growth. Thank you for joining me here and taking the time to peruse my thoughts.


Things I Enjoy Doing (verbs!)
reading, exploring, traveling, making things (so many things!), planning, being spontaneous (yes, both), making lists, solving problems, visiting with people, being outdoors, taking photos, gardening, baking, cooking, painting, embroidery, crocheting, sewing, paper crafting (e.g. collage, stationery, envelopes and mailers, pocket letters, flipbooks), customizing and photographing Blythe dolls, carving rubber stamps, preparing and sending happy mail by post, writing fairly brief letters and occasional journal entries, solving sudoku and jigsaw puzzles (though I never buy them), playing games like Scrabble, Boggle, Huggermugger, Taboo, Scattergories, Tetris, Alhambra, Arkham Horror, and Skyrim, cuddling up with my kitties while watching shows and working on and/or coming up with ideas for more projects. I am in absolutely no danger of running out of projects. ;)

Things which Interest me (nouns!)
Many sorts of art, literature, and music, folk tales, fairy tales, myths, and legends, intriguing illustrations, thunderstorms, Autumn, Spring, cats of all kinds, wildlife, trees, flowers, etc. (some favorite plants include oak, maple, birch, boxwood, and willow trees, iris, poppies, pansies, columbines, lilies, morning glories, bachelor buttons, clover, bluebells, and magnolias), botanical gardens, orchards, vegetable gardens, rainbows, mischievous fairies, phoenixes, cryptozoology, dinosaurs, TARDIS, Totoro and his umbrella, semi-precious stones and fossils (like spectrolite, moonstone, onyx, ammolite, etc.), sea glass, trains, bicycles, tricycles, unicycles and penny-farthings, clocks, mechanisms, typewriters, strawberries, raspberries, Blythe, photography, many things that are considered "strange," "peculiar," or "dark," I find interesting and sometimes beautiful.

Five Senses
I love ALL of these colors:

Some favorites are autumnal tones, black/greys, All kinds of blues, turquoise, reds, greens, purples-- I do tend to be drawn to more deep, earthy, or rich colors and don't do much with many pastels or neon/day-glo colors.
I especially enjoy ways that colors transform in combination with one another.

Some favorite sounds are rain on a metal rooftop, a crackling wood-burning fire, the sound of lighting a wooden match and the sound of the flame being extinguished by a breath, the songs of crickets and coquis, and the indescribable calm experienced while parasailing.

Some of my favorite flavors/scents are: genuine maple syrup and vanilla, cinnamon, cloves, ginger, nutmeg, cardamom, coriander, and clover; I adore the flavors and, accordingly, the aromas of garlic and curry. I'm crazy about the smell of coffee beans, but can't drink coffee. My favorite scents that are definitely NOT for eating are probably the smell of a wood-burning fire, a forest after rain, and certain cats (the smell reminds me of my grandma's house and our visits there). No eating fire, forests, or kitties.

The cool stone faces of cliffs and canyons, the feel of my hands working through soil and stones or sorting through big bins of buttons, seeds, grain, or other smooth things, cozy homemade quilts of cotton, and the feeling of modal fabrics are all extremely soothing and comforting to me.


Too many to mention! Like I said, I collect myths, folk tales, fairy tales, and legends. Those are my favorites. I have a great fascination with and passion for children's literature. I especially adore Le Petit Prince and The Neverending Story, and reread Heidi and the Little House books every so often when nostalgia attacks β™₯. Some favorite fairy tales (off the top of my head) include The White Cat, Puss in Boots, The Elves and the Shoemaker, Blockhead Hans, and Hansel and Gretel; I'm always in search of stories where the girls and women are clever and play active roles rather than being basically powerless victims who are "saved" by a man. I'd love to hear your recommendations!

As for "grown-up" books, I like interesting fiction that features unique characters and storytelling (my favorite I can think of off-hand is Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut), quirky old books on things like etiquette and education, "vintage," unusual, and vegan cookbooks (I'm not vegan, but am allergic to milk, so this helps). I also enjoy modern nonfiction, especially cultural anthropology and self-help/psychology books (e.g. Blink by Malcom Gladwell and The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker) as well as books on mindfulness and meditation (e.g. Being Peace by Thich Nhat Hanh).

Music, Movies, and Television

Johnny Cash, Regina Spektor, Madeleine Peyroux, Leonard Cohen, Steve Earle, Elvis, Tom Waits, The Ramones, Buddy Holly, Hank Williams, The Beatles, Joan Jett, Mika, Mumford and Sons, Trampled by Turtles, Flight of the Conchords, Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holliday, Patsy Cline, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Led Zeppelin, Clifford Brown, Miles Davis, Sting, U2, Cher (mostly in person--she's a delightful entertainer), Lady Gaga...I enjoy a wide variety of music. I get nostalgic and a little homesick (in a good way) when I listen to the old Grand Ole Opry Country Classics and Blues and Bluegrass and Folk music. β™₯

Edward Scissorhands, Beetlejuice, AmΓ©lie, The Apartment, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Heathers, The Nomi Song, Batman Returns, The Dark Knight, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Coraline, The Amazing Screw-on Head, My Neighbor Totoro, The Skeleton Key, Best in Show, Young Frankenstein, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, The Producers (original version), The Triplets of Belleville, Dallas Buyers Club, Blast From the Past, Sweeny Todd, The Wedding Singer, Despicable Me, Wreck it Ralph, The Good, The Bad, and Huckleberry Hound

Dr. Who, Schitt's Creek, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Bones, Charmed, Arrested Development, Hannibal, Grace & Frankie, The Blacklist, Leverage, The Wire, Breakout Kings, Orange is the New Black, Wentworth, House, Pushing Daisies, Once Upon a Time, The Big Bang Theory, Criminal Minds, Modern Family, Community, RuPaul's Drag Race, Chopped, Cutthroat Kitchen, House Hunters, Fixer-Upper, Property Brothers, Love it or List it, all sorts of HGTV shows. I also enjoy documentaries. Lately, I've been especially enjoying The Great British Baking Show. BAKE!

Yes, Please! and No, Thanks!

Yes Please! (also refer to interests):
I have a great appreciation for things which are both useful and beautiful.

  • fun kitchen tools, potholders, swedish dishcloths, etc.
  • handmade bookmarks, coasters, cotton pillowcases, cotton/bamboo/acrylic scarves (allergic to wool), or a word for my word wall (please sign your artwork) would be lovely
  • I would also be very happy to receive a pocket letter, flipbook, or ATC made by you!
  • Your mail art always makes me smile β™₯
  • Please send me your own personal tried-and-loved dairy-free recipes β™₯
  • Anything on my Amazon or Etsy favorites lists, or things inspired by them
  • stationery--I LOVE stationery, especially letter sets, homemade envelopes and any other colorful/interesting envelopes in mailable sizes, decorative adhesive or gummed labels, and anything made with a letterpress
  • art journal goodies (any brand or good quality homemade is great)
  • nice quality ATC backgrounds (I use these in pocket letters and flipbooks--I can never have too many!)
  • stickers and rub-on transfers: I only use the flat ones, and I enjoy a large variety. As I'm currently exploring mandala-making, groups of 4 or 8 of the same image are especially appreciated
  • washi tape sample cards with a theme (all red, all metallic, cats, floral, etc.)
  • rings or necklaces in any color metal but gold, especially filigree, enameled, and/or natural stones
  • charms
  • pendants
  • stones or crystals
  • information on natural healing (the healing properties of plants, reiki, accupressure, etc.)
  • anything forest related: wildlife, trees, flowers, etc. (see "interests" section)
  • uncommon and interesting quotes
  • stamps, cut-outs, stickers, stationery, etc. with the following words/phrases: "enjoy," "explore," "hello," "surprise" or "surprise inside," "wish" or "make a wish," "happy mail"
  • original "vintage" advertisements, seed packet images or botanical illustrations β™₯
  • cool old playing cards with the colorful drawings/paintings on the backs β™₯
  • I enjoy traditional (not Disney or cartoonish) fairy tale themed items, especially uncommon and/or beautifully illustrated fairy tales β™₯
  • unused US postage stamps of any denomination: I have a special fondness for older (out of print) postage stamps which I can still use to send mail! β™₯
  • ANYTHING from Paper Source, Now Designs kitchen goodies, or pouches/bags from BlueQ would be an absolute delight β™₯
  • pigma micron pens (LOVE these!) β™₯
  • Since my planner literally got flooded (severe water damage), I've started a bullet journal, which is working very well for me. I like that I can easily personalize it to meet my changing needs. The only things I need for it are a black pigma micron pen (I've been using a 01 for daily entries) and colored pencils (I can always use more of those!), and I don't really use planner stickers/decorations.
  • playing card jokers
  • DMC embroidery floss β™₯
  • little embroidery hoops or frames β™₯
  • scraps/pieces of good-quality felt to use in little sewing projects
  • scissors! any and all, especially pretty, fun, quirky or unique
  • letter openers
  • glass, stone, or glazed ceramic pony beads and strong waxed cord-- I have had trouble finding these, but like to use them to make "fidgets" for folks to help alleviate anxiety and improve concentration, focus, and ability to be present
  • any fun things having to do with my other interests

I'm always looking to swap for wishlist items, tools and supplies I'd like for my studio and current projects, and interesting unused U.S. postage stamps I can incorporate into mail art. If you're interested in setting up a private swap, please contact me via PM.

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No thanks:

Please don't send me anything involving violence or gore, political or religious things (spiritual/inspirational=fine, just not religious), or any food or beverage items, makeup, or other personal care items (unless it's something specifically on my Etsy or Amazon wishlist). Thank you.

As for the following things, I simply don't care for them and don't have any use for them, so they'd be better saved for someone who will appreciate them:

touristy or ad postcards, small fabric scraps, kids' craft supplies, foam/puffy/"3D" stickers, sequins, glitter, bling, items that are frilly, over-the-top cutesy, Americana, "country charm," "glam/fashionista," sports, wedding, or baby-themed

Most importantly, please don't send me anything smelling of smoke, mildew, or strong perfumes (I have allergies). Thanks!

Thank You!

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and learn a little bit about me and what I like. It really means a lot to me to know you put such thought and care into your parcels; it makes them personal and meaningful rather than simply transactional. It's the difference that can totally make someone's day. I always read the profiles of my partners for this reason; it's one of my favorite things about swap-bot. So, thanks again! β™₯

Keeping Track

This section is where I keep notes on outstanding swaps/tags/wishes/RAKs/WTAs to make sure everything arrives safely; I always send my swaps on time and try to rate as soon as I can after receiving from my partners.

PLEASE contact me before rating if you haven't received from me or the envelope is damaged; I'm happy to re-send if something gets lost or torn up in the post.


June Wishes Sent

Make a Wish

Wonderful Wishes

May Wishes Sent

Make a Wish

Wonderful Wishes

April Wishes Sent

A Wish Granted (USA)

Make a Wish

Wonderful Wishes

RAKs and surprises pending arrival:

Outstanding Swaps:

Outstanding Tags, Trades, and WTAs:


fabmama72 rated for WIYM: ABCs of washi #2: F-J on Jun 30, 2020
January rated for Challenge Image Swap on Jun 26, 2020
Comment: What a cute owl you carved! And thanks for the variety of stuff - the sticker is great!
Response: You're welcome! I'm happy you like it. β™₯πŸ¦‰β™₯
Comment: Hi Phillaine thank you for the beautiful washi tapes from Sweet Supplies ...they came wrapped up like a little present with gorgeous cute postage stamps from Nippon and a cute little Rilakkuma notecard. Sorry for this late rating..I thought I had rated this already. My apologies. Happy Spring swapping be safe be loved be healthy
Response: You're welcome! The seller was so sweet, she sent me a picture of the way she wrapped them up and everything. β™₯ Thanks for your kind note.
Lillypooh12 rated for UHM: May "Something" Wishes on May 12, 2020
Comment: THANK YOU!! If I could rate higher with so many more stars, I would. This was such a lovely swap and your writing is beautiful! I am so excited to add these things to my daughters scrapbook!! Again, thank you so mcuh!
Response: You're welcome! Thanks for your sweet comment. β™₯ I'm happy you found some things you'll enjoy using. :) It's tricky to predict what style people will like.
Comment: Thank you for everything! They made me smile :)
Response: You're welcome! I'm happy they brightened your day. :)
Comment: I love everything you sent me!
Response: Hooray! 😊 Thanks. β™₯
Comment: What a wonderful envie of B&W. Love the envies and PCs -- such great images! And totally cute snailmail stickers! Thanks for a great swap!!
Response: You're welcome! I'm happy you like them. 😊
Saba rated for Challenge Image Swap on Apr 7, 2020
Comment: Thank you! I love the snail! You did a great job with my prompts. Thanks again!
Response: You're welcome, and thank you! I was really happy with how the snail turned out, and wouldn't have tried to make one if not for your prompt. β™₯
luluvision rated for USA: Puzzle Collaboration #8 on Feb 22, 2020
Comment: Yay! Your resend has made it through! Thank you so much! It's so pretty! It's perfect for looking forward to spring! I appreciate you explaining the method you used, too! Thank you for the pig stationery-so cute! Depending on my mood, maybe I'll pass it on to my daughter since she loves pigs or maybe I'll use it for myself! LOL Thank you for resending!
Response: You're very welcome! It ended up being a good chance to try something totally different, and I'm happy you like the result. As for the pigs, I mean, how can you not smile when you look at that? :)
Rosa1 rated for WIYM: 20 Goals for 2020 on Jan 14, 2020
Comment: Awesome list of goals ~ happy new year!!
Response: Thank you. Happy 2020 to you, too! β™₯
Comment: Update Honey, after long weeks of waiting-time, your re-send is finally there, gr8 joy indeed - just wow and many thanks for every single item incl. Your stamps left all unmarked, hoping to return them to you soon... With seasonal reagards - best wishes for 2020!
Response: It's a shame the first didn't arrive, but I'm very happy you like the second batch of goodies. β™₯ Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year! β™₯
Comment: Thanks so much for your lovely envelope. I adore the address labels and the hot air balloon stamps - so pretty! I'm looking forward to doing the smaller colouring pieces and using those awesome hedgehog stickers. Have a wonderful day. Happy Swapping!
Response: Thank you for your sweet note. I'm happy you like your treats! 😊
Comment: Thank you SO MUCH! I loved everything about this swap - the adorably decorated pink envie, postage, and stickers inside!! Thank you so very much!!!
Response: You're very welcome! Thank you for your sweet note. β™₯
Comment: Thank you so much, Phillaine! I love the stamps and Ace of Diamonds cards! Such a fun swap! I love these swaps! They are so fun to do! Have a great weekend! xx Gabi
Response: You're very welcome! These are some of my favorite kinds of swaps, too. :)
Comment: Thank you so much, dear Phillaine, for this lovely addition to my collection! This die is absolutely stunning - I never had a 30-sided-one. It's really heavy and came in a super cute box. I'm blown away! Thank you for this very special gift! <3 I'm so happy to be back on the bot and back in touch with wonderful people like you.
Response: Hello, sweet Sophie! I'm sorry I didn't respond to your lovely message sooner. I was happy to find you were my partner and had a lot of fun hunting down this special die for you. I'm glad to hear that it's as nice in person as I'd hoped. I see you haven't been online in a little while, and I wasn't from January-March either, but I hope we'll be back in touch soon.
Comment: WOW! Thanks for this brilliant use of washi tape to make this house ATC! I never would have guessed, if you hadn't told me. Hugs from Alaska, Sherry
Response: Thank you for your kind message, Sherry! It was a fun challenge, and I'm very happy you like the way it turned out. :)
bluesky rated for PBS: Profile-Based Sticker Swap on Nov 21, 2019
Comment: ....made for a happy kiddo and stickers all over 😁 thank you!
Response: You're welcome! It was fun putting it together, and I'm happy she had fun with them. :)
Comment: Thank you for the very sweet needle book! I love the colors you chose & the care you took in making it. The little strawberry applique & the owl fabric are especially adorable!
Response: Thank you for your kind message. This was one of my favorite projects I've ever done for a swap, and I had a wonderful time choosing fabrics and designing it just for you, especially since we have such similar tastes. β™₯
Comment: Colors held up beautifully!
Response: I'm so glad! I'll have to try this technique again, then. :)
weatherwax rated for WIYM: Annual Mail Call Swap 2019 on Nov 4, 2019
Comment: Wow Phillaine, what a wonderful envelope!! Thank you so much for a fabulous and thoughtful swap. Everything is profilebased and delightful. I loove every single bit. I really do :) Your note, those stickers :), all the fab cut outs and envelopes. You really made my day. Thank you!! (Did I mention your envelope. I love it!!)
Response: Thank you!! β™₯ Now you made my day!

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susieq11 on Jul 7, 2020:

Thank you for the June wishes from Make A Wish! I love the Peanuts cards and your book list! Best is always your sweet notes, and even leaving me the bottom section of the adorable deer paper! Wishing you a happy month of July and thanks always for your beautiful mail. I can always feel the peacefulness and care you put into it. XOXO

anicka22 on Jul 6, 2020:

Thank you for the lovely June wish. Receiving mail fro you makes me always so happy!

kiddomerriweather on Jun 30, 2020:

Thank you for the super fun and thoughtful birthday gifts! I've been wanting some neon pens for such a long time. All I had were highlighters. I'm so thrilled to have them. I was just looking for robot washi the other day. I really like the style you sent. I love the colors of the other roll. I'm really into orange a lot these days. Your gift really brightened my day!

Ciska76 on Jun 27, 2020:

Thank you so much dear phillaine for sending me all those summer vibes. We are having lovely summer weather with some summer showers (makes the garden happy as well). Have a lovely summer πŸ˜ŽπŸ’Œ

LadyJo on Jun 25, 2020:

Thank you for the WW for June and sending me the neat summertime journal cards!

kiddomerriweather on Jun 23, 2020:

You're welcome. It reminds me of either Keane or Gig. There were 16 in the package, but I framed one of each. They look really cool framed. I think I'm down to 3 cards now. I went through them really fast.

anicka22 on May 28, 2020:

Thank you for your lovely letter! Will reply soon!!

xninolax on May 28, 2020:

Thank you so much for your beautiful faeries and mermaids for the Make a wish May! I love all included! A little something is on the way to you too ;)

susieq11 on May 27, 2020:

Oh Phillaine!!! Thank you very much for the amazing and beautiful birthday wish for Make A Wish May!!! Wow!!!! Your card and note would have been more than enough - you really spoiled me!! The Marjolein Bastin organizer is just gorgeous!!! And so very useful! I’m so excited to have it. Thank you for being so thoughtful, generous and kind ALWAYS!! I can’t express how much I love and appreciate your gift!!! XOXO

BasketWorks15 on May 25, 2020:

Thank you for the birthday goodies in card. Got them Saturday. The wonderful teal labels will be put to good use! 😻

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